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    girl wants to hang out with me, but wants others around

    Alright, ive been talkin to this girl in one of my classes, and we decided that we were gonna hang out. she told me she thought that i looked like a cool guy and looked forward to gettin to know me. well anyways, i asked her the other day if shed like to hang out tonight, and she said ya, and we both get off work at 9, so it works out since we both work in the same mall. anyways, last night she asked if i was bringing anyone else. i said, umm not as far as I know. well she told me, she thinks other ppl should hang out with us, and she asked one of her friends, this girl in our class, and she said shes gonna come.

    so my question is, is it bad that she doesnt want to hang out alone? or just that shes not comfortable enough around me yet? also, if i wanna get to know the one girl, i wont be able to ask her if her friend is around all the time. how should I go about that?

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    Is her friend hot?
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    shes bi and wants to introduce u to her gf...jp. Sounds like what u said that she would just be more comfortable around some of her friends untell she gets to know u better.
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    Originally Posted by FreeBirdbulker
    so my question is, is it bad that she doesnt want to hang out alone? or just that shes not comfortable enough around me yet? also, if i wanna get to know the one girl, i wont be able to ask her if her friend is around all the time. how should I go about that?

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    Her friends are her support net. She is bringing her friends along because she lacks the confidence to go out solo. It's not bad that she wants this. It's just that you're not familiar to her and she wants to have someone to talk to if she gets bored. Just take it slow and one step at a time. You'll get to know her over time.
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    Use this as a chance to get in good with her friend. If her friend likes you, it's only a plus for you.
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    She's probably just playing it safe. When she gets to know you a little bit hopefully she'll be cool with a one-on-one scene. There are a lot of kooky people out there and for women being alone with a man they don't really know can become an unsafe situation. Hopefully this is all this is.
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    I think she is bringing a friend to level out her comfort zone. Plus she probably wants someone close to you, to judge you.
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    Been there before, and this situation means one of three things.

    A) She wants to just get some people out and thinks you're a cool guy, just as a friend and nothing more, and by her bringing friends out to hang out, she is showing you that she isn't interested, or else she'd go on a date with you.

    B) She just wants another friend to see how you are and sort of give you a trial run first with others around.

    C) She wants to get to know you better and have it low-pressure, and this is the best way for her to feel comfortable.
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    Originally Posted by FreeBirdbulker
    Alright, ive been talkin to this girl in one of my classes, and we decided that we were gonna hang out. she told me she thought that i looked like a cool guy and looked forward to gettin to know me. well anyways, i asked her the other day if shed like to hang out tonight, and she said ya, and we both get off work at 9, so it works out since we both work in the same mall. anyways, last night she asked if i was bringing anyone else. i said, umm not as far as I know. well she told me, she thinks other ppl should hang out with us, and she asked one of her friends, this girl in our class, and she said shes gonna come.

    so my question is, is it bad that she doesnt want to hang out alone? or just that shes not comfortable enough around me yet? also, if i wanna get to know the one girl, i wont be able to ask her if her friend is around all the time. how should I go about that?

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    She probably still doesn't trust you enough to be alone with you, therefore she doesn't feel comfortable with you.
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    yeah i take it that she doesnt like you in the same way you do her, she couldnt say no becuase, well i guess shes not the kind of person who wants to hurt your feelings, but i doubt shes into you, if she was she woulda hung out with you herslef and not with a friend.
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    Originally Posted by MarlboroMan
    yeah i take it that she doesnt like you in the same way you do her, she couldnt say no becuase, well i guess shes not the kind of person who wants to hurt your feelings, but i doubt shes into you, if she was she woulda hung out with you herslef and not with a friend.
    Good observation. She wanted to make it a "hang out" thing rather than a "date". For a good reason. Most likely because she does not want to date the guy.
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    well I just got back. we went and played pool for 2 hours, and then we sat in my car for about 30 mins and talked. all 3 of us. the 2 girls sat in the back, and i was like "oh thanks" and the one im trying for was like "you can come back here with us if ya want". I actually talked to her friend more than I did her. We talked, but not as often as me and her friend. I thought it bothered her near the end, so i tried to act not as interested and would look at her while her friend was talkin. I dunno, aint too worried about it, just never had that happen before. wanted to see if my assumptions were right
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    Hey man i came across a simular situation my buddy was wantin to kick it with sum girl and she wanted her friends to come along. So he made me come as well. well anyway guess she didnt want it to be akward since it would be the first time they were going to do sumn together. anyway guess things worked out they be goin out for a yr n they got it ON that first day. plus shes hot!! n i guess hes jus an avg dood :P
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    maybe shes just really shy on dates and the more people there will mean she can show her personality more. You know like that seinfeild episode where george makes jerry come on the dates with him.
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