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    Should I let my GF hang out with her ex-bf (best friend)?

    Okay my girlfriend has a history with this one chick who used to be her ex-best friend. Being with her ex-best friend, she said, was like having another relationship without the touching, kissing, sex etc. Now the problem is that her ex-best friend was too bossy (an alpha female), and thats why she "broke-up" with her.

    I've told my gf almost EVERYTHING about my life. I don't like my gf telling her ex-best friend stuff about me. I HATE chick gossips, they've been gossiping about their sexual life and about their "man's" and i'm not too happy with it.

    Now my problem is that she started talking to her again. So that means, her ex-best friend will start bossing her again. Start influencing her bad again. And all that stuff.

    Any advise, comments, questions?

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    Stay neutral. Girls are often more intimate with their friends that their boyfriends. Do you really want to hear about her menstral period and bikini waxes?
    Manners are free...so use them.
    It's the friends you can call at 4:00 am that matter.

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    Staying neutral is a good idea, yes. however, if the situation is really bothering you THAT much, then just sit down with her and discuss your concerns. Explain that you are not trying to say whom she can or cannot be friends with, but that you are concerned about how her "friend" may treat her based on what you've seen/heard in the past. Also, I would not think it would be unfair for you to tell her it makes you uncomfortable that she might be sharing your secrets,etc. with this girl. Simply ask her to refrain from doing this. good luck!
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    What do you mean, "Should I let my girl hang out with her ex best friend"?

    You kids are so ridiculous, how are you going to stop her....sounds like you have a small penis complex...
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    PIITB of course.
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    actually, physics is right... i hadn't even noticed the wording of the title. you should never be under the impression that you will make someone else's decisions for them or dictate who they can or cannot spend their time with. good point, P. that being said, my advice above still applies.
    I may not always be right, but I am never wrong.

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    You should trust your girl to respect you enough to not talk about your private business.

    If you don't trust her, then maybe you need to evaluate the relationship and decide if you should be together.
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    Bottom line, doesn't matter who the friend is. A girl who is going to kiss and tell, is going to kiss and tell. You can choose to either put up with it, or give her an ultimatum. Personally I'd tell her that if her friend was going to know the intimate details, she was also going to get the cock. I mean wtf? Why be into the relationship without being INTO it. Presuming she's cute. If your gf wants behavioral exclusivity from you, then she has to grant you informational exclusivity. Read that again, and tell her. If your gf wants behavioral exclusivity from you, then she has to grant you informational exclusivity. "Don't share my business, unless you wanna share my cock," is the mantra.
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