Yeah, she went to mexico for a week and just got back and told me. I had a feeling for some reason that she would and i was right.
It sucks ass. Also it sucks cause i have broken up with her 2 times for no reason so i feel like a hipocrite when i tell her not to break up with me.
She has a lot of reasons but one is that i never got close to her family (mom and sister). Her mom was always insane and getting mad at my gf for no reason and punishing her and i was protective of my gf so like that was between us.
I dunno what to do...
Also im transferring to her school in January (not just cause shes there, i dont like my school and love her school) so that sucks even more
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11-26-2007, 03:11 PM #1iFap
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Gf just broke up with me after 2+ years (serious)
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11-26-2007, 03:12 PM #2Proud Dad
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sorry to hear it
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11-26-2007, 03:14 PM #3Straight Chillin
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thats good, youll see her more and prolly get back togetherOriginally Posted by warbird00
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11-26-2007, 03:15 PM #4iFap
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Thanks man. Also she ends school on Jan 8 then goes on vacation all winter break, so i dunno if i can see her. SHould i just drive down and see her on friday or something?Originally Posted by 5x10
i feel better than before, i was stressing all day that she was gonna break up with me, but not she did i feel kinda relieved, cause atleast im not guessing any more
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11-26-2007, 03:15 PM #5Just add beer!
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Always hard, and my longest was only 1yr 3mo. Live it up though, you don't stay young forever.
Fuk her right in the pussy.
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11-26-2007, 03:17 PM #6Thick. Solid. Tight.
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you're 19, enjoy college and live life you'll get over it. its not the end of the world trust me, i was in the same boat about a year ago and now i realize breaking up with her was the best thing thats ever happened to me. more freedom, more money, less drama, etc. there's alot of fish in the sea.
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11-26-2007, 03:17 PM #7Oops back to cutting
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Walk away for now, give her space, hang with your bros and try to enjoy yourself. It's ****ty, but life will go on
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11-26-2007, 03:17 PM #8-High intensity trainer-
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When your feeling down, just remember that the sun will rise tomorrow. She will just become a memory eventually. Happens to the best of us man. Good luck.
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11-26-2007, 03:17 PM #9Originally Posted by warbird00
yeah you fukked this one up alright.
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11-26-2007, 03:18 PM #10iFap
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i dunno man. Im not transferring until Jan 15, thats a month and a half.Originally Posted by Staggy73
Im gonna talk to her mom tonight, she just texted me and told me to hang in there and my gf is just going through a rough time.
I was gonna call her mom tonight anyway cause i have never actually talked to her one on one. It might be too late but oh well.
The main reason she broke up with me i think was cause im not the most social person ever. Like i cant go up to random ppl and hit it off. Once i get to know em a little i can, but im not a super social person and she is.
This sucks...
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11-26-2007, 03:18 PM #11Bob Loblaw
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she didnt cheat did she?
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11-26-2007, 03:19 PM #12
you're too soft bro, you're too good for her
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11-26-2007, 03:19 PM #13King of the Manlets
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Broz b4 hoez
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11-26-2007, 03:19 PM #14Come Crawling Faster
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Don't blame yuorself for the breakup. She is a cheating whore, probably sucked some cock with tequila whilst in Mexico. Do yourself a favour and transfer schools. Cut her out of your life. Make the last thing that you say to her: "I hate you the most a person could ever hate another. I hope you have a **** life and die young".
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11-26-2007, 03:20 PM #15Segabrah
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I had a very similar situation happen to me last summer.
I can relate to the insane mom thing. My ex's mom always did guilt trips on her or would try to make her feel bad. Her mom was also so bias to her older sister. She babies the hell outta her older sister but none of the other three sisters also.
I totally didnt get along with her sister (I dont think anyone does). I am ot going to get into any details unless you really wanted me too.
One tip:
She will probably want you back in a couple of months. even if u dont think there is a chance, she prob will try to when u least expect it. Dont wait around for her. I did with one of my ex's and regretted it.
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11-26-2007, 03:20 PM #16...in Mortal Kombat!
