Ahh this is such a hard day. It would have been my 7th month aniversary. Yes my aniversary is on Valentines day. I just looked at her sn on aim and it says "out" This is hard guys...If you all read my other thread in the past you will understand what I am talking about... I miss my gf, it sucks shes not mine anymore, even till this day I still love her. Theres nothing I can do but sit back and maybe talk to her in the future. I am going to college soon and I would love to stay in touch with her because when I get out she is exactly the kind of girl I want to be with.
Ps: Pray for me guys, for the past 2 months I have been devistated and hurt, I am at rock bottom, I try to go out but it just makes me miss her more when I see all the other couples. I drink somtimes thinking it will help but it just makes it worse...please pray for me, pray that things work out for me and hopfully I will be with her in the future. I believe things will just take time and maybe I can start over with her..
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02-14-2005, 03:24 PM #1Banned
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GF Broke My Heart pt:2 - Would Have been 7th Month Aniversary(Valentines Day)
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02-14-2005, 03:28 PM #2Overtraining King
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7 months are you f*king serious?
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02-14-2005, 03:30 PM #3Number 2
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We're all just a bunch of flesh, bone, blood and poop. It isn't worth the time to dwell on it. I find it hilarious what I did after my last break up.
P.S. LOL at 7 months. Don't neg rep me for that, I'm going to be 'out'.
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02-14-2005, 03:32 PM #4Ruthless4Life
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Is there such thing as a 7 month aniversary? Do you have one for every month?Originally Posted by SkillzAhh this is such a hard day. It would have been my 7th month aniversary. Yes my aniversary is on Valentines day. I just looked at her sn on aim and it says "out" This is hard guys...If you all read my other thread in the past you will understand what I am talking about... I miss my gf, it sucks shes not mine anymore, even till this day I still love her. Theres nothing I can do but sit back and maybe talk to her in the future. I am going to college soon and I would love to stay in touch with her because when I get out she is exactly the kind of girl I want to be with.
Ps: Pray for me guys, for the past 2 months I have been devistated and hurt, I am at rock bottom, I try to go out but it just makes me miss her more when I see all the other couples. I drink somtimes thinking it will help but it just makes it worse...please pray for me, pray that things work out for me and hopfully I will be with her in the future. I believe things will just take time and maybe I can start over with her..
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02-14-2005, 03:37 PM #5Banned
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Well I ment it would have been 7 months together and since its Vday it would have been special.
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02-14-2005, 03:40 PM #6Registered User
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hey bro, its time to get over her. Theres other fish in the sea u will find another girl u can really be happy with. just give it time
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02-14-2005, 03:43 PM #7Banned
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Thanks bro, its hard man, its just so messed up that its been almost 2 months and I still want her back..I talked to her yesterday online when i was drunk and she told me she needs to move on, she said she just couldnt do it anymore. I am not happy just being friends with her but thats what I asked for because I want to stay in touch with her during college. She said that in time that maybe we can be friends but she said right now she needs time for evrything to cool off. So I guess she just wants time, and ill try to give it to her.Originally Posted by Stambe
Ps: you know how you act when your drunk, I just told her everything I spilled out everything once again. Thats when she said sorry but I cant do this aymore etc.....I was crying bros, it so hard to get over this girl.
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02-14-2005, 03:45 PM #8Chem nerd
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Originally Posted by Skillz
Just try to get by man, I mean, go and make some suppliments and sell them to people who don't know your 17. maybe after you can make some transdermal love potion to sell as well.
ATTENTION WHORE
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02-14-2005, 03:47 PM #9Banned
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come on bro, please not here. Im realy not in the mood, im so damn upset. You dont seem to be a bad guy, please dont start stuff here.Originally Posted by Oxi
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02-14-2005, 03:54 PM #10Banned
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Guys I dunno how to get over her, I tried going out and meeting new people but at the end of the day shes on my mind and I start feeling even more depressed...
