Alright, a little background. I'm a virgin, and I'm 22. It's not that I haven't had opportunities to get laid before, but I've always been looking for someone that I cared about a lot before I actually took the plunge. Anyways I've been seeing this girl for 3 weeks or so now, we're getting pretty close and I wouldn't say that it's inevitable that we'll have sex, but I'm beginning to think it may happen. Anyways, I'm a little embarassed to tell her, she's my age and I'm pretty much positive she's been with around 3 guys, give or take.
The way I see it I have 3 options:
1 - Just admit it.
2 - Ease my way into it over the next couple of weeks, make sure we fool around a few times before we actually have sex, try to desensitize myself to it as much as possible.
3 - Unload my gun before I visit her, wrap it and hope for the best...
I really like this girl and don't want to turn her off to me. If this were 3 or 4 years ago, it wouldn't be a big deal, but I realize that 22 is a little late to be giving it up especially for a guy.
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