what's up with this girl?

[festivus4us]

Ok, so im at college, and there are these hot twins. one of them is going out with a friend of mine, and the other apparently told him that she likes me and thinks im hot. ok. so we went partying the other night and the whole time she was all over me and ****...she was holding my hand any chance she got and her hand was in my back pocket the whole time, when other girls would talk to me, shed come over and be like hey...blah blah blah. ok. so we were both very drunk, and we were laying in her bed just watching a movie and getting to second base...this other dude was texting her and ****....so im like o is that your boyfriend. shes like no this guys a stalker. im like tell him u have a new man... shes like i know, i like you. so we were both mad drunk but im a decent guy at that point im not taking advantage of anybody.

so tonight we had our gang out again and we went to another party. well it was like completely different. idk but, the dude she was texting was there and he kept on giving her drinks, giving her drinks...getting mad touchy with her and stuff...and she was obviously blasted....well anyway....my main point is this.

i like her, im pretty sure. im sure if i end up dating her she will obviously not act like that, but ok. so next weekend i cant party with her cause im going home for the weekend. i was planning on giving her my number and stuff and telling her to text.call me when she wants...

guys, help me out with this situation. advice/pointers/tips/criticism....w.e, just give me some input.

[mrbeverage]

seems to me you've learned more about this girl in two meetings than some people learn about each other in two years. what ever you do dont get her name tattooed on your arm yet.

[Reincarnation]

This will be good, date her and try to arrange a 3some with her hot twin sister.

[forcefedfreak]

I'm confused as to what your problem is? This girl is into you. She acts like she is into you, she talks like is into you, she tells people she is into you. Exchange numbers asap, and just relax on it man. You're over analyzing the situation.

I know girls that HATE certain guys (like the "stalker" mentioned in your story) but still act friendly towards them in social situations (some people are just completely afraid of confrontation)

Anyway good luck. Pics? haha. I love twins.

[festivus4us]

I'm confused as to what your problem is? This girl is into you. She acts like she is into you, she talks like is into you, she tells people she is into you. Exchange numbers asap, and just relax on it man. You're over analyzing the situation.

I know girls that HATE certain guys (like the "stalker" mentioned in your story) but still act friendly towards them in social situations (some people are just completely afraid of confrontation)

Anyway good luck. Pics? haha. I love twins.

lol, well maybe if i start going out with her i can post up some pics...

but i was thinking it was probably a combination of her being drunk and not wanting to be an ass to the guy and him being overly touchy towards her....but in the past if a girl is into me, she's gonna try and hang with me during the party....

idk i guess i am just over analyzing.

[Reincarnation]

lol, well maybe if i start going out with her i can post up some pics...

but i was thinking it was probably a combination of her being drunk and not wanting to be an ass to the guy and him being overly touchy towards her....but in the past if a girl is into me, she's gonna try and hang with me during the party....

idk i guess i am just over analyzing.

It is not an option, It's a demand. Pics now!

[MR87]

you want a girlfriend who accepts drinks from a stalker? = date rape. your a sucker.

[NJPump]

She obviously knows this other dude and isnt a stalker.

Seems like she still likes this dude.

Best way to do it is to bring it up to her and talk to her about it see what her feelings are on u and him and just in general.

[gixxer2184]

[festivus4us]

She obviously knows this other dude and isnt a stalker.

Seems like she still likes this dude.

Best way to do it is to bring it up to her and talk to her about it see what her feelings are on u and him and just in general.

yeah, im going to have to talk to her when shes sober

[J3T]

try and ask her if she wants a relationship?

p.s. cut out the alc sometime lol

[festivus4us]

try and ask her if she wants a relationship?

p.s. cut out the alc sometime lol

o yeah...well when we were both drunk it was good...but last night i wasnt drinking and she was so...

[festivus4us]

and wen we were drunk she was all over me and stuff thats what i dont get how it can contrast so much in 1 day. we were in her bed and we were feelin eachther up....we only couldnt go further because 2 other ppl were in the room too.....

im just wondering if she does like me or she doesnt anymore or sumtin...idk im gonna have to talk to her

[roccobladr]

she told her sister and friends she likes you...she told you she likes you...you were all over each other in bed...

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[festivus4us]

she told her sister and friends she likes you...she told you she likes you...you were all over each other in bed...

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yes...which made it seem good.

then the next day, we went to a party and she pretty much ignored me...and this other guy is the guy who was texting her the whole night she was with me...he was all over her at the party....(the previous night she was all over me and me her, but this guy was just over her...im thinking maybe im over analyzing or something....) shes known him for a while, and hes liked her. she just met me. idk what to make of it.

[festivus4us]

and how am i failing? wtf?

[festivus4us]

hmmm...

[Pridehurtsform]

Ok, so im at college, and there are these hot twins. one of them is going out with a friend of mine, and the other apparently told him that she likes me and thinks im hot. ok. so we went partying the other night and the whole time she was all over me and ****...she was holding my hand any chance she got and her hand was in my back pocket the whole time, when other girls would talk to me, shed come over and be like hey...blah blah blah. ok. so we were both very drunk, and we were laying in her bed just watching a movie and getting to second base...this other dude was texting her and ****....so im like o is that your boyfriend. shes like no this guys a stalker. im like tell him u have a new man... shes like i know, i like you. so we were both mad drunk but im a decent guy at that point im not taking advantage of anybody.

so tonight we had our gang out again and we went to another party. well it was like completely different. idk but, the dude she was texting was there and he kept on giving her drinks, giving her drinks...getting mad touchy with her and stuff...and she was obviously blasted....well anyway....my main point is this.

i like her, im pretty sure. im sure if i end up dating her she will obviously not act like that, but ok. so next weekend i cant party with her cause im going home for the weekend. i was planning on giving her my number and stuff and telling her to text.call me when she wants...

guys, help me out with this situation. advice/pointers/tips/criticism....w.e, just give me some input.

im being honest here, and not one of those players who always say "hit it and quit it!" this girl is tyring to make you jealous. she's playing a game now, and if you date her she will continue to play games. so what im saying is make her a **** buddy. act like you dont care about her. beat her at her own game. if you cant. then you'll never have an alpha relationship, and she'll be the one who wears the pants in the realtionship. at that point try with someone else.

