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    WEEK TWENTY-ONE :: What Is The Best Way To Meet The Opposite Sex?

    TOPIC: What Is The Best Way To Meet The Opposite Sex?

    For the week of: April 1st - April 7th.

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    Okay, so this week's question isn't directly related to bodybuilding, but many people that are trying to improve their body are doing it to impress the opposite sex.

    Why is it that some guys seem to have no problem meeting girls? What do they do that is different than the guys who can't get a date no matter how hard they try?

    Is there a best way to dress? A best way to act? A best "line" to meet them? How can you make it so that the girls come and talk to you instead of having to go and talk to them? Do nice guys finish last? Is it really all about money and looks?

    What types of things cause girls to avoid guys? What are the biggest things that guys do that make it so they have no hope of getting a girlfriend? What would you say to a guy who says that it is hopeless for him, no matter what he does?

    Give detailed examples and use personal stories from your experience if possible!

    BONUS QUESTION: What is the best place to take a first date? What can you do on the first date to make the best impression?

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    lol nice topic. hehe i gotta bring my pimp playa skillz for this one. LOL

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    Go talk to them?
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    Originally Posted by krayZ
    Go talk to them?
    ^^ that sounds good, but what if you're shy? you could compliment them, or you could say something like, "I've seen you somewhere before, I know it." and then ask her questions about herself. first date ideas= jetskiing, skydiving, movie, dinner at a decent restaurant, coffee shop, just whatever both of you can enjoy.
    "Ignore the ramblings of the ignorant, and step on or over their crumpled bodies as you make your way to the top of the mountain. Eat upon their flesh for fuel and through your determination and will, banish them to obscurity anda life of complacency and self righteousness that is the hell in which they live."

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    Get their attension some how.
    I prefer to do something funny or stupid in my classes to get girls attension then i start talking to them once i do.

    The best thing is walk up to them
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    Originally Posted by sticklegs
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    so true...
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    What is the best way to meet the opposite sex?

    Every guy out there wants to find that special someone that will impact their life entirely, but some guys need a little more help than others to truly find that special someone. Yes, you can attract the opposite sex efficiently. It's not all about money and looks, it's about you and your features that women find appealing. Here's 3 simple tips that will provide you with some assistance and help you to start to attract the opposite sex:

    1. Your Body Language
    You've heard it plenty times before, and it's true: your body language and your actions tell quite a bit about your personality. For men to attract the opposite sex through body language, give off the illusion that you truly are dominant and in control. Most importantly,you should obviously be yourself. Refrain from chewing gum or gnawing at your fingernails. This chewing or munching implies that you are worried or frustrated, and these emotions don't qualify as appealing or attractive. Sadly, there is no magic "line" to pick up girls,so abstain from using "pick-up lines" as they usually make one appear nonsensical and quite foolish. If you're composed and amiable, you'll have girls coming to talk to you, instead of you having to go talk to them. Stay calm and be yourself, and you'll be fine.
    2. Show off those teeth
    Smiling obviously makes one more approachable and attractive, so show off that grill! Now, don't give off some big and cheesy smile, as this will just make you look like a fool. Simply, flash off a "relaxed" smile. This will give the impression to the opposite sex that you're a friendly, affable, benevolent guy who knows how to have a good time.
    3. Hygiene
    It's quite comprehensible that a dirty and smelly guy has little to no chance of ever coming off as an attractive guy. Scent is said to be the most remembered asset. Just another good reason for you to improve your hygiene. Make sure you bathe, brush your teeth regularly,apply fresh smelling cologne (not too much), and sport an invigorating deodorant. Be sure to shave on a regular basis as well, and keep your beard trimmed if you happen to have one. What about clothes and the way to dress? That's an easy one. Dress accordingly to your style; meaning dress in a manner that reveals your confidence and realization of yourself as an individual entity or personality to make the best of what you have, and contemplating on your qualities and good characteristics, whilst neglecting the bad.
    Avoidances
    Now that we've got the 3 simple guidelines on how to attract the opposite sex, let's tackle some other tips and things to avoid when meeting and attracting yourself to the other gender.
    1. Don't complain!
    Do you like being in the presence of someone who whines and complains? Neither do women. Don't be so negative when conversing with a member of the opposite sex. Be cheerful and positive, and you won't appear as some pessimistic and hopelessness man.
    2. Don't argue!
    When talking with the opposite sex, refrain from arguing at all costs. Think about it, if you disagree with her, you're going to disrespect her. You'll give the impression of a distasteful and insulting human being. To put it simple: Forbear from arguing!
    3. Don't be forgetful!
    This one is pretty easy. If you tell a woman you're going to give her a call sometime, don't forget to do it! Stick to your word and do what you say. If you say you'll pick up your date at a particular time, don't show up 20 minutes late. Use a memo-pad or keep a planner if you have trouble remembering things.

