The chronicles of desperate girl, part 2(advice needed *REPS)

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:22 PM

In Desperate Girl Part 1 I introduced a crazy girl who was extremely desperate. So desperate, she thought we were dating from seeing her 10 minutes...with her friend! I never made eye contact or anything and she wouldn't leave me alone.

I've been ignoring her, and she's called a few times. I had my friends GF tell her I wasn't interested, and she told her...maybe it worked, I don't know(she might have to hear it from the horse's mouth)

She called saying she drove by my house. She called and I told her I was at the gym(last time I answered) and I saw her drive by..it was out of here way.

Now, get this, she told my friends GF(they're good friends) that she just got a gym pass at my gym...I swear, if she f*cks up my workout routine I will be pissed off. So, what should I do? Tell her now I'm not interested myself? Or is she only getting it for her self?(she is very, very fat and I doubt she could care less about exercise...she jokes about being fat all the time it's annoying)

help me!

**neowings** · 06-21-2007, 07:27 PM

haha, YOu gonna get rape by her.

**King Makaveli** · 06-21-2007, 07:28 PM

why the **** did you tell her that you were working out, or more importantly, WHERE you were working out? good luck with that ****.

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:29 PM

Originally Posted by neowings

haha, YOu gonna get rape by her.

Hell no, she's too fat.

Unless you meant mentally, which has already happened

NOT THE HOTTY ON THE LEFT, SHE IS ON THE RIGHT SIDE

As you can tell, I need some serious help!

**cooper...** · 06-21-2007, 07:30 PM

just dont tell her what time u go. Next time she calls tell her "ur a nice girl but i dont and never will see u as more". Try and let her down gently but if she continues u have to be blunt. Even if she was hot, strong stalking doesnt sound like good gf material.

{edit] just saw the pics. U gotta be b;lunt mate. no way around it. cut whatever she thinks is up off quicker then the service at mcdonalds

**King Makaveli** · 06-21-2007, 07:31 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

OH MY JESUS!!!

You should put a warning in that post..

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:31 PM

Originally Posted by Hustla_Ambition

why the **** did you tell her that you were working out, or more importantly, WHERE you were working out? good luck with that ****.

Nah, it's not like that. Sorry that my post wasn't clear.

She already knew I went to the gym...she can tell by looking at me(no arrogance) and by my myspace, friends tell her etc.

Also, we only have one gym in this town so it's obvious.

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:33 PM

Originally Posted by cooper...

just dont tell her what time u go. Next time she calls tell her "ur a nice girl but i dont and never will see u as more". Try and let her down gently but if she continues u have to be blunt. Even if she was hot, strong stalking doesnt sound like good gf material.

{edit] just saw the pics. U gotta be b;lunt mate. no way around it. cut whatever she thinks is up off quicker then the service at mcdonalds

Thanks man. Yeah, as you can tell by the pics...she's like a -10 or something...but even so, desperation is a huge turnoff for me.

Would it be ok for me to be very blunt? Can I just say, "No, I am not attracted to you"?

**cooper...** · 06-21-2007, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Thanks man. Yeah, as you can tell by the pics...she's like a -10 or something...but even so, desperation is a huge turnoff for me.

Would it be ok for me to be very blunt? Can I just say, "No, I am not attracted to you"?

i think its best man. I mean she'll be upset but its not really ur problem.(i know that sounds harsh but..) Dont be rude or make her feel worse, but ur not inclined to like everyone who likes you.

good luck mate, stay strong

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by cooper...

i think its best man. I mean she'll be upset but its not really ur problem.(i know that sounds harsh but..) Dont be rude or make her feel worse, but ur not inclined to like everyone who likes you.

good luck mate, stay strong

Ok, can I call her fat?

She makes jokes with this other fat chick that they live in fatland and eat grease or something....I have no clue...just heard about it.

btw, she works at mcdonald's lmao, and everyone calls her "lunch"

**RippedRebeL** · 06-21-2007, 07:43 PM

lol, all this time I was thining
"The ops an ass, I bet this chick isnt even that bad, prob. just a little chubby" after seeing the pics.... HOLY ****.

