Good looking is about facial features... like having the same size of eyes, being slim, wearing the right clothes.
Atractiveness, on the other hand, is a very different but more important thing.
Atractiveness is not about having the right facial features, but about self confidence and expression.
Same size of eyes, slim?? Come on, there are so many slim guys out there with symmetrical eyes. That doesn't mean they're good looking!!
I'd say this: If you have a face resembling Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise you are most likely good-looking. Facial features like square jaw are attractive. Unfortunately my face is womanly so I am not good-looking. I don't have a square jaw or anything like that that Brad Pitt has. Stupid genetics. But notice the way their faces are. If you have features resembling theirs, you are good-looking to most girls. Another thing that helps is having the right haircut for your face. The haircut that looks good on one guy isn't going to look good on the next. If you can, go into a salon and tell the women to pick out a haircut that suits you.
But SERIOUSLY, its all relative. Thats why you see good looking guys
with ugly girls, and hot girls with ugly guys. To each their own.
Every culture has their own definition of what or who is good looking.
****, look at what people back in the 80's thought was good looking.
I think Beyonce, Amanda Peet, and other girls that MOST people think are good looking, to be ugly. Carmen Electra, she is HOT.
If you are worried about if you are good looking, especially when it
comes to girls (cuz i dont know what gay guys like...im damn straight),
I wouldnt worry about it. Personality and how you act (cocky, confident, funny, etc) have lots to do with whether a girl likes you or not.
You are pretty much asking this question in the wrong place.
Why would you want to know what guys consider to be good looking?
Go ask a girl!!! Assuming you are straight. And if you are gay, this is definitely the wrong place to ask.
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I watched a bit of a documentary on this and I remember it talking about how a symetrical face causes the brain to think of that has good looking
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there is cute and hot, for BOTH guys and girls. its hard to make a general statement what makes u good looking. but more importantly is sex appeal, u can be really hot but have no sex appeal. its the combination that defies what u like...
What would you honestly do with this knowledge? No matter what the answer is, it's useless. Evem though there really cannot be one definite answer.
I'm one ugly ass mofo and even I have been able to get some. Granted, it was off one long term relationship, but I did alright. She stuck around for a while. Not to mention the many times in the past I have ****ed up because I didn't read REALLY obvious signals that I now look back on and think "i'm a dick"
I think, that you should be able to tell for yourself weather you are good looking or not. If you have good features (ie. no big nose, no small beady eyes, no unibrow, no chubby cheeks, good skin, etc.) you are most likely pretty good looking. You can be sure of this if more than two or three girls have said you were good looking. Of course, every girl has her "type," so even if most girls would agree you are hot, there are still some girls that wouldn't be attracted to you.
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I heard a while back a good way to tell if you are good looking or not, if you are walking down the street, hallway, etc. As you pass by girls just quickly try to make eye contact with them. If alot of girls look back at you and make eye contact, then you are good looking. Not sure if it is true, just what I have heard.
u guys there is a simple answer to why guys dont know.... girls know whether they are good looking because every guy likes one time of general face we define as hot on a girl, plus they always hear it if theyre hot. on the other hand.... girls like a variety of guys, girl taste seem to differ bigtime from girl to girl. so its much harder for us
You just get compliments frequently. Here is what I've realized: people around your age group usually don't compliment about how you look as in your face and are usually less direct, probably because it would sound weird. For example, you don't go up to a hot girl and tell you she's good looking straight up, like "you're good looking." You will get compliments about your clothing and style all the time. Family friends, or people who are older than you--people who are obviously not trying to hit on you--will be more direct about it. They'll tell you flat out you're hot or good looking or whatever. Around people my age group, like in school, chicks would say they like my shirt, style, tie, looking hot, looking good, blah blah blah. Family gatherings family friends straight up tell my parents or myself I'm good looking blah blah blah. This is just what I've noticed on the compliments I get. But of course I could be wrong. But no.
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same with the guy above.
but my looks are dependant on my hair. ill have lower confidence if my hair doesn't look good when i leave my house. but when it looks good, ill be smiling all day. ive been trying different looks lately. trying to find the perfect match to my face.