what to do with a girl that wont blow

Assassinator · 02-26-2008, 06:38 AM

everyone of us loves blowjobs.

my girl will only do it on a special occasssion, maybe once every 2 months , or if i beg her ... which i dont think i should have to BEG !

once she blowed me when she was on her period and when she wanted me to buy her something, she says it grosses her out ... also long kisses arent her favourite, anyway .... everything that comes to use with her mouth, she doesnt like, she enjoys sex when its done quickly and maybe only on special occassions will we do it 2-3 times,i even enjoy going down on her and she doesnt enjoy it...... our lives are busy but that is not an excuse to have sex 3-4 times a week and we are often at home in bed, this is a relationship that is hitting its one year anneversary.

I do love her im not willing to throw her away but i am not going to give up sexual pleasures that i need as a man.

suggestions and comments welcome.

Brian McGee · 02-26-2008, 06:44 AM

Just scam her. Say you'll buy her something, then say you forgot and you need more reassurance, etc etc.

Allen Iverson · 02-26-2008, 06:45 AM

Havent you posted this before already?

Drew23 · 02-26-2008, 06:45 AM

Get used to it or get rid of her, she's not going to change.

Qijofeuih · 02-26-2008, 06:45 AM

Honestly I would say your girl isn't worth it.

Any woman that doesn't love my dick, doesn't love me. Top it off with not liking her pussy licked and you have a plain out sexually-retarded woman who brings no sexual enjoyment to a man.

She's either childish or a prude who thinks sex is dirty and "wrong". I don't care if a girl is a 9/10, this type of behavior would call for dismissal if she didn't get her act together.

You should tell her that she is making you sexually frustrated and you just can't handle it and she needs to try harder to meet your needs. That she shouldn't make you choose between a healthy sexual life and her. You should be able to have both. That is what a relationship is about, you do things you don't want to do because it pleases your partner. She needs to grow up.

Qijofeuih · 02-26-2008, 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Assassinator

everyone of us loves blowjobs.

my girl will only do it on a special occasssion, maybe once every 2 months , or if i beg her ... which i dont think i should have to BEG !

once she blowed me when she was on her period and when she wanted me to buy her something, she says it grosses her out ... also long kisses arent her favourite, anyway .... everything that comes to use with her mouth, she doesnt like, she enjoys sex when its done quickly and maybe only on special occassions will we do it 2-3 times,i even enjoy going down on her and she doesnt enjoy it...... our lives are busy but that is not an excuse to have sex 3-4 times a week and we are often at home in bed, this is a relationship that is hitting its one year anneversary.

I do love her im not willing to throw her away but i am not going to give up sexual pleasures that i need as a man.

suggestions and comments welcome.

I missed that part. So basically she's trading sexual acts for money?

Tell her to suck you off and if she asks for something in return, say you'll buy it for her. After she's done and you're happy and she starts asking about the gift say this.

"Buy you something, why?"
"Eh?I did what you want and you promised to buy me something for it."
"So basically you sucked my dick for money?"
"Wtf?You're the one that said you would pay for it."
"So basically you're a whore?"
"**** you! You know I don't like doing it."
"Ok so yea, basically the only way I can get you to make me happy is by paying you?Yea.. that's the definition of WHORE."

crinoid · 02-26-2008, 07:32 AM

maybe if she got to see how good it felt on her, she'd be more willing to do it for you ...

BballBuilder · 02-26-2008, 07:35 AM

dump her.

-_- · 02-26-2008, 07:41 AM

YOU SERIOUSLY ASKING???

YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THE MISC THINKS YOU SHOULD DO

Replicator · 02-26-2008, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by -_-

YOU SERIOUSLY ASKING???

YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THE MISC THINKS YOU SHOULD DO

Tell her to fuk off and jizz in her face?

BLACK-ICE · 02-26-2008, 07:54 AM

It sounds like you have someone unexperienced in the "sexual" department. Majority of women who are just getting into the game find just about everything disgusting. Men are just plain horny and dont have the time to find anything disgusting. LMAO!

If you want her to change, you are going to have to do a lot of pleasuring to her. I would highly recommend you getting her in the mood first. We all men find a blowjob something quick to get a nut, while women find it to be more of an emotional thing. ( Unless your woman is just a freak.... AMEN!!!)

dog20 · 02-26-2008, 08:38 AM

you should try MonarchX's punishments. that'll make her change her mind.

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Originally Posted by MonarchX

You could do all kinds of things for a punishment:

Stick her face in your ass and take a ****
Cut small bits and pieces of her clit
Put small sharp object in her vagina/ass
Put on a mask, pretend to be someone else and rape her

The list goes on.

atrain11b · 02-26-2008, 08:41 AM

I ended up marrying her...

BloodyR · 02-26-2008, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by atrain11b

I ended up marrying her...

ouch

did she change ?

atrain11b · 02-26-2008, 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by BloodyR

ouch

did she change ?

No but she has gotten better. Now I get one everytime I come home from overseas.

Qijofeuih · 02-26-2008, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by atrain11b

No but she has gotten better. Now I get one everytime I come home from overseas.

Ouch man. Know what you should do?

Some day when she's sleeping just start jacking off and then walk up to her and bukkake her all across the face and then smack your dick against her forehead like you're a woodpecker and be like "Suck...".