**Bob.W.James** · 06-21-2007, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Ok, can I call her fat?

She makes jokes with this other fat chick that they live in fatland and eat grease or something....I have no clue...just heard about it.

btw, she works at mcdonald's lmao, and everyone calls her "lunch"

"Heya, FAT, there is something I need to talk to you about. See..."

I can see that working

**cooper...** · 06-21-2007, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Ok, can I call her fat?

She makes jokes with this other fat chick that they live in fatland and eat grease or something....I have no clue...just heard about it.

btw, she works at mcdonald's lmao, and everyone calls her "lunch"

just say u dont like her. i wouldnt go too specefic. pretty sure she can guess why. If she asks just say something about her personality, then if she keeps being annoying drop the fat bomb imo.

Originally Posted by RippedRebeL

lol, all this time I was thining
"The ops an ass, I bet this chick isnt even that bad, prob. just a little chubby" after seeing the pics.... HOLY ****.

i was thinking the same. First time in a while its really not e-standards

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 07:51 PM

ahahaha, I just noticed that clicking the second links sends her face right into the front of your screen, LOL, I should make a new "scream" prank with her face.

**neowings** · 06-21-2007, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Hell no, she's too fat.

Unless you meant mentally, which has already happened

NOT THE HOTTY ON THE LEFT, SHE IS ON THE RIGHT SIDE

As you can tell, I need some serious help!

OMFG, what the hell is that? Okay, just say that you got back with your ex girlfriend or you have a girlfriend already.

**IAmABiscuit** · 06-21-2007, 07:58 PM

OMG She looks like breakfast + lunch + dinner... a whole week of it. Seriously, just be blunt about it - tell her in her face that you won't date girls with weight you can't bench.

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by IAmABiscuit

OMG She looks like breakfast + lunch + dinner... a whole week of it. Seriously, just be blunt about it - tell her in her face that you won't date girls with weight you can't bench.

ROFL! I was joking with some friends Tuesday saying I don't date girls I can't bench!

btw...are you serious? would you really tell her "face to face"?......

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by neowings

OMFG, what the hell is that? Okay, just say that you got back with your ex girlfriend or you have a girlfriend already.

everyone else think that's ok to say? not that I doubt you..'cause I don't have a GF right now...but there's a chick I'm after...it probably wouldn't work to say there's a chick I'm interested in, right?

**IAmABiscuit** · 06-21-2007, 08:05 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

ROFL! I was joking with some friends Tuesday saying I don't date girls I can't bench!

btw...are you serious? would you really tell her "face to face"?......

Yeah i would avoid her at all costs. Show her a "i don't give a flying fu*k about you" face everytime she's near you. If it doesn't work (which apparently it doesn't), i would tell her straight up that i'm not interested, and never will be interested in her. Well, if she still doesn't get the message.. You can throw in the insults.

Fu*k i hate pestering fat bitches.

**Bladerunner5** · 06-21-2007, 08:11 PM

I've had the same problem, and found that the best way is to just avoid them as much as possible. Don't answer calls/texts, and try to avoid seeing her in person as much as you can.

However if she remains attracted to you then you have to be blunt. I have trouble with this (since I feel sorry for the girls) so when I had this problem, I just ended up texting them saying that I was not interested in her. If she tries to be friends with you after that (like my fat stalker did) tell them that you don't really want to be friends because its too awkward.

While my stalker wasn't quite as ugly as yours, she wasn't far off, and I was in a similar situation to you, so I know how much of a pain in the ass it is. Good luck man

**IAmABiscuit** · 06-21-2007, 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by Bladerunner5

I've had the same problem, and found that the best way is to just avoid them as much as possible. Don't answer calls/texts, and try to avoid seeing her in person as much as you can.