[festivus4us]

im being honest here, and not one of those players who always say "hit it and quit it!" this girl is tyring to make you jealous. she's playing a game now, and if you date her she will continue to play games. so what im saying is make her a **** buddy. act like you dont care about her. beat her at her own game. if you cant. then you'll never have an alpha relationship, and she'll be the one who wears the pants in the realtionship. at that point try with someone else.

i think you're reading it wrong man.

we just met. that night where we were ****ed up and all over eachother was the first time we ever hung out...i doubt shes trying to make me jealous and ****...i mean i could be wrong, but I think she was just drunk. i would make her a **** buddy, but she does seem liek girlfreind potential...at first. if she doest continue to, i might have to take ur advice.


also people, this upcoming weekend I am not going to be able to hang with her because I am going home. I'm wondering if i should aim her while im gone to keep me on her mind, or give her my number and tell her to text me and ****.....i just dont know how to give it to her.lol...normally its easy, but at this point im like lol...wut? lol

[Pridehurtsform]

you dont think she's trying to make you jealous? so naive. a girl will do ANYTHING possible to get attention. and making a guy jealous is probably one of the most rewarding to them. she may even be testing to see if you'd be boyfriend material, and save her from this big bad stalker. either way bro, your in for one hell of a nightmare with this broad. remember i said that too.

[festivus4us]

you dont think she's trying to make you jealous? so naive. a girl will do ANYTHING possible to get attention. and making a guy jealous is probably one of the most rewarding to them. she may even be testing to see if you'd be boyfriend material, and save her from this big bad stalker. either way bro, your in for one hell of a nightmare with this broad. remember i said that too.

lol...maybe man, maybe. I'll have to see how it shapes up...after maybe another few weeks, I will see.

Any advice on the number exchange?

[Pridehurtsform]

lol...maybe man, maybe. I'll have to see how it shapes up...after maybe another few weeks, I will see.

Any advice on the number exchange?

dude you sound like someone who wants to get laid so if thats the case get it. however be forewarned you might get attached if you talk to her too much. so only talk to her when you want some.

is there any way for you to get this girl alone on a regular basis? do you drive, have an apartment, **** like that?

[festivus4us]

dude you sound like someone who wants to get laid so if thats the case get it. however be forewarned you might get attached if you talk to her too much. so only talk to her when you want some.

is there any way for you to get this girl alone on a regular basis? do you drive, have an apartment, **** like that?

no...were freshman....we live in the same dorm tho...2 doors away from eachother...but shes roomies with her twin sis and they are always together.

thats why i was thinking of the gym, cause i know she goes there alone. but i dont usually go when she does.

the fact that we've only hung out twice, once really the second time doesnt even count, so we hung out once, were bombed the whole time....so...i really should've exchanged numbers then.

[Pridehurtsform]

no...were freshman....we live in the same dorm tho...2 doors away from eachother...but shes roomies with her twin sis and they are always together.

thats why i was thinking of the gym, cause i know she goes there alone. but i dont usually go when she does.

the fact that we've only hung out twice, once really the second time doesnt even count, so we hung out once, were bombed the whole time....so...i really should've exchanged numbers then.

from what i've gather through the way you type, you are very unsure of yourself. drop that sh*t right away. if this one doesn't work out, screw it. you live ina a dorm for f*cks sake. keep you options open, and the next time you see her, ask her if she wants to do something completely innocent (lunch, coffee ect) when your in a non threatening enviornment, be yourself and get to know her. if you even like her (just because she's cute dont mean your going to like her) then ask for her number. then take it from there. it should come natural, dont sweat the small stuff and remember there is plenty of fish in the sea.

[festivus4us]

from what i've gather through the way you type, you are very unsure of yourself. drop that sh*t right away. if this one doesn't work out, screw it. you live ina a dorm for f*cks sake. keep you options open, and the next time you see her, ask her if she wants to do something completely innocent (lunch, coffee ect) when your in a non threatening enviornment, be yourself and get to know her. if you even like her (just because she's cute dont mean your going to like her) then ask for her number. then take it from there. it should come natural, dont sweat the small stuff and remember there is plenty of fish in the sea.

lol...im not unsure of MYSELF at all...just unsure of this situation.

[Pridehurtsform]

lol...im not unsure of MYSELF at all...just unsure of this situation.

well in any case. that's my best advice for you. keep bumping this thread and im sure if what i said wasn't what you wanted to hear, someone else will contribute. good luck

[festivus4us]

well in any case. that's my best advice for you. keep bumping this thread and im sure if what i said wasn't what you wanted to hear, someone else will contribute. good luck

thanks....i do think you made some good points....just like idk..with the whole jealousy thing, normally i would assume the same, but she was so drunk i think im just over analyzing this. idk we will see.

my main thing now is i need advice on isolating her, doing the number exchange casually.....

[festivus4us]

bump

[festivus4us]

srsly, this is an akward situation for me to give her my number....any ideas? maybe when im leaving the weekend, ill tell her heres my number or somrthing idk...thats y im asking

[gixxer2184]