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    What should I say to a friend who just got dumped?

    ok..i have this friend who has been in a serious relationship for awhile now and things started to get questionable lately...he kindof kept blowing her off for no reason so tonight she went to his house to talk and he said he wanted to be friends for now. He went on about he has 'depression' but I think that is total BS!!anyways, she is soo pretty and will have no problem getting a new bf but right now she's really hurt. she's coming over later, is there anything I can say to make her see that its his loss?
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    Yeah that depression sounds like an excuse for him to see someone else. Just remind her of her positive qualities and why she can do much better than him. Try to give her reasons why she should be happy they broke up, like she can do much better without him and say things like he was always dragging you down etc, now you can have fun again. Just be upbeat.
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    Well maybe you can treat her better.

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    Originally Posted by angelfire2005 View Post
    Yeah that depression sounds like an excuse for him to see someone else. Just remind her of her positive qualities and why she can do much better than him. Try to give her reasons why she should be happy they broke up, like she can do much better without him and say things like he was always dragging you down etc, now you can have fun again. Just be upbeat.
    good advice!!...I hope she gets over it quickly
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    Originally Posted by NVMExoxo View Post
    good advice!!...I hope she gets over it quickly
    but the funny thing is they seemed really happy till very recently and he treated her really well...go figure
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    when she comes over bang her, she will know how special she is then.

    lol j/k but i would just be real nice and try and make her laugh alot and realize that there are more guys out there that will treat her better etc. and that guys flock to her etc....basically building up her ego.

    watch out, she might try to get on you.
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    Say: "Don't worry, your boyfriend was too good for you anyways". Then exploit her low self esteem.
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