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12-16-2007, 08:03 PM
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In love with a stranger at the gym
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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12-16-2007, 08:05 PM
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as a guy I can tell you THAT WOULD BE MOTHERFUKING AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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12-16-2007, 08:11 PM
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Please... for God's sake... Tell him!!!
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12-16-2007, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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i had a girl come on to me real hard at work....but i was already into someone else. i've never really been approached that hard before but i was impressed with her confidence and that she was willing to go after what she wanted in no time. It was kinda creepy in a way cause she was way too strong but still admirable and impressive, I don't have that confidence she has....im a nervous wreck approaching a girl i want.
The only thing i think negatively about that is a girl that comes on that hard is probably needy and clingy....i dont like that
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12-16-2007, 08:22 PM
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maybe say hallo for a start next time you see him
and smile that should help break the water and
let it go from there
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12-16-2007, 08:34 PM
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this weird girl at my gym keeps staring at me, she never talks to me or anything, just stares. i walk past her and she hides, is she crazy?
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12-16-2007, 09:07 PM
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"this weird girl at my gym keeps staring at me, she never talks to me or anything, just stares. i walk past her and she hides, is she crazy?"
This is a very good point But I can tell this guy loves it He actually has started staring at me more than I stare at him. He stops and talks to people right in front of me and then makes eye contact for what seems like freaken hours until I have to look away. What is he trying to say????? He is the one keeping it going I had decided to forget about him, He is just a stranger! But when I tried he gave me a look across the room like HELLO LOOK AT ME! I pretty much feel like if i just met him and seen that he was normal and not a sex god then I would just loose interest!!!! So that is my goal to meet him so that Ill stop fantasing about him.
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12-16-2007, 09:44 PM
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Spoon pic needed.
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12-16-2007, 09:53 PM
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If you ask him "when are you gonna bang me?" he will think you are not relationship material and just want some sex, maybe sort of like a f buddy situation. It's all up to what you want from him. If all you want is sex, then yes tell him that. If you want a relationship, don't ask him when he's gonna bang you and just ask him out and get to know him.
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12-16-2007, 10:00 PM
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damn i thought u were a dude, but i had that happened at a club some chick said "i was sexy and she would f@ck the sh!t out of me" then gave me one of those f@ck me eyes when she walked away, i just stood there for like 5 minutes with my mouth wide open
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12-16-2007, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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we wish this would be an everyday occurance to be quite honest
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12-16-2007, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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Wait, you live in Missouri? I do too.... what city ?
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12-16-2007, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
"this weird girl at my gym keeps staring at me, she never talks to me or anything, just stares. i walk past her and she hides, is she crazy?"
This is a very good point But I can tell this guy loves it He actually has started staring at me more than I stare at him. He stops and talks to people right in front of me and then makes eye contact for what seems like freaken hours until I have to look away. What is he trying to say????? He is the one keeping it going I had decided to forget about him, He is just a stranger! But when I tried he gave me a look across the room like HELLO LOOK AT ME! I pretty much feel like if i just met him and seen that he was normal and not a sex god then I would just loose interest!!!! So that is my goal to meet him so that Ill stop fantasing about him.
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Funny how he DID NOT break eye contact with you. You broke it with him. Usually the guy breaks it before the girl.
This shows his far from intimidated by you which probaly makes you want him even more.
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12-16-2007, 11:55 PM
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Did you not already make this thread before? I commented that since you're a mother, you shouldn't be shy. Plus look at your user name. Why are you reposting this again? You seeking special attention on the forums?
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12-17-2007, 12:21 AM
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12-17-2007, 12:23 AM
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excuse me miss, are you spoon pic verified?
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12-17-2007, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
"this weird girl at my gym keeps staring at me, she never talks to me or anything, just stares. i walk past her and she hides, is she crazy?"
This is a very good point But I can tell this guy loves it He actually has started staring at me more than I stare at him. He stops and talks to people right in front of me and then makes eye contact for what seems like freaken hours until I have to look away. What is he trying to say????? He is the one keeping it going I had decided to forget about him, He is just a stranger! But when I tried he gave me a look across the room like HELLO LOOK AT ME! I pretty much feel like if i just met him and seen that he was normal and not a sex god then I would just loose interest!!!! So that is my goal to meet him so that Ill stop fantasing about him.
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He's interested, but scared to make a move...
which part of Missouri do you live???
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12-17-2007, 03:07 AM
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I'm in love with lots of girls at my gym.
It is a college gym.
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12-17-2007, 05:18 AM
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excuse me miss, are you spoon pic verified?
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Go and get f ucked. No, she doesn't have bigger tits than you. Yes, she is still a chick despite that.
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12-17-2007, 05:20 AM
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Let's face it, you love him for his body don't you?
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12-17-2007, 06:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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have u ever played tickle clit thinking about this guy at the gym?
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12-17-2007, 07:24 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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Good luck with this guy. Get up the courage, you can do it! If anything he'll be flattered.
btw I LOVE your username!
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12-17-2007, 07:37 AM
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hey, I had a similar experience. see... Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that??? Now this is the story all about how My life got flipped, turned upside down
And Id like to take a minute just sit right there Ill tell you how I became the prince of a town called bel-air.
Last edited by dog20; 12-17-2007 at 07:44 AM.
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12-17-2007, 07:48 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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If you walk upto him and say "When are you gonna do me" he will probably think your a cheap easy little ho whos gagging for it and probably spreads her legs for everyone - thats what i would think anyway and it would be a turn off.
If you walked upto him and said "your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" he will probably think your a little weird in the head and the type of chick to get all obsessed and clingy - thats what i would think anyway and it would also be a turn off.
Dont do any of that sht, just try and make him come to you by using seductive body language and try to spark up a convo.
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12-17-2007, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Jenflower2
Good luck with this guy. Get up the courage, you can do it! If anything he'll be flattered.
btw I LOVE your username!
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I think I love you, too.
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12-17-2007, 10:21 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ToFlytobesoShy
Im totally infatuated with a guy at the gym I go to. I cant stop thinking about him. We stare into eachothers eyes all the time but we have never talked before. When he gets close to me I clam up and hide!!!! Im about to just walk up to him and saying something Cause he is driving me crazy But im no good at small talk The only thing i can think of is something crazy like "When are you gonna do me" or "Your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" Maybe ill just go up to him and tell him he is a tease! How do guys feel about girl who are just straight forward like that???
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He'd get an instant hard on. Alpha Woman FTW!!!
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12-17-2007, 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Ace_2004
If you walk upto him and say "When are you gonna do me" he will probably think your a cheap easy little ho whos gagging for it and probably spreads her legs for everyone - thats what i would think anyway and it would be a turn off.
If you walked upto him and said "your the sexiest guy ive ever seen" he will probably think your a little weird in the head and the type of chick to get all obsessed and clingy - thats what i would think anyway and it would also be a turn off.
Dont do any of that sht, just try and make him come to you by using seductive body language and try to spark up a convo.
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Yes. The only guy I agree with so far in this thread. Just start a normal conversation with him.
"How's it going today?"
"Sure is hot/cold/wet/miserable/windy out today isn't it?"
I think all guys would be flattered by a straight out "bang me right now"...but it may be coming on too strong for some guys - me being one at least. I'd be like "Uh...holy ****...thanks." And it may be a little weird/awkward after.
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12-17-2007, 11:03 AM
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He'll be thrilled, you have nothing to worry about.
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12-17-2007, 11:16 AM
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I wouldn't lead in w/ the 'bang me right now' line. You will come off as a total hoe and will be treated accordingly... unless that's how you want to be treated.
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you have a kid....who is the daddy and what does he do?
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