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02-14-2005, 03:57 PM #11Tuna Makes Me Puke
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My last GF I dated for 14 months, it took me a year before I wanted to date anyone else. I have a different girlfriend now and I have to admit, sometimes I still have romantic feelings towards the first.
The best way to get over her is to become the biggest PUA you know
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02-14-2005, 03:58 PM #12LATman! To the rescue
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Dude seriously your about to go to college?.....then what the hell do you want a steady woman for?.........cuz i promise, when she gets into college and has a million different guys hittn on her, she'll fall for one then she'll cheat on you and it will be that much harder.....what you need to do is try your damdiest to get over it and start meeting more chicks.......promise this stuff will be over soon......Originally Posted by Skillz
fck im getting a divorce and ive been with this chick for 4.5 years and im not crying over the shiat, and to top things off im in kuwait were it is not easy to find another female......guy to girl is like 10:4 or 3 even...........and the fact that im in kuwait...yeaaa thats not to cool.......i have to suck it up and drive on.....and so do youFOR SALE: Iraqi rifle. Never fired. Dropped once.
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02-14-2005, 03:58 PM #13Banned
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PUA?Originally Posted by FFactoryMy last GF I dated for 14 months, it took me a year before I wanted to date anyone else. I have a different girlfriend now and I have to admit, sometimes I still have romantic feelings towards the first.
The best way to get over her is to become the biggest PUA you know
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02-14-2005, 03:59 PM #14Banned
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I know its stupid cause Im going to college, but I would be happy keeping in touch. I wouldnt mind being with her when I get out of college and If i stay close with her I think it could happen, do you think this is stupid bro?Originally Posted by DRU1
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02-14-2005, 04:01 PM #15Banned
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Bro you just gotta grow a pair and deal with it. Shes just a girl man, you'll meet others. I mean crying, wtf?
PS: go to the gym and work out right now, it helps. Just dont break down and cry in the squat rack
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02-14-2005, 04:01 PM #16
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02-14-2005, 04:03 PM #17(Pumping & Humping)
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I stopped reading your posts....you talk to yourself.
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02-14-2005, 04:04 PM #18LATman! To the rescue
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Actually no not at all....my first real gf i dated for 2 years, and we broke up...i just wanted to be single then....i cried over her and everything....i told her that if it was meant to be then we would get back together......we never stayed friends like i said we would, but now 4.5 years later, i started talking to her again, and she has become sweeter and more cute than ever....i dont know what to do now.....Originally Posted by Skillz
Really though if it was meant to be, like for real, then by the time your out of college or even b4 you will get back together.....after she finds out noone is better for her and noone is better for you, then you'll get back togetherFOR SALE: Iraqi rifle. Never fired. Dropped once.
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02-14-2005, 04:05 PM #19Banned
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Im mad and depressed 24/7. It soo bad. Ever since we broke up I have been getting into fights with everyone and even serious fights with people I am friends with. I am always confused and I feel as if I hit rock bottom. I did everything with her and we were sooo close. It hurts when you love someone who doesnt love you back...Atleast thats what I get from this, I believe if she trully loved me she would have given me a 2nd chance.
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02-14-2005, 04:09 PM #20LATman! To the rescue
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From the sounds of it she has given you 2nd and 3rd and 4th chance...you said you would break up with her then get back together.....she prolly feels like you would just break up with her when ever you feel like it.....she prolly does love you, but think you might not love her as much....Originally Posted by Skillz
See if she found someone else....that could be the case....you never know with females.....there very sneaky....FOR SALE: Iraqi rifle. Never fired. Dropped once.
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02-14-2005, 04:10 PM #21Banned
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well right now i think she might have, its V-day and she says shes out on her away message on AIM. I think she might have a date. This is killing me..Just the thought of another guy touchin her gets me so MAD and DEPRESSED...
