I want my roomate

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:17 PM

Only real answers PLEASE

I'm a girl and want to hook up with my male roomate. I'm not looking for a realtionship and I don't think he is also. I talk about my dates and guys and he talks about girls sometimes. He knows I have mutipul men calling me at all times but not hooking up with them. I told him a bunch of times I think I'm too young for a realtionship. Ive been living here for 2 months and I know he finds me attractive and he get REALLLY nervious around me sometimes. I know i'm 100% his type from seeing pictures of other girls he dated.
Anyway, Ive been doing the thing, walking about braless and semi see through top, talking about sex, giving super flirty smiles ect. I know he likes it but doesnt know what to do about it. I feel that im giving a lot of signals and i dont know how to get close enough to make something happen. I asked him to bbq with me and have beers but he had other plans so I dont want to keep asking and feel stupid. Before he told me he was going to at a party djing and asked me to come, but I didn't want to go alone so I didn't go. This was before I asked him to go BBQ. I think he was just invited me for his friends anyway. I just want to have casual sex with him for a few months and NOT risk loosing my appartment over this since he owns it. I think if I ask him to hang out again hes gonna think i like him more then sex. He's 5 years older then me also. I realllly dont know what he's thinking, i can be totally wrong...

What should I do without being wayyy too foward? I want to say something so he knows im into him so he can feel good about making a move or plotting to hook up, like ask me to hang out one on one..I caught him looking at me a bunch of times, and when I see him looking he freaks out and starts rubbing his head cause hes nervious... lol!

**ClearlyCanadian** · 06-21-2006, 07:31 PM

Just walk up to him, grab his face with both your hands and kiss him on the lips italiano style.

**Thy_Kingdom** · 06-21-2006, 07:32 PM

Piitb?

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:33 PM

What a gay, if you had been doing that **** to me i would have tried to make a move on you nervous or not.

Why not just put on some PHYSICAL signals, such as touching, hugging etc.

Pinch his ass?

Or ask him to give you a back massage and try to move it forward from that.

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:33 PM

lol, that might scare him. I don't want to give him a heartatack

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by sweetthang

lol, that might scare him. I don't want to give him a heartatack

Rape him, you know every male has that dirty fantasy.

Seriously a woman raping me would be excellent.

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by No Morals

What a gay, if you had been doing that **** to me i would have tried to make a move on you nervous or not.

Why not just put on some PHYSICAL signals, such as touching, hugging etc.

Pinch his ass?

Or ask him to give you a back massage and try to move it forward from that.

pinch his ass? NOOO i dont want to make him scared!!! trust me, I'm intimatating big time. He's scared ****tless of me

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:36 PM

Originally Posted by No Morals

Rape him, you know every male has that dirty fantasy.

Seriously a woman raping me would be excellent.

I want to soo bad, you have nooo idea!!!

**jdhsgsdgsd** · 06-21-2006, 07:38 PM

what state are you in??

if i were u id put a movie turn lights off invite him to watch it with u.. during the movie kinda lay on him and gently rub your hand on his chest, etc.. he'll get the idea..

**tarun_s** · 06-21-2006, 07:39 PM

rent a porno and invite him to watch it?

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by tarun_s

rent a porno and invite him to watch it?

i Rofled.... then he calls cops cause hes living with a pervert ROFL.

**Leaf12** · 06-21-2006, 07:40 PM

If you're really a girl, and are attractive, there should be no f*cking problem at all.

You: "oops, I dropped my keys, let me pick them up!"
Him in his head: "oh wow, what a fine piece of ass. I want to ravage that slut."
You, while peeling a banana: "you look good in that"

If he doesn't make a move by this stage, he is either a total pussy, or finds you ugly.

If you are hot, and gave me half of the signals that you gave that ***got, I would have already f*cked the s*it out of you.

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:42 PM

Originally Posted by Leaf12

Him in his head: "oh wow, what a fine piece of ass. I want to ravage that slut."

ROFL

**ispy** · 06-21-2006, 07:43 PM

You're 27, you're too young for a relationship, and you're intimidating this guy?

This thread is worthless without pics.

**tarun_s** · 06-21-2006, 07:43 PM

lol. nah think about it. if a girl rents a porno (no mans land, asian edition) would you call the cops and think she's a pervert? me, i'd be all over that ****.