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wow very similar to my situation
I got dumped 2 not too recently after she went on a holiday
yah man it sucks, just keep yourself busy with your friends, hobbies, whatever else it'll creap up to you in those moments when you're doing nothing
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11-26-2007, 03:21 PM #17iFap
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I dunno man. I loved her so much. She was perfect for me. I know im only 19 but she was perfect for me (my parents met when they were 19 and have been together ever since)Originally Posted by GluteusMaximus
Considering shes 2 hrs away from me i have no choice but to give her space. My only question is should i go visit her this weekened because if i dont i wont see her for 6 weeks...Originally Posted by acbrits08
wat?Originally Posted by Ringo Fire
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11-26-2007, 03:21 PM #18
best thing to do is find another chick! doesnt have to be serious, but female company and SEX will take your mind off the old one, make you feel better about yourself and life in general!
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11-26-2007, 03:21 PM #19Come Crawling Faster
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Originally Posted by warbird00
For **** sake. Stop blaming yourself and stop talking to her mom. It sounds like that your g/f had all the power in the relationship. IF your g/f really valued you she would talk to you about these things and help you with them. She is just jumping ship because she got her taco stuffed in Mexico and that pushed her over the edge for breakup.I Browse the MISK
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11-26-2007, 03:22 PM #20Banned
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She boned a dude in mexico 4 sure. Best way to get rid of guilt is get rid of you!
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11-26-2007, 03:22 PM #21Oops back to cutting
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No. Keep yourself busy and stay with your friends. Don't be the lapdog following her around. Things could work out, but go with the assumption that they won't and let her deal with her ****. DON'T GIVE HER THE POWER YOU'RE GIVING HER!Originally Posted by warbird00
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11-26-2007, 03:23 PM #22Fist pumpin' and GTL
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that sucks man. sorry to hear. Try to use it as motivation at the gym and hang out with some good friends and do stupid **** that will make you laugh. If you give off a good care free type additude chicks will flock to you. Good luck broski
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11-26-2007, 03:24 PM #23Come Crawling Faster
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Originally Posted by warbird00
She broke up with you because you are far too pussywhipped. She already has a pussy and doesnt need another one. Sorry to be harsh but this is true. I bet she was your first g/f too?. You don't have any chocie to give her space because SHE DUMPED YOUR ASS. You have no reason to see her again only to fill yuor emotional void. Start moving on now.I Browse the MISK
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #24iFap
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naw. she woudlnt do that (ssaid she would kill me if i did, lol)Originally Posted by babolat06
naw, she didint cheat on me. Just said she wanted to experience life more? (wtf, why cant she do this with me?) Main reason was that i wasnt uber social and diint have a relationship with her mom/familyOriginally Posted by puppet_master
yeah dude, her mom is insane somtimes, i coudlnt get over it. I hope she wants to get back together...Originally Posted by devin45k
yeah it does suck. ****ty thing is that i would have gone on the vacation but one of my ****ing proffesors scheduled a midterm on wedsneday and they left mondayOriginally Posted by Noob_Saibot
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #25Recovering Fappaholic'
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #26Now With Fatceps!
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My ex-gf broke up with me at my parents house after christmas dinner. She was being a total bitch so after dinner I brought her into my parents den and asked her why she's being a total bitch, and she broke up with me. LOL. Merry Christmas!
Then we started dating again and she was acting like a bitch again so I broke up with her and we've never looked back. As they say, Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.. I've used that line while breaking up with two long term gf's...
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #27Thick. Solid. Tight.
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Originally Posted by warbird00
why would you go see her. she broke up with you for a reason she obviously wants space away from you right now. if i broke up with someone i wouldn't really want them coming to spend a weekend with me a week after it happened.★ ★ ★ ★ ★
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #28thats what i was thinking lol.Originally Posted by Ultra_Magnus
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11-26-2007, 03:25 PM #29Segabrah
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If u really want her back.....wait, 2 or 3 months and get in good with her sister. You start texting or IMing her sister on a normal basis, she will try and contact or talk to u.
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11-26-2007, 03:28 PM #30x3Originally Posted by johnny87
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