Girls...What's your biggest turn off?!

[MistyT]

So we have already had the debate about how short is too short, how tall is too tall, etc. Now I want to know what your biggest turn off is about the opposite sex!

Personally, mine is men who act as if they are God's gift to women. There is nothing worse to me than an overly conceited man!

[Constantina]

1. I can only see his figure, he is good. He comes closer. hmmm nice body also. Comes closer, very nice face. OMG he is gonna talk to me... And then he opens his mouth and i know that he is an idiot...

2. Men that try to behave as alpha... (see 1)

[lulublue]

Big big turn off

Guys that put on the "gay voice" and doing the whole limp wrist thing thinking it's hilarious.

I'm not so much offended by it as just don't find it funny and think it shows real ignorance and lack of intelligence.

Soooo damn many guys do it with their mates and think its freakin hilarious, makes me wanna leave them there and then

[MistyT]

1. I can only see his figure, he is good. He comes closer. hmmm nice body also. Comes closer, very nice face. OMG he is gonna talk to me... And then he opens his mouth and i know that he is an idiot...

2. Men that try to behave as alpha... (see 1)

I agree with your number one!

And to add to it...

A good looking man without teeth. (somethings I just can't handle)

[Mrs_Muscles]

1. Completely weak handshakes
2. Totally full of themselves, know it alls, player types etc.
3. Chauvinists
4. Over agressive, looking for a fight around every corner

[limniade]

1. Completely weak handshakes
2. Totally full of themselves, know it alls, player types etc.
3. Chauvinists
4. Over agressive, looking for a fight around every corner

x2. Add to that:

1. Unaware of their surroundings and current events in general. Read a newspaper for once!

2. Don't read books. I LOVE to read. If you hate to read, we will have nothing to say to each other.

3. Guys who act like I'm trying to "prove" something just by living my life and working toward my own goals. Or who tell me that "guys don't like it" when women make a certain amount of money, or have certain interests or ambitions. If a guy is intimidated by my daily routine of working, enjoying my hobbies, furthering my career, paying my bills and planning my future, then he needs to get a life, pronto.

4. Guys who don't keep their word. If you say you're going to call, call. If you say you're going to be there at 7, be there at 7. If something comes up, tell me, IN ADVANCE, so I can make other plans. It's not that big a deal. But repeatedly wasting my time, that IS a big deal, and a deal-breaker.

5. GUYS WHO CAN'T LOOK THINGS UP THEMSELVES. Is it really that f**king hard to use Google? Find your OWN phone numbers, your OWN directions, and the answers to whatever questions may cross your mind.

6. Likewise to #5, guys who don't perform due diligence. I'm a web designer and my company performed a study on the buying habits of men and women. Men are far more likely to go into a store, pick out the shiny expensive thing, ask "the guy" about it, and buy it. Women, on the other hand, will do tons of research to find the best brand, then tons of comparison-shopping to find the best price, then go into the store to look at it, THEN buy it. It's amazing how many guys I know will buy big-ticket items (cars, car repairs, TVs, computers, etc) without even looking to see if it's on sale anywhere, without getting it checked out (cars), etc. My ex took his car in for maintenance and paid about $450 for work that would've cost him $300 if he'd gone somewhere other than the dealer. And yet then they turn around and condescend to women for anything related to cars or electronics.

[Jordyn]

poor personal hygiene (ex: body odor, bad breath....)

[fasttwitch]

Ladies thank you so much for having this thread!

[CoffeCanSlayer]

x2. Add to that:

1. Unaware of their surroundings and current events in general. Read a newspaper for once!

2. Don't read books. I LOVE to read. If you hate to read, we will have nothing to say to each other.

3. Guys who act like I'm trying to "prove" something just by living my life and working toward my own goals. Or who tell me that "guys don't like it" when women make a certain amount of money, or have certain interests or ambitions. If a guy is intimidated by my daily routine of working, enjoying my hobbies, furthering my career, paying my bills and planning my future, then he needs to get a life, pronto.