    What is the best place to take a first date? What can you do on the first date to make the best impression?
    Now that we have the tips and avoidances down to a science, it's now time to discuss the best place for a first date with that special someone. When it comes to a first date, find something that you and your date have in common. If you both love action movies, then attend an action movie followed by a nice meal. First dates are meant to be fun and exciting so you can get a feel for one another, so don't make it a stressful situation. When conversing with your date, listen actively to what she says. Do not interrupt her while she is speaking. Pay attention to your date, and focus on the person you're with. Use your manners, be yourself, stay positive and you'll make a great impression on your very first date! But most importantly, have fun!

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    Great topic.

    First of all, try picking up a member of the opposite sex in a location where you would actually hang out at. If your a hellion and only want sex maybe its not such a good idea to look for a date at church. Same thing goes for the church-goer, if your looking for something meaningful then don't go to the bar. You always want someone that is somewhat like you in terms of likes and dislikes or your just going to disagree all of the time. Second off, I don't care what anyone says, money and looks do not matter as much as people think. Its all confidence. Notice I did not say cocky... Cocky will get you sitting at the bar by yourself for the rest of your life.

    I honestly believe that the way to attract a member of the opposite sex is not to spout off the latest lines, flex your muscles or flash a wad of cash but to approach with confidence, kindness and a willingness to listen to what they have to say. Do not make this all about you. Listen, ask questions and look interested. Do not be pushy. If they don't like you now and you keep at it, they aren't going to like you later either.

    The opposite sex also likes a well groomed, hygenic, and nice smelling person. Do not confuse this with looks because bad hygiene is nasty no matter how good you look.

    I would say to someone who says they can't get a date no matter how hard they try to stop trying. It will come to you when its time. If your getting turned down left and right your confidence will go down hill. However, if you sit back a pick your targets you will appear less desperate and your confidence will be as high as ever because that particular person will feel more special and less like your settling for them.
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    What Is The Best Way To Meet The Opposite Sex?

    In this article we will discuss the the best way to meet memebers of the oposite sex. The points we're going to discuss are general and will work for both males, and females.



    Not Being Able to Meet Anyone

    Hmm.. How could that be? Well, its most likely because you don't talk to anyone. The first rule is always 'present yourself' and put yourself 'out there' to show that your available and intrested. In the animal kingdom animals have specific dances and rituals that say ' i like you', and you have to relate to that, but not riterally. Remember, first impression is VERY important.


    TIPS:

    - Have CONFIDENCE in yourself. If you don't, who will?
    - Have a cheerful smile on your face, that will make you look more 'like-able'.
    - Go out and TALK to members of the opposite sex.
    - Without showing interest, there's no chance to make a potential 'hook up'.
    - Look more relaxed, and don't force yourself on other people, if it looks like
    they don't seem interested, don't push it.



    Looking Good

    When approaching someone, physical appearence is very important. You can't just waltz in and espect everyone to understand you as a person. How you look, doesn't just talk about appearance, but how you manage your life. What is important to you, and your skills in life.


    Factors for Physical Appearance

    Aside from looking good physically, which i will assume you do, from your bodybuilding/fitness lifestyle, there are some more factors that will decide how a potential mate looks at you.


    Hair

    Hair is very important. It takes about 50% of your head, so when someone looks at you, and forms a first impression hair is very important. For guys a short, neat haircut is very fasionable right now. As for women a long, and straight/silky kind of hair is fasionable and very sexy. Always remember that in our society hair is very, very important.


    TIPS ON HAIR

    - Buy some good quality gel, and with a neat and short hair cut, put some gel in your hair and mix things up (For Guys).
    - As for women, hair straighteners, and specially designed gels for women to get you a soft, weightless look.
    - Go to the barber at least once every 4-6 weeks to keep your hair fresh and to be able to keep a good fasionable hairstyle.


    Face

    Your face is the rest 50% of you face. In our society, we pay alot of time on our faces. Your face is classified as your 'image' so it is very important to have a basic upkeep on your face.


    TIPS ON FACE

    - Use a face washer to keep your face pimple and bacteria free.
    - If you have acne, treat it with medicine to get rid of those ugly blemishes.
    - For women- Use a good amount of make up, nothing too much.
    - For guys- As guys, we have it easier, so washing your face and removing that funny looking uni-brown will be enough.


