my girl of 9 months wants to do it without a condom during spring break.. and i want too also cuz both of us have never had sex w/out a condom and i really wanna feel the warmth/juicyness/etc.. (i been away at college since xmas break)
of course i wouldnt cum inside her .. but does anyone here bone without a condom?? can pre-cum cause pregnancy?? ive also heard about this "day after" pill.. what are the details on that? is it expensive and is it like an abortion or what?? cuz both me and my girl are against abortion.. any info is appreciated
Thread: Having sex without a condom ???
03-03-2005, 01:25 AM #1
Having sex without a condom ???
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03-03-2005, 01:28 AM #2
Sex without a condom risks pregnancy & STD's.
Don't do it unless your girlfriend is on birth control or you will use some other form. The morning after pill will work but make sure you actually have it in advance. She can use spermacides but I don't remember their effectivness.
Pregnancy issues aside you shoudln't have unprotected sex unless your positive your both STD free. It doesn't matter what your partner says you should both get tested.
That said... sex without a condom feels 100 times better than withCutting - 6' 3" - 28 yrs
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03-03-2005, 01:35 AM #3
Precum can definately cause pregnancy. The odds are definately not 100%, but even so it's not a risk you should be willing to take.
The morning after pill is essentially a birth control pill that's been bulking for a long time. (it's actually 3 pills she takes in a given time period) in other words a giant dose of horemones. The morning after pill is not just "take a pill and *poof* you won't get pregnant". It will make your girl feel really sick for about 24 hours.
The price and method of getting one varies from region to region, and it should only used as an emergency measure after "Accidents" (ie condom breaking, rape, etc) The morning after pill must be taken 72 hrs from the "accident". The sooner the more effective.
I would say your best bet would be to have your girl visit a doctor and get herself on some birth control pills. It'll be safer in the long run, and more enjoyable for you both.
03-03-2005, 01:37 AM #4
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03-03-2005, 01:42 AM #5
The morning-after pill is also known as Plan B. It's actually 2 pills, not 3. It reduces pregancy chances very much, but it's not 100%. The problem is, the only place I've ever gotten it was Planned Parenthood, and if you've never been there before, you have to have your girl sign up and listen in on some meeting and blah blah blah...takes a while to just get the damn pill. After you register, you can pretty much go there and just buy a new box with merely a few questions asked. However, the problem is, sometimes they wont have them, or even worse, they'll be closed or some ****. Just make sure you have them in advance if you really want to do it that way. It's scary **** to have an accident and then find out they're closed on the day after! Granted it's 72 hours or so, but still...it's scary.Who sets the standards, who sets the lines? Who keeps feeding us ethnic separation, tax levels and levels of occupation? We're all significant parts in this universal creation...
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03-03-2005, 01:42 AM #6
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03-03-2005, 02:28 AM #8
I had sex with my ex g/f for a 1 and 1/2 years without a condom. I would finish in her always. We had tons of sex 3 times/ day at least. She was on the pill which is 99.3% effective or something like that. The pill takes about a month to become fully activated in the girls body and it is a MUST she takes it when scheduled. My girl took it religously so that was a huge factor in why she didnt get preggo, IMO. Or else im impotent or something..... one or the other.
Bottom line, you should be okay if she's on the pill but there's always that 0.7% chance things can screw up. Its your call.....
03-03-2005, 02:58 AM #9
dont DO IT!!!
**** can happen and if it can happen it does maybe not to u but somebody else!
reasons not to do it:
1. both of u agaisnt abortion; she misses period ...ur str8 fukked
2. as the other guy said...u do it once w/out and u wont be able to go back to rubbers
if u are willing to risk it and planning to fukk w/out rubber on regular basis then make sure she takes a pill everyday at the same time!! and ya bustin inside or pulling out is almost the same i believe, due to PRECUM=============================================
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03-03-2005, 03:03 AM #10
get her on the pill and you'll be fine
the pill is 99.9999% effective and thats what they even teach catholic shoolgirls.
so get on the pill its like 20 bucks a month and you'll be scott free, unless you dont trust your girl, in which case you'll be using condoms anyways, but i'm sure you can get away with it a few times.
get in there, and she'll love it, pill and pull out method will be fine.
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As the other guys said, once you try it without it will be hard to go back. Also, the withdrawal method sounds good, but you eventually will start getting more and more risky about when to pull out. All I can say is, if you do it, don't be a little bitch about the consequences. Experiencing a little more pleasure isn't worth it if it leads to an unwanted child or STDs. There is enough of that around already. Get her on birth control, first!! Then go and have fun.
03-03-2005, 08:25 AM #17Originally Posted by Poor Excuse
If your girlfriend is on the birth control pill, taking it properly and not taking any other kind of medication then you could, relatively safely, have sex without a condom. I have however seen girls get pregnant despite being on 'the pill'.
Call me a prude but if you're not ready to have a kid, I would continue to use as many forms of contraception as you feel comfortable.
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My girlfriend and I started having sex without a condom about 2 years ago, she is on the pill for the last 6 years. I almost always go inside her unless she has missed a pill or been on antibiotics. The feeling you get from having unprotected sex will make you never want to wear a condom again. So my advice to you is, if this is the girl you are going to be with forever then go ahead, if not don't. Regardless if you can get her on BC, do it. The safer the better. I've tried condoms since and I don't enjoy sex with them anymore.
03-03-2005, 11:03 AM #22
I only use condoms untill been goin out more than 3 months condoms take loads of out of the actuall pleashure i hate them loads. Get her on the pill thats wot i done also not only is it like 50 times better feeling which makes u cum quick at first but u dnt have to keep buying them and worrying if they split and **** like that. Thats what happend to me it split then i felt how gd it was soon got her on the pill lol.CURRENT STATS -
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03-03-2005, 02:03 PM #24
My advise would be not to do it, unless she is on birth control. Then try it but don't make a habit in doing it. My girl has been on bc the entire time over the 4 yrs we've been sexually active and I've gone bareback with her 3 times, once I cummed in her the other two times I pulled out.I AM THE MAN!
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03-03-2005, 03:29 PM #26Originally Posted by Dirtbahg
Do not bang her without protection....she is up to something.A winner is someone who recognizes his God given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals. - Larry Bird
03-03-2005, 03:39 PM #27
I consider myslef very lucky. I"ve been with a girl for about a year and a half now. The first 3 months i always used condoms. The rest of the time i never wore a condom, and she wasnt on any kind of birth control either. I would always just make sure to pull out. I was nervous the first month when it got time for her peroid. But she always had it, so from then on i just stopped thinking about it, it was the norm. All my friends are the same way. I dont advice for anyone to do it, it is risky, i guess i was just lucky. So anyway, i decide to start using condoms again, this month. ITs been hard as hell, it just aint the same with a condom on, but im gettin used to it and im gonna stick with protection from now on.
03-03-2005, 03:52 PM #28