I'm female..if you guys have any questions about women...

[luvs2btan05]

I would be happy to answer them. Whether its about your g/f, sister, wife, anyone...just ask away!! I'll try to help in any way I can.

Maybe situations, or problems thats going on?

[Jhendi82]

This is probably a dumb question but has been on my mind all day. After I was done hitting arms today, I was walking back to my dorm and I see this girl. We were both walking in different directions but glanced at each other, and she gave me this look and waved. Me being the shy guy that I'am I non shalantly wave at her and continue drinking my protein shake. The campus is so big that I will probably not see her anytime soon, but do you think if she was interested she would have stopped and said something?

[Blowsox13]

Why do you girls insist on lying and cheating on your boyfriends?

[iamlegend]

Why can't women realize that they are their own worst enemy instead of blaming men all the time for everything. I mean geez..the victorian age has been over for like 100+?

[naomi]

My take is that she was waiting for you to make the next move. She took the chance at initiating contact and the next step should have been for you to approach her and strike up a conversation.

If she was just being friendly, cool - you made a new friend.

[naomi]

Why can't women realize that they are their own worst enemy instead of blaming men all the time for everything. I mean geez..the victorian age has been over for like 100+?

And I could retort by asking why men continue to subjectify women as "things, bitchies, pussies, sexual pleasure things, etc" The caveman age has been over for thousands of years... :P

[luvs2btan05]

nope...most girls expect the guy to approach the girl. Just by saying "hey whats up?" Or commenting on something shes carrying...things like that, you could have started a convo, that could have ended up with a date this weekend. Instead of waving back, just do a nod and say "hey, whats your name? or whats up?" LIE if you have to...say something like "you work at American Eagle..right?" and she will of course say "no" and thats when you say, "oh you look like this girl that works there...so what are you doing on campus so early..blah blah blah..."and convo has begun...make sense?

[naomi]

Why do you guys insist on lying and cheating on your boyfriends?

Probably the same reason men do..

P.S. Sorry for the thread jack to the original poster -- I volunteer as a relationship therapist at my university. :P

[luvs2btan05]

Why do you guys insist on lying and cheating on your boyfriends?

why do you guys cheat on us?

[Jhendi82]

Makes sense thanks for the input. My friends that cheat on there girlfriends claim they do it because they were drunk. I think us guys can be insecure in relationships which lead to wondering eyes. Which leads to cheating

[naomi]

Makes sense thanks for the input. My friends that cheat on there girlfriends claim they do it because they were drunk. I think us guys can be insecure in relationships which lead to wondering eyes. Which leads to cheating

That is never an excuse, and no woman who has any ounce of self respect should ever accept that as one. Same goes for the guys.

[luvs2btan05]

Makes sense thanks for the input. My friends that cheat on there girlfriends claim they do it because they were drunk. I think us guys can be insecure in relationships which lead to wondering eyes. Which leads to cheating

thats just an exscuse, sorry IMO...they blame it on the alcohol

[Jhendi82]

Personally I've never cheated, but I understand that all relationships have there ups and downs. Having sex with random girls isn't gonna fix it. I know other guys that do it for conquest and bravado. they like to brag about who they hooked up with.

[naomi]

^^ And those are the men that I stay far away from.

[luvs2btan05]

Personally I've never cheated, but I understand that all relationships have there ups and downs. Having sex with random girls isn't gonna fix it. I know other guys that do it for conquest and bravado. they like to brag about who they hooked up with.

yep..its sad, i couldnt do it...my concience, would get the best of me

[Jhendi82]

How do you gals know which of us guys are dogs and which of us are decent? We have a tendency to lie like dogs.

[naomi]

Time is usually the best way for me to tell - Most people can't put up a fake front for very long without it cracking and in most cases falling apart.

[vladimon]

What do girls think about guys with tats?
The reason I ask is because I think I have scared off a few girls.

[naomi]

I think it's all in personal taste. I personally would prefer a guy without tattoos, or at the most a few smalls ones, but not large ones that cover the whole arm or leg.

But that's just me.

Speak to different women and you'll get different answers. In the end, it's really about the person.

[Ruthless4Life]

Why are women so emotional?

[mickey mouse]

nope...most girls expect the guy to approach the girl. Just by saying "hey whats up?" Or commenting on something shes carrying...things like that, you could have started a convo, that could have ended up with a date this weekend. Instead of waving back, just do a nod and say "hey, whats your name? or whats up?" LIE if you have to...say something like "you work at American Eagle..right?" and she will of course say "no" and thats when you say, "oh you look like this girl that works there...so what are you doing on campus so early..blah blah blah..."and convo has begun...make sense?

damn that **** is complicated as ****.

[naomi]

Why are women so emotional?

Hormones.

[Ruthless4Life]

nope...most girls expect the guy to approach the girl. Just by saying "hey whats up?" Or commenting on something shes carrying...things like that, you could have started a convo, that could have ended up with a date this weekend. Instead of waving back, just do a nod and say "hey, whats your name? or whats up?" LIE if you have to...say something like "you work at American Eagle..right?" and she will of course say "no" and thats when you say, "oh you look like this girl that works there...so what are you doing on campus so early..blah blah blah..."and convo has begun...make sense?

It doesn't make sense, because it's literally doing exactly what is totally unnecessary into achieving something totally unrelated to the goal trying to be achieved. Instead of saying, "Hi, I'd like to meet you" you have to go all the length into achieving the same goal in an attempt to make things "less ackward" yet in the reality it becomes ten folds more ackward because both parties know the conversation is complete bull**** yet tries to play along. Instead of getting to the point, both parties has to pretend to be in an imaginary conversation that is totally meaningless. It's almost like we're living in a world of dramas and soap operas that we can never be who we truly are. We have to pretend to be someone else to be with someone we never truly know.

[Jhendi82]

I would be nice if more women would give signals if they like the guy. A mile or batting of the eyes help, but coming up and starting a conversation occasionally wouldn't hurt.

[Ruthless4Life]

Another question: Is feminism dead?

[Revolver45]

Is it true that you guys don't poop?

[Jhendi82]

Nope, its alive and kicking. Most of the girls in my graduate programs are proud femenist. Sucks for me because I'm the only guy in the program.

[nail3r]

It doesn't make sense, because it's literally doing exactly what is totally unnecessary into achieving something totally unrelated to the goal trying to be achieved. Instead of saying, "Hi, I'd like to meet you" you have to go all the length into achieving the same goal in an attempt to make things "less ackward" yet in the reality it becomes ten folds more ackward because both parties know the conversation is complete bull**** yet tries to play along. Instead of getting to the point, both parties has to pretend to be in an imaginary conversation that is totally meaningless. It's almost like we're living in a world of dramas and soap operas that we can never be who we truly are. We have to pretend to be someone else to be with someone we never truly know.

Thats sounds similar to something a heard in pulp fiction

[Blowsox13]

My most recent experience has told me never to go out with an insecure girl. If you don't answer your phone or don't call them beautiful for one day they will find some dude who does and they will cheat on you with him.

[luvs2btan05]

Is it true that you guys don't poop?

that is true