    Teeth/Breath

    Your teeth are very important. It's important to keep them clean, bacteria free and white. Also your breath will benefit from that and you will smell fresh and nice. When you smile your teeth 'pop' out and that's the first thing a person notices. Nice looking teeth will give the impresion that you are clean, responsible and take care of yourself.


    TIPS ON TEETH/BREATH

    - Always brush your teeth and use floss, that prevents bacteria and future problems.
    -Go out and buy a good working Teeth Whitener. That will clean up your teeth and make them nice and white.
    - Always carry mints/mint strips to fight bad breath, and to keep your mouth bacteria free from future problems.


    Clothing

    Clothes make a good impression. It is very important to wear nice clothes, that are fasionable, and nothing out of the ordinary. After all you may have your own style, but that may not appeal to average people. So take up the average/casual fasion. Dress classy, yet not too 'preppy', but also don't dress too average or sporty. A balance between the casual and sporty will do the trick.


    TIPS ON CLOTHING

    - Dress casual, nothing too fancy.
    - Always iron your clothes, and make a clean/fresh look impression.
    - Have 2-4 pair of shoes to change with different outfits.
    - Try and match your clothes based on stlye and clothes.


    Smelling Good

    Smelling good is very important. They say smell is the strongest sense tied to memory. So you want to be remembered by a nice, clean, fresh smell. Guys appreciate a girl that smells good, and likewise, girls go crazy for a guy with a nice cologne.


    TIPS ON SMELLING GREAT

    - Buy an good smelling cologne/perfume.
    - Buy a good smelling body spray, for after showers.
    - Always put on deodorant.
    - Take a shower atleast once per day, it doesn't have to be a 40min. shower, just a brisk refreshing shower.


    Tanning

    People assosiate a tan with being healthy. A nice tan always looks good on anyone, male or female. Be careful not to go overboard and looking like you jumped out of a toaster. Just a nice tan that will make your skin softer, a little darker, and more healthier.


    TIPS ON TANNING

    - Remember, don't go overboard. A nice, not too dark tan is sufficient.
    - Here's a simple tanning routine:
    :2-3 times per week
    :10-20 minutes per session
    :Apply sencreen to avoid burns
    :Moisturize after tanning to keep tan


    Personality

    Physical appearance can give you so much. If you open your mouth and say somehting stupid, your 'hook' up will end. You have to be smooth, and confident. People always look for a personality in a person, because the body might fade away, but the person inside won't.

    Style and Confidence

    You have to have your own style. It will define you as a person and it will help you be an original person, and that will attract members of the opposite sex. Be original, and most importantly, be yourself. Because if someone likes you, and they like you for yourself, you got it made!


    Being CONFIDENT or COCKY

    Confidence is good. Cockyness is good to an extend. After a while being cocky gets on people's nerves. Vanity is a part of bodybuilding/fitness and that will usually bring cockyness. People that workout and take care of themselfves have a stereotype of being cocky, arrogant and self-centered. Those qualities will not get you a girl, and the sooner you stop, the better. No one says a little cockyness will hurt you, some women like it, but i'm confident enough to say that no one likes a 24/7 cocky, self-centered person. Most girls will avoid guys, because they are too into themselves.


    There is Hope for everyone

    There is hope! Even if your the last person that would ever find a date, it will workout. After reading all the info on here, follow these steps for success in the dating life:

    1.) Read the article. Perform all the steps in getting in good physical shape.
    After fixing yourself up, take a nice shower, put on some cologne, dress
    nice and head out the door.

    2.) Go into a local club. Find a good looking woman that you think is
    attractive. Talk to her, don't say anything too personal, but don't be too
    distant.

    3.) Be confident. Don't brag about yourself, but don't be too humble.

    4.) After talking, buy a drink and be a gentlemen. Gils find that attractive.

    5.) After spending a good time with her, take her number and excuse yourself.
    Why you ask? Well you just completed the first step of knowing someone.
    Your goal is completed, you can now call her after a few days, and make
    a date somewhere, and see if she's the right one for you.



    BONUS QUESTION: First Date, and What To Do

    OK, so you already met someone. Now it's time for a first date. The point here is to be original, but also not to do anything out of the ordinary. Here are some places for a good first date.


