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01-20-2008, 08:44 AM
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Ever meet a nice girl but just don't feel like "going through the motions"? (Serious)
It's been a while since I've gone out to the bar/club scene as I've grown to find it less and less appealing compared to my endeavors in lifting and advancing my job/career, but last night I burst out of my hermittude (I think I just made up that word...) and bar hopped around the city with a good friend of mine.
At the last place we go to, I hit it off completely with this girl who is in medical school here in the city. We finished our sentences together, expressed our interests in whole-wheat bbq chicken pizza and sushi, and of course she was digging the cocky/funny and turning up the touching on my shoulder and arms, etc.
It was funny cuz I actually met her because her friend started yelling at me after I randomly got into a picture they were taking and made some wierd face...lol. Who knew being a jackass would work haha.
So even with my drunk buddy cockblocking me by coming up to us every 15 minutes to "check in", I closed on the convo, got her number, and went home to do some due diligence on Facebook haha.
Things checked out, and the girl is pretty cute. I almost feel like calling the number, maybe tomorrow and depending on how the convo goes, maybe meet up for some dinner after work or something. Or hell, maybe just send her a Facebook message, but then what kind of a man would that make me?
All I wanna do is lift, work late, or hang out in my apartment...lol. What the hell is wrong with me? This is actually a girl who I've had much more in common than any girl I've picked up at a bar in the past year whose number I've either trashed or have let to languish in my cell directory.
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Last edited by WhiteCollarBoy; 01-20-2008 at 08:47 AM.
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01-20-2008, 10:17 AM
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bump
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01-20-2008, 10:19 AM
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Facebook FTW.
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01-20-2008, 10:31 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by WhiteCollarBoy
All I wanna do is lift, work late, or hang out in my apartment...lol
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and Im happy doing that so its fine with me. I dont have time for a gf anyway
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01-20-2008, 11:19 AM
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Genetically Like This
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she hangs out in bars
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01-20-2008, 11:26 AM
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Make a move, but don't make it a big deal. Ask her out to dinner or coffee or some ****, but keep focused on the other stuff. As soon as you don't feel like putting in anymore effort, end it.
I don't see what the problem is.
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01-20-2008, 11:53 AM
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the serious tag is really useless now. "nice girl",come on now. NO SUCH THING.
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10-22-2009, 06:27 PM
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don't overthink it. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
When she eventually starts to put her mouth over the tip of your penis, just hope like crazy that what's conspiring at that very moment won't wreck a potential wife-prospect.
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10-22-2009, 06:47 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by samcanadian
don't overthink it. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
When she eventually starts to put her mouth over the tip of your penis, just hope like crazy that what's conspiring at that very moment won't wreck a potential wife-prospect.
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It's not as easy as "If it's meant to be, it'll happen".
Lots of things go by that could have been something that you didn't even think about it or give a try.
It's difficult to say but you might as well get in contact with her again somehow, if she's online at the same time as you on facebook definitely send her an IM but it wouldn't hurt to give her a text asking her to lunch or something.
If it doesn't work out then at least you have a clear conscious.
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10-22-2009, 07:16 PM
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If you really want her, you will make time for her. Or not.
As the saying goes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
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10-22-2009, 08:25 PM
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so you met a girl you like that meets your criteria and you don't wanna hang out with her?
Just wanted to make sure I'm on the same page...
There's always toxic whores that'll create nothing but drama for you.............
your choice.
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10-22-2009, 08:29 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by samcanadian
don't overthink it. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
When she eventually starts to put her mouth over the tip of your penis, just hope like crazy that what's conspiring at that very moment won't wreck a potential wife-prospect.
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Why did you bump this thread?
I wonder if this guy ever called her.
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10-22-2009, 08:35 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by cheerupemokid
Why did you bump this thread?
I wonder if this guy ever called her.
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Jeeze, I must have misread the last post date.
Another thread I was on had a link to this one and it piqued my interest.
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