4. Guys who don't keep their word. If you say you're going to call, call. If you say you're going to be there at 7, be there at 7. If something comes up, tell me, IN ADVANCE, so I can make other plans. It's not that big a deal. But repeatedly wasting my time, that IS a big deal, and a deal-breaker.

5. GUYS WHO CAN'T LOOK THINGS UP THEMSELVES. Is it really that f**king hard to use Google? Find your OWN phone numbers, your OWN directions, and the answers to whatever questions may cross your mind.

6. Likewise to #5, guys who don't perform due diligence. I'm a web designer and my company performed a study on the buying habits of men and women. Men are far more likely to go into a store, pick out the shiny expensive thing, ask "the guy" about it, and buy it. Women, on the other hand, will do tons of research to find the best brand, then tons of comparison-shopping to find the best price, then go into the store to look at it, THEN buy it. It's amazing how many guys I know will buy big-ticket items (cars, car repairs, TVs, computers, etc) without even looking to see if it's on sale anywhere, without getting it checked out (cars), etc. My ex took his car in for maintenance and paid about $450 for work that would've cost him $300 if he'd gone somewhere other than the dealer. And yet then they turn around and condescend to women for anything related to cars or electronics.

Your #6, thats why I NEVER go to a dealership, I can fix most things myself, and im no grease monkey. I research everything, from prices to reviews, to researches, if you dont, bend over and grab your ankles cause the dealerships will **** you up.

[DonMegaR]

1. Completely weak handshakes

i cannot seem to shake a girls hand with have-at-ittude. i just grab their finger tips, and kinda just squeeze it and give it a small shake, no limp wrist though :/

maybe thats where I'm going wrong

[MissThing]

1. guys who try to put on an act - be yourself dammit!

2. guys who are ignorant or arrogant - no one knows everything but open your mind and you might learn a few things.

3. furthermore, guys who think it's their way or the highway. I always pick the highway

[Beklet]

1. Bad hygiene. Yeah, you're gonna be sweatyafter the gym or in a nightclub, fair enough. But you still need to shower and use deodorant a few times a week. BO, skidmarks and furry teeth are not good.

2. Becoming a totally different person in front of his mates. Don't put on an act for me or them. Telling me one thing, then going out with your mates and saying disrespectful **** about me so you look the 'big man' or treating me like crap when you're with them is just not on. And it will make you look a total twat.

[kalagan]

2. Totally full of themselves, know it alls, player types etc.
3. Chauvinists

Do you realize that's 90 % of men are like that ? Mainly in the USA.

[potatoe]

So we have already had the debate about how short is too short, how tall is too tall, etc. Now I want to know what your biggest turn off is about the opposite sex!

Personally, mine is men who act as if they are God's gift to women. There is nothing worse to me than an overly conceited man!

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...3426921&page=4

[ToBeOrNotToBe]

Funny how almost every woman usually says what she thinks she wants in a man, but never says what she REALLY responds too...

Of all my friends, it's precisely the 2 most arrogant/conceited ones who have the hottest girlfriends. Coincidence?

[potatoe]

Funny how almost every woman usually says what she thinks she wants in a man, but never says what she REALLY responds too...

Of all my friends, it's precisely the 2 most arrogant/conceited ones who have the hottest girlfriends. Coincidence?

They want a nice big thick......WALLET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[quickscott]

Funny how almost every woman usually says what she thinks she wants in a man, but never says what she REALLY responds too...

Of all my friends, it's precisely the 2 most arrogant/conceited ones who have the hottest girlfriends. Coincidence?

Thats because what girls want and what girls say they want are completely different things.

You can go through this entire thread and completely flip all of the opinions around (except a few like BO etc..) and be spot on easily. In fact one women claimed she didnt like men who behaved as alhpa males but in reality she would be swept away by a real alpha male.

[MissThing]

Just remember that arrogance and confidence are two different things.

I can imagine that some women might be turned on by arrogance in the begginging but it gets old really quickly. Confidence, on the other hand does not turn a man into an arse.

[Beklet]

Just remember that arrogance and confidence are two different things.

