is it wrong???

just pushit · 07-17-2007, 04:12 PM

is it wrong to want your S.O to have the same goals (bodywise) as you?
meaning if you were fit and healthy and workout regularly and your S.O was just someone that ate whatever they wanted and were definetly out of shape?

would it be wrong to want them to be like you are? or at least put an effort into it? or would i just be trying to force them into something that htey could care less about?

Strongdog · 07-17-2007, 04:18 PM

I know how you feel. I want my girlfriend to eat better cause her diet is ****... I even bought her a multi vitamin to take every morning but thats about all she is willing to do. I would love it if she would go to the gym with me a couple days a week

Escorcio · 07-17-2007, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by just pu****

is it wrong to want your S.O to have the same goals (bodywise) as you?

Lol.

ffs someone fix the pic to come up in the thread, it's just linkin it when im tryin to image >.<

just pushit · 07-17-2007, 04:21 PM

noice
lol

Strongdog · 07-17-2007, 04:32 PM

lol....im sure he doesnt want her to workout that hard

EZ-Bar · 07-17-2007, 04:41 PM

lol of course its not wrong you have standards..thats good

your life, your women, go for it.

Below 30 · 07-17-2007, 05:50 PM

It is wrong to expect that from your girl, why? Because if you want fit girls, get fit girls. Don't pick any random girl and then expect her to be molded into your dream girl. Do it right the first time -30-

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Lol.

ffs someone fix the pic to come up in the thread, it's just linkin it when im tryin to image >.<

That really pic really does make one wonder.

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JibJab · 07-18-2007, 06:58 AM

My hands are all callused from lifting.

That's why I need girls.

Therefore your plan is bad.

manualD · 07-18-2007, 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by just pu****

is it wrong to want your S.O to have the same goals (bodywise) as you?
meaning if you were fit and healthy and workout regularly and your S.O was just someone that ate whatever they wanted and were definetly out of shape?

would it be wrong to want them to be like you are? or at least put an effort into it? or would i just be trying to force them into something that htey could care less about?

Well,,, my wife is big into running,, but doesn't work out...

And actually, I don't really want her working out... she looks fine as she is,,, and I don't really want a wife with a 6-pack... it just seems un-feminine to me...

user89489489438943 · 07-18-2007, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by just pu****

is it wrong to want your S.O to have the same goals (bodywise) as you?
meaning if you were fit and healthy and workout regularly and your S.O was just someone that ate whatever they wanted and were definetly out of shape?

would it be wrong to want them to be like you are? or at least put an effort into it? or would i just be trying to force them into something that htey could care less about?

no.

i workout to look good so i can pick up/be with GOOD LOOKING CHICKS.

/thread.

SpoofRocket · 07-18-2007, 09:54 AM

My last girl was lazy and ate cereal as a snack before bed. I was always on her about her eating habbits which was all carbs and nothing else. Tried getting her to goto the gym, I paid for her membership, bought her gym clothes. when i went to the store i only bought healthy items. she went to the store on her lunch break and brought home chips and romken noodles and just ****.

She was a gold digging bitch... If I have to pay for a gold digging bitch then I want a fit gold digging bitch. So I traded the gold digging bitch in for a newer model that has the workout option as a standard.

Escorcio · 07-18-2007, 01:04 PM

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It is wrong to expect that from your girl, why? Because if you want fit girls, get fit girls. Don't pick any random girl and then expect her to be molded into your dream girl. Do it right the first time -30-

That really pic really does make one wonder.

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Eh and why is this??!

Below 30 · 07-18-2007, 01:14 PM

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Eh and why is this??!

[img] code is for the moderator or Admin to turn on. This area I learned was called "Sex Section". They were allowed to post porn etc, then they turned it into R/H and turned the [img] code off in R/H, but left it on in MISC where gay porn is posted all day.

This area is lower volume and more controlled than MISC and yet the code is off -30-

ShadyBizzness · 07-18-2007, 02:13 PM

What I hate is that there's plenty of girls with ass but what about girls with nice quads? Where are the girls who look like they squat? Why do they seem to be so few and far between? Not overly muscular but you can tell they work legs. But back to the topic, I don't think you're wrong for wanting someone like that but why date someone you don't seem to be particularly attracted to in the first place? I met a girl who had a great body (I actually thought she worked out). She not only didn't go to the gym but she also eats chips and fast food like most teenagers. Not so pretty in the face but her physique was just genetically gifted (I think she used to be fat though so it's strange, lol).

Mase64 · 07-18-2007, 02:14 PM

hahaha Fat bitches.. ill passs

user9689066 · 07-18-2007, 03:21 PM

Here's someone from the other side...

I started dating a guy who was a total gym nut. I was 5'8" 145 lbs. From dating him, I cleaned up my diet, started going to the gym regularly, and am now down to 130 lbs. All is well in the world...

Except he still would get on me about how my body still wasn't shaped enough, I should be improving more, and that clearly my workout was all wrong. Each time I go to the gym, I improve and I constantly am getting complements on how fabulous I look...except from him.

Based on many things, we are no longer together. The moral of my sob story is, there's nothing wrong with trying to get an SO to join in a healthy lifestyle...she'll probably feel amazing and love you for it even more once she starts seeing progress. But don't get on her too much, or else everything she gained will be totally ignored and will backfire.

just pushit · 07-18-2007, 03:42 PM

she keeps saying she wants to do this or that and i try and help her i do not push her whatsoever, and whenever i try to help as she has asked then she gets pissed, and she was in decent shape to begin with running and all that. but she has gone downhill tremndously since then

user9689066 · 07-18-2007, 07:50 PM

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she keeps saying she wants to do this or that and i try and help her i do not push her whatsoever, and whenever i try to help as she has asked then she gets pissed, and she was in decent shape to begin with running and all that. but she has gone downhill tremndously since then

She's probably super self conscious. If you've noticed her go downhill, you better believe she's noticed too. Make going to the gym something you guys do together and try not to critique her when you're there. She may have let everything go because she would rather spend time with you than worry about the gym, but if you're lifting and she's doing cardio, for instance, everyone wins