Just recently had sex for the first time. Actually twice over a 1 week period and I couldn't cum both times? and my girl seems like she feels bad about it.
I have a feeling she thinks it's because of her? and that certainly isn't the case. I'm VERY attracted and wouldn't wanna be with anybody else in bed, and I want her. But why the hell cant I go?
The first time after the sex it actually looked like I did? and I did have some cum in the condom but I never felt anything? Maybe the condom was to thick?
I changed the condom to a thinner one the second time and It feels MUCH better, But i still couldn't go this time. It was a little better tho?
I'm just afraid somethings wrong because I thought the first time you have sex most guys go in like 30 seconds? I was ****ing for 15 mins and couldn't do anything?
and would the condom being to small make a difference? I'm not trying to sound like some macho guy but the girl thinks I should try using a larger condom because it looks and feels to small.
Girl wants to go to the pill so maybe will try sex without a condom but i'm just afraid it's something to do with me?
It's definitely not the girl, and im 100% positive im not gay. Did anyone else feel anxiety to cum the first time they had sex? Has anyone had this problem? I feel alone because I've never heard of a guy not cumming during sex...Opinions please.