However if she remains attracted to you then you have to be blunt. I have trouble with this (since I feel sorry for the girls) so when I had this problem, I just ended up texting them saying that I was not interested in her. If she tries to be friends with you after that (like my fat stalker did) tell them that you don't really want to be friends because its too awkward.

While my stalker wasn't quite as ugly as yours, she wasn't far off, and I was in a similar situation to you, so I know how much of a pain in the ass it is. Good luck man

HAHAHAHA I LOLED REPPED (on recharge)

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 08:32 PM

Originally Posted by Bladerunner5

I've had the same problem, and found that the best way is to just avoid them as much as possible. Don't answer calls/texts, and try to avoid seeing her in person as much as you can.

However if she remains attracted to you then you have to be blunt. I have trouble with this (since I feel sorry for the girls) so when I had this problem, I just ended up texting them saying that I was not interested in her. If she tries to be friends with you after that (like my fat stalker did) tell them that you don't really want to be friends because its too awkward.

While my stalker wasn't quite as ugly as yours, she wasn't far off, and I was in a similar situation to you, so I know how much of a pain in the ass it is. Good luck man

Great advice.

I'll give it a shot, what do I do after saying it will be awkward, yet we know a few of the same people? That would be awkward, too lol

**Big_Dawg** · 06-21-2007, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Hell no, she's too fat.

Unless you meant mentally, which has already happened

NOT THE HOTTY ON THE LEFT, SHE IS ON THE RIGHT SIDE

As you can tell, I need some serious help!

Ugh...dat is one ugly ugly.....UGLY ewwwww......cha B...u need to get rid of her before she hurts u lol....

**IAmABiscuit** · 06-21-2007, 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Great advice.

I'll give it a shot, what do I do after saying it will be awkward, yet we know a few of the same people? That would be awkward, too lol

You don't say anything. You walk away.

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by IAmABiscuit

You don't say anything. You walk away.

Wait...I can't walk away if I'm with some friends and she shows up...

She is good friends with my best friends GF(who she told she wanted to date me)

They both work at mcdonalds. We both have several friends in common, she wants to play basketball with us, she is going to start going to the gym...it would be very awkward being with a few friends...and her....

**slade81** · 06-21-2007, 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Hell no, she's too fat.

Unless you meant mentally, which has already happened

NOT THE HOTTY ON THE LEFT, SHE IS ON THE RIGHT SIDE

As you can tell, I need some serious help!

BLAHAHAHAHA!!!!

omfg ya man take care of it quick and painless as posable.
she looks crazy enought too shot you. if not beat you down with her fist and eat you.

**IAmABiscuit** · 06-21-2007, 08:51 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

Wait...I can't walk away if I'm with some friends and she shows up...

She is good friends with my best friends GF(who she told she wanted to date me)

They both work at mcdonalds. We both have several friends in common, she wants to play basketball with us, she is going to start going to the gym...it would be very awkward being with a few friends...and her....

You're rejecting her in the face. It has to be awkward. Excuse yourself to go to the toilet or something. You don't reject her and stay long enough in front of her and smile at her - because its not going to work like that.

**bjjbadboy** · 06-21-2007, 08:51 PM

Looks like youve got a stage 5 clinger red alert red alert

OMG im a nice person to all of Gods children but....... That is quite possibly the uglest chick i have ever seen.... Just be nice at first if shes a pain in the balls at the gym just leave your head phones on and tell her shes fukcing yup your workout... If shes stalking you be nice tell her you not interested if that dont work break out the big guns and get nasty, if that dont work tell your you like boys or have mad stds I would make up anything to get that away from me..eewww g'luck bro

**Richie_Awesome** · 06-21-2007, 08:55 PM

Originally Posted by IAmABiscuit

You're rejecting her in the face. It has to be awkward. Excuse yourself to go to the toilet or something. You don't reject her and stay long enough in front of her and smile at her - because its not going to work like that.

Noooooo, I mean I can reject her just fine, but what about later on when these events happen and we see each other? it will be awkward, yes?

**DaCougarMech** · 06-21-2007, 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by Richie_Awesome

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