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:45 PM

This thread is useless without pics.

(it had to be done.)

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:46 PM

Originally Posted by jjman2322

what state are you in??

if i were u id put a movie turn lights off invite him to watch it with u.. during the movie kinda lay on him and gently rub your hand on his chest, etc.. he'll get the idea..

we dont have a TV hooked up yet!

**devil_s haircut** · 06-21-2006, 07:48 PM

As forward and immature as some of these posts seem, they're pretty much right on the money. Physical contact is probably the best way to initiate something. It DOES seem like he isn't getting the point yet, so I'm gonna go ahead and say he's a dumbass. But step it up a notch, or better yet, get him drunk. Loosen him up, then go in for the kill.

Although to be honest, I think it'd be weird to have sex with my roommate.

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by Leaf12

If you're really a girl, and are attractive, there should be no f*cking problem at all.

You: "oops, I dropped my keys, let me pick them up!"
Him in his head: "oh wow, what a fine piece of ass. I want to ravage that slut."
You, while peeling a banana: "you look good in that"

If he doesn't make a move by this stage, he is either a total pussy, or finds you ugly.

If you are hot, and gave me half of the signals that you gave that ***got, I would have already f*cked the s*it out of you.

YAYA ok you guys talk a big game and im sure he says the same things to his friends. Trust me, im doing the same sorta moves.

**jdhsgsdgsd** · 06-21-2006, 07:49 PM

Originally Posted by sweetthang

we dont have a TV hooked up yet!

so what state are you in?

**Leaf12** · 06-21-2006, 07:50 PM

Originally Posted by sweetthang

pinch his ass? NOOO i dont want to make him scared!!! trust me, I'm intimatating big time. He's scared ****tless of me

Hmm... intimidating in what way?

I hope you're not a man.

Like if you have man hands, perhaps he finds that intimidating. I would find that pretty damn intimidating myself.

Or, if you look like Rosanne, well that would be very intimidating.

There could be a **** load of reasons why you're intimidating - please explain yourself.

**No Morals** · 06-21-2006, 07:53 PM

Maybe she beats him up and treats him like her manslave.

**tarun_s** · 06-21-2006, 07:54 PM

no really, this thread is useless without pics.

and how the heck do you survive without tv???

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by devil_s haircut

As forward and immature as some of these posts seem, they're pretty much right on the money. Physical contact is probably the best way to initiate something. It DOES seem like he isn't getting the point yet, so I'm gonna go ahead and say he's a dumbass. But step it up a notch, or better yet, get him drunk. Loosen him up, then go in for the kill.

Although to be honest, I think it'd be weird to have sex with my roommate.

i know, i think he doesnt want it to be weird or something. I dont think it will be. i dont care but maybe he takes sex more serious then me? I dont get attached ..

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by Leaf12

Hmm... intimidating in what way?

I hope you're not a man.

Like if you have man hands, perhaps he finds that intimidating. I would find that pretty damn intimidating myself.

Or, if you look like Rosanne, well that would be very intimidating.

There could be a **** load of reasons why you're intimidating - please explain yourself.

looks wise. He's shy and it takes him time... he's one of those types.

**Leaf12** · 06-21-2006, 07:59 PM

Originally Posted by sweetthang

i know, i think he doesnt want it to be weird or something. I dont think it will be. i dont care but maybe he takes sex more serious then me? I dont get attached ..

How I wish this kind of woman came along more often.

You don't get attached... a nice quality imo.
I could f*ck you, and then not have to listen to your bitching, and ranting about stupid s*it that I don't care about. Only if you're hot, of course.

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by Leaf12

How I wish this kind of woman came along more often.

You don't get attached... a nice quality imo.
I could f*ck you, and then not have to listen to your bitching, and ranting about stupid s*it that I don't care about. Only if you're hot, of course.

I know, i dont see the problem. I think its a little more complicated then you guys think though.

**stealth_swimmer** · 06-21-2006, 08:02 PM

Maybe he was just raised a certain way or has certain beleifs that are holding him back. I don't believe in doing that sort of stuff without being married, but from what it sounds like I'd have given in already. I mean come on, I'm only human. Maybe he's really a robot?

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 08:04 PM

i just dont think he sluts around

**sweetthang** · 06-21-2006, 08:07 PM

Comeon! I Need Help Getting Close!

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