I can imagine that some women might be turned on by arrogance in the begginging but it gets old really quickly. Confidence, on the other hand does not turn a man into an arse.

Precisely.

Confidence is a good thing, even 'alpha male' traits, in some cases.

This includes treating women with respect, and not just as something to show their mates they can pull.......

Arrogant men think they're better than everyone else, and belittle women and even their friends. Trust me, that's a massive turn off

I want a man to be a real man - not some arrogant tosser with an overinflated sense of his own importance who think a woman's purpose is to satisfy him, look pretty, make his mates jealous, cook his dinner and give nothing back in return. Relationships are a two way street.

[1quick1]

Funny how almost every woman usually says what she thinks she wants in a man, but never says what she REALLY responds too...

Of all my friends, it's precisely the 2 most arrogant/conceited ones who have the hottest girlfriends. Coincidence?

It's true. A lot of girls will sit around and say they want the "nice" guy who treats her well, and takes her out to dinner, buys her flowers, etc. so guys trying to get with her acts just like this giant wuss and then she ends up going out with the guy who they think treats her like crap. Girls may say what they want, but what they are really attracted to is totally different.

As for you friend having hot girlfriends......doesn't surprise me at all. I noticed most girls said they don't like arrogant guys but everyone should understand the only thing separating an arrogant guy from a confident guy is their wit/intelligence.

I'll tell you right now what turns women off. WUSSES. The guys that have to call girls all the time, or take them out to dinner, or buy them things to "show" them how much they care for them. Now this doesn't mean nice guys, well maybe some of them, but there's a difference between being respectful to women and being a gigantic WUSS.

They want a nice big thick......WALLET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You sound like a wuss.

[Beklet]

Damn was gonna quote you but yes, I'm sick of hearing it too.

Not really interested in if a man is rich or not.

Ability to hold down a job is more important - most people have setbacks, being made redundant etc, so unemployment isn't necessarily a turn off, it's being an habitual jobshy scrounger that is

I make enough money to support myself, so I'm not really that interested in the wallet. Sure, it's nice to be taken out occasionally, to have a drink bought for me or whatever, but I fully expect to return the favour.

[ToBeOrNotToBe]

Well, some of my closest girl friends have cheated on their long time 'nice guy' boyfriends in order to be with the typical 'badass' (DJ style, hip-hop, piercings, alpha male attitude).

That's common nowadays. Women are not looking for nice guys, they may want a nice guy when they're already in a relationship (meaning, they want their man to have 'nice guy' attitudes), but that's definitely far from what draws her attention in the beginning.

I'm not proud about this, but I can tell you I get more dates/action/pussy (with all due respect) when I put the 'nice guy' personality aside.

[kalagan]

Well, some of my closest girl friends have cheated on their long time 'nice guy' boyfriends in order to be with the typical 'badass' (DJ style, hip-hop, piercings, alpha male attitude).

That's common nowadays. Women are not looking for nice guys, they may want a nice guy when they're already in a relationship (meaning, they want their man to have 'nice guy' attitudes), but that's definitely far from what draws her attention in the beginning.

I'm not proud about this, but I can tell you I get more dates/action/pussy (with all due respect) when I put the 'nice guy' personality aside.

X2. That's why now i have a bad boy look....But in fact i'm a nice guy.

[Lowerthefever]

This thread has basically covered 95% of the male population...

[artsong27]

Smokers!!!!!!!!! All the manners, chivalry, kindness, and moral characteristics go out the window as soon as I see a man light up! I can't stand it.

[kalagan]

Smokers!!!!!!!!!

So you wouldn't bang Brad Pitt, Ben Affleck or Depp ?

[Constantina]

X2. That's why now i have a bad boy look....But in fact i'm a nice guy.

That actually works and is good. Bad Boy LOOK.

[kalagan]

That actually works and is good. Bad Boy LOOK.

You like bad boys ?

[Euqinom]

Guys with no back spine. Pushovers are turn offs.

[Constantina]

You like bad boys ?

You missed the word in bold and caps ?