OK - stupid question but - HONEST OPINIONS only, please.
If you met a girl and found that she was:
1) A Hooters Girl (bikini contest regular entrant)
2) An Exotic Dancer (Topless Dancer or Stripper)
Would you not want to "date" her anymore - or in other words - decide from that point on not to take her seriously as g/f material????
08-22-2005, 07:25 AM #1
Take Hooters Girls/Strippers Seriously?
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08-22-2005, 07:34 AM #5Originally Posted by Legs
I think that if I like the girl then there's no reason for me to change my mind just because of her profession
If you can overcome insecurities, then dating a stripper is really not that different than dating anyone else
08-22-2005, 07:40 AM #6Originally Posted by JYC
She said that guys put those two "types" in one category anyway so if she dances..."Who cares?" was her opinion...
I disagreed - IMO - a Hooters Girl isn't that big of a deal..but I could be wrong, hence my question to you guys
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08-22-2005, 08:28 AM #10Originally Posted by Legs
but on the other hand...odds are she's a party girl (i mean if she picked those things as a profession she has to be)
ever hear the expression, "Cant turn a whore into a housewife?"
not sayin' shes a whore but you know what i mean."NOW YOU KNOCKED HIM DOWN...WHY DONT YOU TRY KNOCKIN' ME DOWN?" ----Rocky Balboa
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08-22-2005, 08:47 AM #13
movies like pretty woman are not realistic representations of the world. I know a few girls that are strippers to pay for college though because they make crazy money, but at heart they are just normal girls. most likely i would not date a stripper though because i dont like every guy seeing my girl
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Dude I work for a company that supplies strippers and hostesses for parties. Im a driver for these girls and ill tell you this, do not date any of them. Strippers are generally not dating material. Dont get me wrong, many of them are really nice and just do it for the money but personally I would never be able to get past what goes on when they are at work. I see what these girls go every weekend and it is just not worth it. Banging them is one thing but dating is another. Hooters girls are a different story because they're not eating each other out with 50 guys yelling at them. Go for a hooters girl. PeacePeace
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just like to say i just got a job at hooters cooking, its pretty wicked.My Journal: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=106385041
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08-22-2005, 02:32 PM #19
Hooters and Stripper girls? This is way too general for any of us to make a firm comment on. You'll need to provide more information about the girl.
With that said, here are a few principles to keep in mind:
1. Bringing out sexual attention and affections from the opposite sex (i.e., Sex Appeal) is only a tool.
2. Some people rely on tools so much that they stop working on themselves, and abuse the tools, or mistaken the tool for their self worth.
3. Having a profession based on sex appeal forces you to use this tool way more than normal. There will naturally be a skew.
4. You're only as faithful as your options and your integrity. Strippers and Hooters girls have many, many, many, many options. (did I mention that they have a lot of options?). I will not judge their integrity - that's on a case-by-case basis.
5. IF her self-worth is based on sex appeal and the affections/attention from men, and IF she has questionable integrity, all bets are off. Do not ever open yourself seriously to a girl like this no matter what her job is.
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Your sister's right, Hooter's girls and strippers are DEFINITELY bunched into the same category for a big reason: ATTENTION!! That is the basis of their jobs, getting the attention they crave. I wouldn't be surprised if many HOOTERS girls eventually become strippers.
I dated a HOOTERS girl for a while. Ended up being the most chaotic relationship of my life, she was crazy, she was a liar, most likely cheated, stole things and manipulated everyone!! All these girls have major insecurities about their self-image. Trust me bro, its not even worth banging these broads, they end up being such a head-ache it will make you hate girls for a long time!! I wouldn't go as far as to say ALL HOOTERS girls & strippers are terrible people, but in general better to look but don't touch. If you just want to have a little fun that might be a different story, but like I said the head-ache they bring isn't worth it AT ALL!!
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no way a hooters girl is much different. To be honest being a hooters girl IMO is not that big of a deal. Lot's of college girls work there and make good tips and they are not nude. Maybe close but in all actuality they are not nude by any means.
Most strippers are full of emotional baggage and I could never ever ever take a stripper seriously.
Hooters girls are waitresses wearing sexy clothes. Strippers throw their pus*ies in guys' faces for money. I would say there is a big difference there.
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08-23-2005, 10:42 PM #30Originally Posted by Sauce-head
They do it b/c waiting tables at Hooters/Hustler/Penthouse Exec Club what have you you will make 100% more in tips than you would waiting tables at TGI Fridays.
The money. The cheddah. LOL