Just keep holding it up and letting it drop down and hit her until she either gets pissed off and kills you or sucks you off.

atrain11b · 02-26-2008, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikay

Ouch man. Know what you should do?

Some day when she's sleeping just start jacking off and then walk up to her and bukkake her all across the face and then smack your dick against her forehead like you're a woodpecker and be like "Suck...".

Just keep holding it up and letting it drop down and hit her until she either gets pissed off and kills you or sucks you off.

She would probally laugh if I did all of that but bukkake her face, once I did that then she would kill me.

But, she comes to see me here in Korea in April, so I will keep this post in mind.

shivsean · 02-26-2008, 09:48 AM

Well said young man. Repped. OP, you have a tough road ahead of you. I am almost twice your age and I currently deal with this **** from my G/F. I have gotten so frustated I read her the riot act numerous times and told her to get lost. She is making very small baby steps to correct the problem but I don't think it is gonna cut it... I have to make it a point to get her to fuk me twice a week. And this chick tells me we should get married - what are you fuking nuts?

Mikay says it best. If your girl ain't eating your dick at the drop of a hat and loving it, something is wrong with HER and there is not much YOU can do about it. Bottom line OP is that men want pussy and you are going to drive yourself nuts if you are constantly unsatisfied with your girls sexual side. Remember the problem is with HER, not you.

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Originally Posted by Mikay

Honestly I would say your girl isn't worth it.

Any woman that doesn't love my dick, doesn't love me. Top it off with not liking her pussy licked and you have a plain out sexually-retarded woman who brings no sexual enjoyment to a man.

She's either childish or a prude who thinks sex is dirty and "wrong". I don't care if a girl is a 9/10, this type of behavior would call for dismissal if she didn't get her act together.

You should tell her that she is making you sexually frustrated and you just can't handle it and she needs to try harder to meet your needs. That she shouldn't make you choose between a healthy sexual life and her. You should be able to have both. That is what a relationship is about, you do things you don't want to do because it pleases your partner. She needs to grow up.

Qijofeuih · 02-26-2008, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by shivsean

Well said young man. Repped. OP, you have a tough road ahead of you. I am almost twice your age and I currently deal with this **** from my G/F. I have gotten so frustated I read her the riot act numerous times and told her to get lost. She is making very small baby steps to correct the problem but I don't think it is gonna cut it... I have to make it a point to get her to fuk me twice a week. And this chick tells me we should get married - what are you fuking nuts?

Mikay says it best. If your girl ain't eating your dick at the drop of a hat and loving it, something is wrong with HER and there is not much YOU can do about it. Bottom line OP is that men want pussy and you are going to drive yourself nuts if you are constantly unsatisfied with your girls sexual side. Remember the problem is with HER, not you.

Don't take **** from women. If someone disrespects you just cut them out of your life. Don't be friends or talk to them ever again. Women are ment to increase your happiness. When they stop making you happy and start depressing you, it's time to get rid of them. You don't need someone in your life that brings you down.

There's plenty of women in the world and you can always find a new one who might treat you right.

I like to think of them as accessories to your life. Like say the same as your car.(Not exactly the same but same principle) Of course you like your car but if it disappeared one day, your life would still go on. You don't spend all day thinking about it 24/7, you have a life outside of your car and you should have a life outside of your woman. She shouldn't be your only source of happiness in life but she should add to your happiness and not lower it. If she doesn't then she isn't doing what you intended her to be. She's supposed to make you happy and you're supposed to make her happy.

Oh yea. Your haircut rocks

I have the same 1

MIKES3 · 02-26-2008, 11:05 AM

Sounds like someone throat fuked the **** out of her in the past and now she is tainted over it

Emoore · 02-26-2008, 12:41 PM

Maybe you could start out by including a few minutes of oral sex within a longer sex session? For women who are inexperienced with it, there's this feeling that "I have to sit here and suck on this thing until he finishes. How long is this going to take? I have no idea what I'm doing. Am I doing this right? My neck is cramping up, my jaw hurts, I really hate this. . ." If she could start out by just licking and sucking on you for like 30 seconds or a minute as a part of foreplay and then move on to something else, it might make her more comfortable with it. After she's more used to it you could raise the subject of longer oral sex sessions-- for you and for her.

Whatever you do, while she's still getting used to it, let her know if you're going to come and don't try to trick or force her into having you come in her mouth if she's not ready. That will make sure she never wants to do it again.

Good luck, man.

SkarTissue · 02-26-2008, 12:42 PM

my ex was like that all the time

I piitb all the time instead and she loved it

vegeta9000 · 02-26-2008, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Assassinator

everyone of us loves blowjobs.

my girl will only do it on a special occasssion, maybe once every 2 months , or if i beg her ... which i dont think i should have to BEG !

once she blowed me when she was on her period and when she wanted me to buy her something, she says it grosses her out ... also long kisses arent her favourite, anyway .... everything that comes to use with her mouth, she doesnt like, she enjoys sex when its done quickly and maybe only on special occassions will we do it 2-3 times,i even enjoy going down on her and she doesnt enjoy it...... our lives are busy but that is not an excuse to have sex 3-4 times a week and we are often at home in bed, this is a relationship that is hitting its one year anneversary.

I do love her im not willing to throw her away but i am not going to give up sexual pleasures that i need as a man.

suggestions and comments welcome.

i dont like blowjobs. i dont even let a girl do it to me i actually stop her if she tries.

i would rather PIITV without a condom. feels way better