Apparently she's not doing it right, tell her what you like.
I used to have the same problem, but then my wife and her friends went to a one-day BJ class at a local sex shop (one's that geared more towards people who are creeped-out by regular sex shops). The course cost $20, and it was the best $20 I ever spent. They demonstrate on dildo's.
Fortunately, I didn't have to suggest this to her. It was one of her friends idea as a "girls night out" sort of thing. Because I'm not sure their is an easy way to ask your girl to attend such a thing.
Also, I believe there are instructional video's that cover this sort of thing.
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08-23-2007, 12:15 AM #35
I understand the problem,,, and I also have the same problem..
since having sex at age 17,, 18 years ago,,, I think I have only busted once,, I have experienced great pleasure from receiving a BJ but I never finish...
I remember once I was dating a girl that couldnt complete the job and she stopped in mid suck and said im sorry I cant do this anymore,,maybe you need to be with another woman cause this isnt working,,,, she seriously wanted to break up over it.. I told her that it wasnt her ,
I was once told that it is psychological,and somehow I have to find a way to get over it..
it isnt the end of the world, but it would be nice t be able to bust from such an intense feeling.....
your not alone in this,
08-23-2007, 12:22 AM #36
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08-23-2007, 03:27 AM #39
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dude .. exactly the same as me! i thought i was alone in this world
only difference is im not a virgin, but ive never really enjoyed bj's, ever. and many have tried, i just dont like them.===Goal achieved. Now lean bulking for life===
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08-23-2007, 03:47 AM #40
08-23-2007, 04:07 AM #41
put it this way,,, the BJ's I get feel 10 times better than actual sex,,, but for some reason I cant finish,,, I have had good and bad ones,, even great mind blowing ones, but it has only hapened once,, maybe im trying too hard who knows,, but its fun trying to figure out what the problem is,,
08-23-2007, 05:37 AM #42
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08-23-2007, 05:36 PM #45
Yeah, most of the girls who I've gotten head from didn't have a damn clue what they were doing. I think women really overestimate their sexual competence.
There was one girl though who was so perfect I shot my load easily every time and it was so much better than sex, nobody's pleasure to worry about but my own.It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees.
08-23-2007, 08:54 PM #46
08-23-2007, 09:24 PM #47
with my ex...she was amazing, she could get me off in about 5 minutes of it and it's not easy for me to finish from a BJ.
new g/f...not so amazing, but she tries. i like em sloppy and when girls make noises like the sucking sounds. i've finished with my new girl 2 times in almost 8 months.
it's not psychological, it's the girl's skill level."Always act as though it were impossible to fail." -Anonymous
08-23-2007, 09:31 PM #48
I have never gotten a good BJ in my life. Most girls are just so timid when they just need to be forceful and suck the living hell out of it. My last GF barely even moved and then I had to **** her in the mouth like it was a vag. Of course it never felt like a vag. I knew that after I would thrust and hit a tooth. When I told her to do some work she said her jaw would hurt because it took so long to get me off. No she just was awefull plus I could eat her out and get her off in less than 5 minutes. I really want to meet a girl that can give a good bj though
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