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02-14-2005, 04:12 PM #22Why don't you talk to someone a little bit more experienced (i.e. psychologist)? This really is NOT the forum for someone in your state of mind to be soliciting relationship advice and/or advice on how to cope. You should also be discussing your feelings with those close to you, not complete strangers who don't know the intimate details of your particular situation. Any advice anyone here could give you is a crap shoot at best.Originally Posted by Skillz
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02-14-2005, 04:15 PM #23Banned
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Its realy simple I want her back, and IDK What to do. I tried everything, the only thing I can do is sit back and watch the girl I love get with other guys. I guess I just need to wait this out and slowly start talking to her. She has a hard time speakin to me, she said she needs time before we can even talk about being friends. Its rediculous, I need this girl, I had alot of girls and I never cared about any of them like this one.
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02-14-2005, 04:15 PM #24LATman! To the rescue
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How do you thnk i feel with my future ex wife in the states, being able to do what she wants, while im over here in kuwait, living my routine life, sleeping in a bay with 100+ guys.....at least you can go out and do something to take your mind off of it......i dont have any real friends here and i do shiat by myself all day....in the states, im never seen without a friend or girl or someone....yeah kinda sucks.....its life and mine seems to be a bit worse at the moment.....but hey im an optimistic....so when im done with this, good with come to meOriginally Posted by SkillzFOR SALE: Iraqi rifle. Never fired. Dropped once.
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02-14-2005, 04:16 PM #25Get off the computer, stop talking about this with complete and utter strangers. All you're doing is prolonging the feelings of depression and in turn hurting yourself (not her). If you want to write your thoughts down, keep a diary, but for god sakes stop posting about it on here. No one should be responding to you and carrying this crap on. The only thing it seems to be doing is upsetting you MORE. Go see your school's guidance counsuler, they're paid to help teenagers through this sort of situation. Believe me you won't be the first kid your guidance counsuler has seen for such a situation.Originally Posted by Skillz
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02-14-2005, 04:16 PM #26This is Absolution!
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Bro, it sounds like this is a hell of a lot more than a girl issue. I know people like you, and I have been there myself. You don't feel like the worst person on earth, horrible and depressed JUST over a girl. It's you. I think you need to work on yourself more than anything, your confidence and self-esteem seem pretty low. I know you think it is just about her, but I believe if you look much deeper you will find out that isn't true.
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02-14-2005, 04:17 PM #27Banned
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Na bro its not making me feel worse. I like listening to others advice. It helps me sort out my thoughts. DO any of you see any way of getting her back? Is time my best option?
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02-14-2005, 04:21 PM #28LATman! To the rescue
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Do you take psycology? Cuz that was pretty intelligent......never thought about it that way....maybe thats why i never get depressed with breaking up with females.....it may be sad for a day, week at worse....but i always got over itOriginally Posted by AmateurWrestler
EDIT: and stop worrying about getting her back....if you even did it would make you look like a push over and she would prolly take complete advantageFOR SALE: Iraqi rifle. Never fired. Dropped once.
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02-14-2005, 04:22 PM #29Overtraining King
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BREAK ALL CONTACT NOW!Originally Posted by Skillz~ BMBc ~ Ballin' since the start.....
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02-14-2005, 04:23 PM #30experiment in progress
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whatever you do bro don't beg for her back
Don't call her up and beg for her to give you another chance. Thats the worse thing you could do, and you'll look like an AFC. I know its hard to get over a girl you care so much about, I've been through the samething so have the other guys on he board. I'll gve you the same advice the other guys have given you, "move on". If she wants to be with you she will get back with you, after she tests the water with other guys. You just need to get your confidence back, and no better place to do it tha the gym. After your feeling pumped up tht may help.
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" This is hard guys...If you all read my other thread in the past you will understand what I am talking about... I miss my gf, it sucks shes not mine anymore, even till this day I still love her. Theres nothing I can do but sit back and maybe talk to her in the future. I am going to college soon and I would love to stay in touch with her because when I get out she is exactly the kind of girl I want to be with. 
whatever you do bro don't beg for her back
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