I can't stop cheating.
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09-15-2011, 07:10 PM #1
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09-15-2011, 07:16 PM #4
(watches in the backround for all the haterz to enter and call you immature. Some of the smaller repped members will not be so bold)
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Lisa Ann.
"If its not for love, then why do it at all?"
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09-15-2011, 07:18 PM #5
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09-15-2011, 07:28 PM #9
As long as your sense of happiness does not stem from how many girls you have then I think your arrangement is fine.
Will check later, Cheers!----
As someone who drops nothing but pure unadulterated [b]TRUTH[/b] this had to be done. Now that you have been hit with a healthy dose of [B]TRUTH[/B] feel free to overdose. Voila!
Positivity Crew!
Staying Positive.
Lisa Ann.
"If its not for love, then why do it at all?"
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09-15-2011, 07:29 PM #10
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09-15-2011, 07:51 PM #12
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09-15-2011, 07:59 PM #13
We know, I swear you talk about it in 50% of your posts.
But honestly who cares, dating is not marriage even though thats how everyone treats it in North America. Iv personally seen some of the biggest players turn into the best husbands when they get married and vice versa.
what I really should be posting right now is some sort of
cantsee****.jpgLast edited by semograd; 09-15-2011 at 08:15 PM.
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09-15-2011, 08:33 PM #22
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That's what I thought too. But this thread is either troll-baiting (see opening post expressing remorse and a desire to stop cheating on his girlfriend followed by obviously contradictory posts reveling in it) or, if serious, simply pathetic.
Unless you'd like to justify cheating to the rest of us? Might as well if you agree with OP; might make this thread somewhat interesting.~ Never Having Kids So Can Save Up For a 4K TV and a PLP Computer Setup Crew ~
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09-15-2011, 08:33 PM #23
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09-15-2011, 08:36 PM #24
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09-15-2011, 08:38 PM #25
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09-15-2011, 08:45 PM #26
I can assure you that hes quite serious so this is not a troll thread.
Justify? I suppose I am just selfish, to be very honest and straight to the point as someone who has cheated many times in the past and literally not felt a pang of remorse its really just because I am selfish.
I want to have my cake and eat it too, is it right? Is it fair to her? Someone I care about... No the answer is that it is not fair and the "right" thing to do would be to tell her. I've honestly given up trying to do what is "right" by everyone elses standards and kinda lived by my own, as long as I feel no guilt then I can honestly say that its very easy for me to do it. And as long as OP doesn't feel guilty I dont see why he should stop either.
I mean i've tried to psychoanalyze the reasoning behind why I do it, why I feel no guilt but I never find an answer, just a bunch of theories.
Some people often say that monogamy isn't natural so we shouldn't do it but I find it hard to believe that people really believe that we should just resort to our basic instincts and do w.e we want. If that was the case then I can assure plenty of people would be dead right, world would be hell in a hand basket if it were the case. Part of our humanity is denying those very things that make us lose our "civilized" ways. I dislike this argument and I do believe that monogamy can work I just simply know I dont want it now however I do enjoy the emotional connection of a relationship so I am trying to have both.
I kinda argued for and against me but these are the only things are coming to mind. Hope it helps and I honestly am interested in reading your opinion.
Cheers!----
As someone who drops nothing but pure unadulterated [b]TRUTH[/b] this had to be done. Now that you have been hit with a healthy dose of [B]TRUTH[/B] feel free to overdose. Voila!
Positivity Crew!
Staying Positive.
Lisa Ann.
"If its not for love, then why do it at all?"
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09-15-2011, 08:57 PM #27
Why don't you eat a dick?
I'm 100% serious btw, not a troll thread. I'd rather have her as a gf as she's hot, laid back and fun to be around. My mistresses are for fun.
Also, if gf is cheating then lol, not a single **** given. (srs). Ya, I'd deserve it, alas I **** her too good for other guys to attract her.
2 of my friends and I routinely cheat on our gf's (trips to vegas, paris, usa, etc).
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09-15-2011, 08:58 PM #28
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Not much to say, really. You took a fair shot at explaining it and recognized as selfish and (most likely) unfair to whomever you're in a relationship with. But you still do it because you acknowledge yourself as being a selfish person acting selfishly. While I find that somewhat appalling by my standards, I certainly credit your self-awareness and objectivity.
In fact, I don't think my opinion is any different from yours. The only difference, if there is one, is that I don't consider acting "unselfishly" to be conforming to someone else's standards; I'm acting the way I would want to be treated by someone I presumably care about and respect. By that measure, cheating is pathetic. You're abusing another person for your own benefit. Is it better for you? Sure. So is stealing and your justification for cheating would be just as applicable there (i.e., wanting to have your cake and eat it too, being selfish, etc.) That doesn't make stealing any less reprehensible.
Monogamy obviously isn't for everyone, nor should it be. No one is saying you have to be in a monogamous relationship. That's what open relationships are for. However, if you're in a relationship with someone you've fooled into thinking is a monogamous one... it's dishonest.
Which brings me to OP and this thread. If OP is "quite serious", as you put it, he should've robustly announced what he was doing proudly.
"Cheated on gf tonight... ask a guy who is never going to stop cheating on his gf anything". Enter thread. "Haters can eat a dick. I like having a gf and a mistress; just how grandpappy used to roll." Then so be it.
The way he did it was to bait responses so he could shove it in other people's faces. Enter thread. "I can't stop cheating I'm so sad waaaaah ". Then in response, "lol j/k I love cheating on my gf and having a mistress." I expected better from OP. That's all.
And this immature display of bravado. Do let me know if I need to explain my negative response any further, Atlas_Army?~ Never Having Kids So Can Save Up For a 4K TV and a PLP Computer Setup Crew ~
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