Guys this works a treat,
I do this all the time out of 20 girls i give my card to i do get 4-5 calls (low but honest) and they are interested,
Guys some girls dont feel right bout giving there digits so i make it easier i give em mine.
and not on a piece of paper put it on a business cards or your jobs business card.
You cant lose when they call your most likely to hit it, some girls probably want give you there number cause girls have a thousand issues, boyfriends,ex boyfriends etc when there free and need a new guy to muck around with she will call you.
This is just my experience guys, it works for me.
Thread: Giving number to girls
05-20-2005, 04:10 AM #1
Giving number to girls
05-20-2005, 04:21 AM #2
IMHO if a woman is generaly interested in you, she will have no problem giving you her number, that is of course if you have been talking to her for a wile, I would not recommend just walking up on a girl and ask her for the number.
How do you give her your number/card?
Is it something similar to this...
Hi my name is XXX, I think you are interesting and I would like to give you my business card, if you want to give me a call some time we can meeet and go for a casual coffee.
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05-20-2005, 04:57 AM #4
Originally Posted by quickerblade
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One of the best pickups I've used, sitting in a pub/cocktail lounge with a few makes and make eye contact with this brunette across at another table. Smile at each other and know there are sparks. Bout 20 minutes later we ready to pay the bill, take a napkin, write my name and number on it and then on the way out, tap her on the shoulder, slip the napkin in her hand and whisper to her "Give me a call sometime, would love to go out for a drink." She ate it up like you cant believe, cause I had the confidence to approach her amongst 5 of her female mates (Not an easy thing to do at the best of time)
Ended up seeing her for quite a bit after that."The Iron never lies to you. You can walk outside and listen to all kinds of talk, get told that you're a god or a total bastard. The Iron will always kick you the real deal. The Iron is the great reference point, the all-knowing perspective giver. Always there like a beacon in the pitch black. I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds" - Henry Rollins
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05-20-2005, 10:53 AM #7
In my opinon it is ridiculous to give your number or ask for a number if you haven't even talked to that person.
If you talk to a girl for a while and the conversation goes well I think it's fine to give her your number. If you have a business card that's fine....but under no circumstance should you create a card just to give your number out to girls...that would look completely stupid.
05-20-2005, 11:31 AM #8
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I have to disagree with rungrl on this one. If I was attracted to a guy and didn't get a chance to talk to him I would love if he gave me his number. The mystery of not knowing what he is like is sexy, plus it shows he has confidence. Also, I can call him when I want so I wouldn't have to wait and see if he calls.
If he was mistaken and I wasn't attracted I wouldn't have to call him or feel bad saying no when he asks for my number (and he wouldn't have to feel rejected or whatever). This is a win-win situation.
The only thing I would hope is that when I did call that he would be the one to lead the conversation because I am sort of shy. If he wanted to hang out he should be the one to suggest it (when, where, etc.) because he obviously knows I am interested since I took the bait.
Edit: However I do agree that a business card for the sole purpose of giving your numbers to girls is stupid. Please only use a business card if you have them for a legitimate purpose anyway. Otherwise just write your number on a napkin or something.
Last edited by *Destiny*; 05-20-2005 at 11:34 AM.
05-20-2005, 12:19 PM #9
05-20-2005, 01:31 PM #10
Maybe it's just me....I just wouldn't feel comfortable giving my number to someone based on looks. I don't think that makes me uptight or boring, just cautious.
If a guys is looking at me in a bar....and I am looking back showing I am interested....if he doesn't have the balls to get up and come talk to me than I really wouldn't want him to call me.
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05-23-2005, 02:25 PM #17
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I was chatting it up with a girl one night at a friends party, this other girl came and sat by me and started talking to me, she asked me my number, I gave her my number. I left and the next day, the first girl I talked to called me, and the one that I gave my number too, didnt. So I guess it proves that if girls like you enough, they will call you, even if they have to eavesdrop to get the number lol.i have a lot of tattoos for a 21 year old
05-23-2005, 02:27 PM #18