Guys: Nervous B4 Having Sex With A New Woman?

[Playmate]

Do you guys ever get nervous that you are not going to be able to perform or other worries b4 the possibility of having sex with someone that is like very hot???

Asking because we girls don't really have those "performance anxieties" that men have..

My friend told me that he likes this girl, and knows that they will probably "seal the deal" this weekend - and he is nervous as shat??

[KIDRR]

It depends on the guy. But if you let it get in your head that "I'm gonna f_uck this girl, I better not mess it up" you most likely be too nervous. Just have to live in the moment and not think about stuff like that.

[NuggzTheNinja]

Do you guys ever get nervous that you are not going to be able to perform or other worries b4 the possibility of having sex with someone that is like very hot???

Asking because we girls don't really have those "performance anxieties" that men have..

My friend told me that he likes this girl, and knows that they will probably "seal the deal" this weekend - and he is nervous as shat??

Usually the first time is a little awkward but it's not a rule.

You girls don't have to keep "it" up in order for sex to work, though, so it's different.

[Box_o_Dynamite]

I have had first hand experience with performance anxiety. I was on some Andro and pretty nervous to boot. I have had this problem to which tell how i overcame it.

It is pretty much of a fear that once you loose your erection itll happen again and again. And unfortunately it will if u think about it.

First, a guy with this problem should NEVER stop having sex. This is the worse thing u can do. This inhibits you from ever overcoming your problem.
Next, only have sex when your comfortable and when YOU want to.
Also you have to learn to literally just not worry about it. and this is important, because the whole problem with performance anxiety is that it becomes a compounding problem. Once you learn to just let go, and just not worry about it will in turn let u focus on the beautiful girl in front of you.
Just close your eyes, open em and say hey, theyres a hot girl here who wants to give herself to me. That should be reason enough to turn u on.

[Playmate]

I have had first hand experience with performance anxiety. I was on some Andro and pretty nervous to boot. I have had this problem to which tell how i overcame it.

It is pretty much of a fear that once you loose your erection itll happen again and again. And unfortunately it will if u think about it.

First, a guy with this problem should NEVER stop having sex. This is the worse thing u can do. This inhibits you from ever overcoming your problem.
Next, only have sex when your comfortable and when YOU want to.
Also you have to learn to literally just not worry about it. and this is important, because the whole problem with performance anxiety is that it becomes a compounding problem. Once you learn to just let go, and just not worry about it will in turn let u focus on the beautiful girl in front of you.
Just close your eyes, open em and say hey, theyres a hot girl here who wants to give herself to me. That should be reason enough to turn u on.

Does performance anxiety/general nerves about performance with a new girl ever get to the point where you will avoid having sex with her??? Or anyone?