Analyze my current situation.

[hypnotic]

Sup- (Warning: This is long, serious responses only please)

I met this BEAUTIFUL lady (23) last Sunday at a club and got her number. (And just to let you all know I am usually for those one nighters heh, havent had a gf in a while and I'd like one). Anyways I call her Monday and that goes fine, now Tuesday night (My Birthday and I went to a bar with the friends) I call her up and ask her if she'd like to meet me there, and she says yes. So she arrives 20 min later, I walk outside to walk her in and pay for her cover charge and we talk get a drink blah blah (I'm already a bit drunk with my friends and she only has 1 beer) My friends being the awsome guys that they are left the bar so me and her could talk. The scene at the bar gets retardedly overcrowded so we leave. I get in her car cause I'm " drunk " and we drive around for a bit and get lost. We start talking more and find out we have loads in common, then we start making out. She's like " Why dont you have a girlfriend you're really cute" stupid ass me told her I used to be a player cause I was drunk and I told her now I'm looking for a GF and every girl I meet is either a bitch or 18 (CT Sucks). Anyways we make out some more chat, and shes like " I dont know if you wanna get involved with me, I've got alot of **** going on".I said, "like"?. She states she just broke up with her bf and it might be too soon to get involved and shes confused blah blah. She was also ENGAGED, found out her bf was lying and put her name on some house payment bs and that shes always busy going to school and working like everyday. Anyways we change subject and start making out agian. (I Cant remember everything because I was intoxicated :-x) We find my car and she tells me she wants to go to the beach tommorrow (Wednesday) and to call her when I wake up. Next day: I wake up at like 11:30 AM (Hungover)apologize for being a stupid drunk and she says she had alot of fun with me, anyways about the beach... she said its too hot to go to the beach and I have to study (It was too hot, big heat wave). Now the only day she can hang out next is Sunday after 3pm because of school/work. So I say " would you like to go out to dinner sunday night" and she says " I dont know if I should be going out on dates yet" I was like um, ok give me a call and let me know". Next Day (Today) I called her at 2pm (I know I should've waited for her to call me lol) We bs for a bit about how eachothers days are goin and she busts out with "It seems to me like your looking for a girlfriend/serious relationship and I dont know If I can do that now" I told her " No rush " and that I understood she just got out of one. So I said like an idiot "Do you just want me to stop calling you" and she says " I dont know! I did have fun with you and all... listen I cant talk about this right now im trying to cash a check, I will give you a call later" I said " Ok Bye". Clearly I like this girl alot after a week only...

Now here is what I think I should do and let me know if I'm wrong:
- Do not call her and wait for her to call you
- If she does not call you back, scrap her number and move on.
-or-
- If after 2 days no call, call her and ask her if she wants to just be friends and give her time

My questions are:
Why the **** did she give me her number if she doesnt want a bf or a friend with benefits?

Think I messed up and said too much nonsense while I was drunk? (even though she says she's done that before and said it was cute and had fun)


Thank you all for taking your time to read this, I have this entire week off from work so I have no problem taking my time to type this

[slag]

ya you did kinda screw it up with tell her how you were/are when you were drunk.

in my opionion you should do a combination of the first 2, don't call her back, have her call you, and if she never does, KEEP her # and move on. maybe down the line when shes looking for a relationship she might think of you and give you a ring. right now its probably best to prepare for the worst. so just continue what you were doin with the 1nighters and try not to think about her. that way if worse comes to worse, your allready prepared

[hypnotic]

Originally Posted by slag

ya you did kinda screw it up with tell her how you were/are when you were drunk.

in my opionion you should do a combination of the first 2, don't call her back, have her call you, and if she never does, KEEP her # and move on. maybe down the line when shes looking for a relationship she might think of you and give you a ring. right now its probably best to prepare for the worst. so just continue what you were doin with the 1nighters and try not to think about her. that way if worse comes to worse, your allready prepared

I told her I used to be like that a while ago, and I dont even think she remembered it because Thursday she said " It looks like you're looking for a girlfriend / serious relationship"

Thanks

[JYC]

you probably just got too heavy too quickly and she freaked out

don't call her anymore... if she had fun and is interested in you, she knows your number and the ball is in her court

most importantly keep going after more girls because if you get hung up over this one you will be one miserable bastard

the more girls you hookup with the more likely to find one who has mutual feelings for you

sounds like your trying a little to hard to find a gf instead of just letting it happen naturally... or maybe this girl is just having her little mood swings, but whatever the case it's obviously not working, so read off the next ticket number and call NEXT

[tbomb]

Originally Posted by hypnotic

I told her I used to be like that a while ago, and I dont even think she remembered it because Thursday she said " It looks like you're looking for a girlfriend / serious relationship"

maybe she just doesnt wanna get in a relationship with a 'player' (or 'former player'.)

i'd let her call you back, but dont sit around waiting for it. go meet some other chicks, too.

[stone fox]

maybe you should attend a stalker's anonymous meeting. just kidding

yea id say you deffo came on too strong calling her twice in a row and not waiting for the call back

if i was you id erase her number.1) because itll get rid of the temptation to continue stalking her
2) she STILL AS YOUR NUMBER so if she is interested she will call and you dont have to stare at her number all day with itchy fingers
3)so for the time being play on playa

[hypnotic]

Originally Posted by stone fox

maybe you should attend a stalker's anonymous meeting. just kidding

yea id say you deffo came on too strong calling her twice in a row and not waiting for the call back

if i was you id erase her number.1) because itll get rid of the temptation to continue stalking her
2) she STILL AS YOUR NUMBER so if she is interested she will call and you dont have to stare at her number all day with itchy fingers
3)so for the time being play on playa

^ ^ LMFAO I love all of you guys, thanks for all of your responses. I knew what the answers were deep down in side. I just needed to see it from you guys.

[FOBINSEAWATA]

dah! ur ars a homo-shexual eu like mans

[tbomb]

Originally Posted by FOBINSEAWATA

dah! ur ars a homo-shexual eu like mans

am i the only one who read this and laughed?

[JYC]

Originally Posted by FOBINSEAWATA

dah! ur ars a homo-shexual eu like mans

I smell a troll... lol

he posts **** like this in every single thread

[FOBINSEAWATA]

vuy are u callin me zee troll sorry for mhy english

[sabonis224]

The only reason she is questioning you is because you called her like everyday of the week. Just wait for her to call back. If she doesn't, obviously she is not worth the time because she is not interested.

[stone fox]

hey hypno. did you follow our instructions? any contact from the other side?

[hypnotic]

Originally Posted by stone fox

hey hypno. did you follow our instructions? any contact from the other side?

Thanks for all the replies, I never called / heard from the other side.
Ive moved on and found another (even better) and its been going really well so far

Stone - thanks for checking up brother.

[bak]

Originally Posted by hypnotic

Thanks for all the replies, I never called / heard from the other side.
Ive moved on and found another (even better) and its been going really well so far

Stone - thanks for checking up brother.

lol wat did u think.. u were getting advise from bb forums

[hypnotic]

**BREAKING NEWS**
1 week later she calls!! WTF I didnt pick up and she left a msg.
"Sorry I havent called I've been really busy but hey my friend and I are going out tommorrow and I was wondering if you would like to hang out"

and I already met someone else?? Opinions?

[vadox6466]

cliffs.

[steven087]

whilst your young and single go for it man
once you get married thats once pusc for the rest of your life usually so go for it

[dbluevette]

She's confused right now brah. It has nothing to do with you. Let her straighten some **** up in her head. If she wants to call u she will. If she doesn't then scrap the number.

[scrawny2studly]

This thread is 4 years oldddddd....