Heh I get this all the time from my mom. The convo usually goes something like this:
Me: So I met this girl..
Mom: Is she black or white?
Me: Does it matter?
I recall when I was younger I would just lie about it (I'd just say the girl was black all the time) b/c there was a point where I was really attracted to white girls simply b/c there were a lot more whites around me than blacks. But I honestly don't care and I don't think my mom entirely gets that. I still find it funny. That is probably why I don't divulge all my love life to her but more to other members of my family. Anyone else w/ a similar experience?
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07-06-2007, 10:54 AM #1uberschwert
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Do your parents ever ask you the race of the person you're seeing?
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07-06-2007, 10:56 AM #2Enjoy The Ment
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Don't think they've ever asked me. If you get a bit up in the generations in my family I've noticed a bit of racism (nothing overt) but my parents, not even slightly.
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07-06-2007, 10:58 AM #3Straight Cash Homie
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my mom asks me everytime i date a new women.
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07-06-2007, 11:12 AM #4This Takes Skill
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everytime
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07-06-2007, 11:15 AM #5
well then they ask..i answer by saying : well the race is human..
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07-06-2007, 11:18 AM #6not applicable
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Never.
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07-06-2007, 11:24 AM #7I Want to Believe
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yes my parents dont want me dating a black girl or asian girl..so in 8th grade when I dated a black girl they got mad lolz
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07-06-2007, 11:41 AM #8Registered User
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yes. seriously, i'd hate to admit it, but if my parents found out i was dating a black girl, i would get disowned immediately.
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07-06-2007, 11:49 AM #9uberschwert
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Really? Damn. Honestly I think it is easier for men to rebel against that rule than females. I told my mom I care more about religious beliefs more than race.Originally Posted by Beach Boy XL
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07-06-2007, 11:50 AM #10
our race is human...black, white, yellow, brown is NOT a race
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07-06-2007, 11:56 AM #11Banned
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Never. OP, your mom seems a little racist.
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07-06-2007, 12:54 PM #12120kg/264lb DL :D
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Um no, but my mother once rang me to check my boyfriend wasn't Japanese.
I have no idea what brought this on - I'd been with him for 8 years, she'd met him countless times, and he was 6' 1" with blue eyes......very very English looking.
She just went right on one.....WTF?????
Having said that, I live nowhere near my family so they wouldn't know anyway. A lot of them are a bit set in their ways, so I would probably cause a stir if I turned up to a family do with someone who wasn't white, or in fact English
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07-06-2007, 12:54 PM #13Hei Long....Wo Ai Ni. ;)
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My parents only asked me once. My answer was "human" and my mom gave me that "Oh, sorry. Didn't mean it that way" kind of look. Now, they don't ask me anymore.
More on family reunions. I took my fiance to a family reunion a while back (she's asian, but got NICE curves). All of the "cousins" were checking her out, it was hilarious. One of my aunts pulled me aside and asked if my then gf liked "southern cooking". I said yes, she smiled, and then said "Good.........now SHE'S a keeper."
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07-06-2007, 12:57 PM #14Live by it.
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No they have never asked me, but they always tell my sister that if she ever comes home with a black guy, there will be hell to pay.
I cant believe how racist they are about that. and the thing is, its ONLY when it comes to my sister dating. My dad claims its because he overhears how badly his black co-workers talk about women, but white guys do the same thing. Its just a weird way of justifying it.
They probably wouldnt give it a second thought if i brought a black girl home. Oh and btw, (NO RACIST)
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07-06-2007, 01:13 PM #15Hei Long....Wo Ai Ni. ;)
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Originally Posted by AcEReconA
Hahahahaha. Let ME come home w/ your daughter. I wanna see this for myself.
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07-06-2007, 01:22 PM #16uberschwert
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My mom only cares if they are white TBH b/c she's tried to hook me up w/ non black girls before. Granted my family is from Alabama, she really wouldn't kick me out or disown me, she would probably make on the sligh comments about it once in a while but thats about it.
On that note I recall one of my aunts (1/2 black 1/2 puertorican) asked me why I like white girls. I told her I like different flavors once in a while not just one!
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07-06-2007, 01:25 PM #17
I actually get that from the parents of the guys I date all the time. They will tell their parents my name before meeting me in person and the parents ask if I'm black.
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07-06-2007, 01:30 PM #18Forever aBOARD
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My parents would probably only have a problem if I ended up with a black girl... Even then they probably wouldn't even say anything to me, but I'd know they'd disagree with it.
They aren't really racist but we live in the deep south and around here the only type of black/white mixed relationships are with a trashy type of people... You know, the type that live in the ghetto on welfare, sit around and drink or do drugs all day...
Around here whites and blacks with class seem to feel the same way (even ones not racist).
Not saying every mixed relationship is like that but I'm saying the city I live in it seems that way.
(No racism)Last edited by guest89; 07-06-2007 at 01:32 PM.
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07-06-2007, 01:32 PM #19bruno
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Yes, it is one of the first things they ask me since my brother goes all united nations with the girls he goes out with. He went out with a chinese, korean, indian, german, etc. My mom also admitted she wants me to marry a white girl simply to keep the whiteness of our family, but she would accept whoever I would marry.
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07-06-2007, 01:33 PM #20uberschwert
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Have any of you been around a lot of people outside your race (like myself) when you were younger?
A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
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07-06-2007, 01:36 PM #21Registered User
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Man, I hate that question.
After my mom asked me one time, after I answered... "...but one day I'd love to have an Asian because some are freakin hot and probably crazy in bed."
Yeah, I don't see her asking again.
Note: I plan on adopting in the future, which will most likely be an Asian girl or something.
Keeping the white in the family? The most ****ed up thing I heard.
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07-06-2007, 01:40 PM #22Registered User
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you forgot redOriginally Posted by Giveitall
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I stand for the negro
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all hopped up on booze
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07-06-2007, 01:41 PM #23uberschwert
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Ahh you're white I take it? My mom tries to give me the guilt trip question 'Don't you want a wife like your mother?'. OUCH!Originally Posted by Jacked_J
But its funny to hear this racial preservation stuff from 1) Americans/Canadians since the culture is mostly heterogeneous (trust me Southern Whites and Southern Blacks for example have many similarities) and 2) Devoutly religious people, e.g. most Christians in America.A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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07-06-2007, 01:44 PM #24Fatter Than You Think
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yep i have i still have friends of different races, black, white, mexican, asianOriginally Posted by sword_
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07-06-2007, 03:22 PM #25Checkmate, Mr. Eko
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YES always lmao.
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07-06-2007, 04:14 PM #26KNEES GO PAST TOES
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that's really freakin' weird, never been asked that, my last girlfriend was Thai and I'm Cuban and I got some questions AFTER I introduced her but never when I first told the fam I was seeing her.
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07-06-2007, 05:45 PM #27
I guess it's less racist in Canada than in the US, I have seen so many inter-racial couples over there.
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07-06-2007, 08:03 PM #28Banned
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They've never asked me and they don't care. Then again my parents are different races.
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07-06-2007, 09:10 PM #29Registered User
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man, i get the same thing, except they ask if shes native....and it makes me so mad. like does it really matter, racism at any level gets me upset...Originally Posted by sword_
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07-06-2007, 09:17 PM #30Registered User
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well it's kind of weird, since my mom's mexican, my dad's irish. My dad's racist to all but white but yet he had kids with a mexican?
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