A girl I've been trying to get with ditched me on our plans. We work together and I asked her to go see a movie with me. She said maybe, but then said yes and kept putting it off.
Finally, we set a date on thursday, which she forgot about but I reminded her that day during work. Later on that night I texted her to see if she was ready but said "sorry i cant go i forgot its my friends birthday".
So, do I...
A. Try and reschedule, and keep pursuing it?
B. Be angry, give up, and be an ******* to her during work?
Thread: Girl ditched me... give up?
07-21-2007, 12:02 AM #1
Girl ditched me... give up?member of the 1000lb club (ya rly)
07-21-2007, 12:08 AM #2
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07-21-2007, 12:17 AM #7
A) dont pursue it..the trick is getting her to pursue you...since she doesnt ....it just means she doesnt want to
B)dont get angry ---it will feed her ego...it will show her how much you liked her---
c)do c...dont give her the time of day ....act corgial to her..but dont talk to her or answer her calls...just hi and bye--
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07-21-2007, 03:19 PM #13
C. STOP BEING SO NEEDY! You can clearly see that you are all over this chick, and needyness is very unattractive. Im not supprised at all that she flaked on you.
D. By letting her flake on you, and you not calling her on her ****, you just proved to her that you dont yourself value your time. You teach people how to treat you, so if you get any kind of second class behavior from anyone in your life, call them on it IMMEDIATLEY! I think the best thing now that you can do is to forget her in a relationship way, and not pursue it. Chasing after her more just shows that she is the one in control.
07-21-2007, 04:03 PM #14