I like a guy from my gym...

[mmmcookiesnmilk]

Are girls allowed to post in this area? Not sure if this is right but... So. Hot guy from my gym. I'm friends with him outside of the gym and go out sometimes, with other gym friends. So I see him at the bars tonight. I've heard he only likes blondes, but we are the same race (middle eastern) and so are friends from that. I flirt with him cus I like him. He buys me drinks, but he buys everyone drinks, so that doesn't mean anything. I try my damnedest to be a flirt and nothing, this guy doesn't flirt back at all. all I really find out is when he works out (he does 2-a-days) and they joke about me joining their workouts. Which is actually kind've BS because I work out with his friend a few times a week and keep up with him. He seems to work hard, make a decent amount of money, and I've never seen him out with a girl though he's clearrrrly (no homo). I guess I should just leave well enough alone since he obviously doesn't like me, but I am thick-headed and am surprised he doesn't. what are your thoughts?

[gogz]

Are girls allowed to post in this area? Not sure if this is right but... So. Hot guy from my gym. I'm friends with him outside of the gym and go out sometimes, with other gym friends. So I see him at the bars tonight. I've heard he only likes blondes, but we are the same race (middle eastern) and so are friends from that. I flirt with him cus I like him. He buys me drinks, but he buys everyone drinks, so that doesn't mean anything. I try my damnedest to be a flirt and nothing, this guy doesn't flirt back at all. all I really find out is when he works out (he does 2-a-days) and they joke about me joining their workouts. Which is actually kind've BS because I work out with his friend a few times a week and keep up with him. I guess I should just leave well enough alone since he obviously doesn't like me, but I am thick-headed and am surprised he doesn't. what are your thoughts?

If your flirting is obvious he's either not catching on to it or he just isnt interested and just wants to be your friend

[kickbackking]

Your a girl ... guys want to **** lots of girls..... make your interest noticed he likes it he will go for you- if he doesn't bad luck

[peng]

Is the flirting subtle? Men don't do subtle. If you're "hinting", stop it and be obvious. Sounds like he has no idea.

[AlphaMe]

I'm sorry for blowing you off, khonoom. Mazarat mekhoyam.

[nealio]

what type of middle eastern are u

[mmmcookiesnmilk]

I'm sorry for blowing you off, khonoom. Mazarat mekhoyam.

haha damn straight, thanks. sadly I don't speak Farsi but for like 10 words, and no Arabic.

I'm half Persian.

I could make it more obvious, but I'm pretty sure he gets it and I don't want to be pathetic. Plus I'm moving in 3 weeks so it's basically pointless anyway. Every time he came near I paid attention to him and I was a little overly talkative. In my book, that's being overly obvious, but maybe it's not. If he was interested he would have stayed and talked to me instead of walking off to talk to other people, I'm pretty sure of that.

[gogz]

haha damn straight, thanks. sadly I don't speak Farsi but for like 10 words, and no Arabic.

I'm half Persian.

I could make it more obvious, but I'm pretty sure he gets it and I don't want to be pathetic. Plus I'm moving in 3 weeks so it's basically pointless anyway. Every time he came near I paid attention to him and I was a little overly talkative. In my book, that's being overly obvious, but maybe it's not. If he was interested he would have stayed and talked to me instead of walking off to talk to other people, I'm pretty sure of that.

or he's nervous and wishes you'd make the 1st move

[AlphaMe]

Check your PM.

[mmmcookiesnmilk]

or he's nervous and wishes you'd make the 1st move

doubt it, he doesn't seem like the nervous type, although he is not the most open. pretty sure I just have a huge ego and can't believe someone doesn't like me, even though it happens 90% of the time when I like someone.

[terrann]

from just reading this thread, i trully believe i ****ed up myself in some situations....sigh

anyways, its really his loss. as long as u tried and showed effort its his fault for not showing u any attention. maybe he is homo lol? but don't get me wrong, keep trying though, a 'guy' that your interested in will come around.

[Mourning Tide]

...closet homo - the blonde thing is just a cover-up

What a shame its him whos missin out

[mmmcookiesnmilk]

What a shame its him whos missin out

no, it's me!!



terrann, that's interesting.. hey if a girl you like wants to have a conversation, by all means do, don't find other people to talk to!

[terrann]

no, it's me!!



terrann, that's interesting.. hey if a girl you like wants to have a conversation, by all means do, don't find other people to talk to!

tell me about it...i don't let anything get past me anymore. its a must that i go for it now. otherwise ill look back and see how much of a **** up i was. took me a while to realize this as well.

[Fendi]

Ask him if he wants to eat your cookie, he should get the idea.

[9ine]

tell me about it...i don't let anything get past me anymore. its a must that i go for it now. otherwise ill look back and see how much of a **** up i was. took me a while to realize this as well.

I'm glad you realized this now. It's never too late.

[terrann]

I'm glad you realized this now. It's never too late.

thx man. for sure never too late.

[UberBicep]

Why would he not flirt back with you....you are pretty as hell

Mayble your not making it clear enough to him, or maybe he isnt to confident with the ladies.

[Malakai]

I'm half Persian.

Choose your words wisely Persian!

[ChristianBBer]

are you moving near boston my lady ?

[naweaver]

be up front with him. thats the problem with women, they try to beat around the bush instead of getting straight to the point. if you want him, go get him.

[user67987300011654]

the harder you try the less interested he will be

trust me I know, if the hottest girl in the world is hitting on me, Ill just lose interest

I see that happening to me all the time,

Dress sexy, and be distant, no more friends with him, if he asks say you are kind of talking to some guy

it will make him think.


Jani

[SlasH2244]

haha damn straight, thanks. sadly I don't speak Farsi but for like 10 words, and no Arabic.

I'm half Persian.

doroood
hey there mmmcookiesnmilk
how are you?
from Iran

[Jem777]

He might be gay for all you know

[neilc777]

you wreak of desperation, which turned him off

[Ace_2007]

I like how you say you fancy him based on the notion that you think hes got a good job and makes alot of money.

Classy girl........maybe you should leave him you're calling card?

[kyokushin1]

the harder you try the less interested he will be

trust me I know, if the hottest girl in the world is hitting on me, Ill just lose interest

I see that happening to me all the time,

Dress sexy, and be distant, no more friends with him, if he asks say you are kind of talking to some guy

it will make him think.


Jani

What the hell is wrong with you? lol, no offence, but if the hottest girl in the world was hitting on me, theres no fkn way id lose interest.

IMO, don't 'play hard to get', its bs, ask him out somewhere, chance are he'll say yes. If he says no then 99% sure he's homo, no straight guy in their right mind would knock back a chick like you.

[phateless]

I don't know cookies... the problem is obviously not looks... maybe you are trying too hard? Not suggesting you play games, but at least you have a taste of the guy's perspective now... Maybe back off a bit and see if he comes to you?

[5x10]

man up and make a move

[ebric]

bein overtalkative dosent neccessarily mean u like someone u need to make it more obvious maybe with some touching or something or say "call me" or something cuz from wat u said i prolly would jus think of it as normal