    FIRST DATE PLACES

    - Taker her to the movies (DUH).
    - A local sports event that you'll both enjoy (baseball, basketball,soccer).
    - Museum/Art Center is a perfect place to show your cultural side.
    - A nice restoraunt is the classic date for a perfect match.
    - Picnic, is a nice place to share food, good weather and good conversation.
    - Any other event that will you both enjoy will work.

    Always carry good conversation. Don't have a silent time. Have a good time, be relaxed and get to know each other, after all that is the point of the date.



    Well, this is it. After reading and following my advice, you will be confident and able to walk up to someone, meet them and eventually start something. Good luck!
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    I think first you have to do your homework.. Clubs/bars are a bad place because 90% of the time the girls there are on defense mode due to all the other scrubs. And also if you are not baller status, most wont give you the time of day.

    i personally go to the mall. its alot easier and the lighting is better, that way you wont make any mistakes... hahaha and theres no alcohol so you dont have to owrry about that factor either.

    i usually bring a friend or go with my sister, and i follow her into the female clothing stores.. i'll scope it out and find someone more my level.. when i say level, i mean dont jump the gun and go for the top star material girl in there cause if you look like me you'll be shot down. fact of life. deal.

    act like you're looking for somethin for your sister/friend and ask other girls what they think, or if you walk by a girl checkin out something, tell her she'll look good in that, **** like that

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    LOL... I got a nice one for this weeks.

    hey trick d,u forgot to mention how much you squat,remember that girls like guys with impressive arms and large upper body muscles but when they see you in shorts they got so dessapointed cause proportion is the key,girls like guys with strong legs and not to mention that a flat butt may be a trurn off for some of them,if you're one of those guys that think they have an upper body and forget the larger muscles of your body do more squats and legs excercices,im 140 lbs and i squat 280 lbs,my doble size ,and when i go to the beach all the girls become crazy about my monster legs!!
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    What Is The Best Way To Meet The Opposite Sex?

    You may ask yourself....What is the best way to meet/attract the opposite sex? This is a question with a very complicated answer. There are many things one must do to attract and be ready to meet and interact with the opposite sex. This article will go over step by step what is needed and ultimately answer the question: "What is the best way to meet/attract the opposite sex?"


    Why is it that some guys seem to have no problem meeting girls? What do they do that is different than the guys who can't get a date no matter how hard they try?

    This could be answered with one word: Confidence. A man with confidence and a good personality can get almost any woman he wants. Rule number one when meeting and talking to a woman is to always have confidence in yourself. Most woman realize what kind of effect they have on men and will try to exploit this to there advantage. Most woman will realize they have the ability to make men nervous sometimes to the point where they will stutter or slur there words or worse. When they find a man that is not effected by there charms and influence they are impressed. So in the case of most women personality and confidence are more important then appearence. Not that appearence doesn't help, having a great body is just another tool to be used in attracting and meeting the opposite sex. When meeting a member of the opposite sex always make sure to keep a conversation going. Be sure to use many compliments when talking with a member of the opposite sex, women love this. The worst thing that could possibly happen when meeting a member of the opposite sex is to let an awkward silence befall upon the two of you. Just make sure the conversation never runs dry and if you sense that it is about to then say you have to go or I'll talk to you later, something along those lines to keep your chances with this woman intact. If this happens you can kiss all hope of ever dating or going further with this woman. Now there is a point where trying to hard to impress a woman can backfire. Never replace confidence with cockyness, as most woman hate cockyness. Always be relaxed, laid back, and confident and women will flock to you.

    Overall Summary / Review

    - Always be confident, but not cocky.
    - Be relaxed and keep your cool when talking with members of the opposite sex.
    - Personality and confidence outweigh appearence.
    - Always use compliments when talking with a member of the opposite sex.
    - Never let a conversation run dry.


    Is there a best way to dress? A best way to act? A best "line" to meet them?

    Yes. Never dress in dirty or old clothes. Now im not saying to drop your entire wardrobe and go invest in some armani or louy vuitton, but make sure that your clothes are clean and somewhat new. Heres some of the most helpful comments I can offer come in. From what I have interpreted from women in personal expeirence talking with them is that most women hate when guys try and show off by wear tight cloths to show off there body. Several things can go wrong when a guy decides to do this. One of them is that women are turned off by you appearing to be self-centered, which in most cases is completely untrue, but remember they don't know you personally so they will make assumptions. So remember wear clothes that fit! I can not stress this enough. Make sure they are not to tight or loose / baggy. The best way to act can simply be described as being cool, calm relaxed, and confident. Never try to show off just stay confident and give the member of the opposite sex many compliments, and you'll be well on your way to dating success. In my experience and in the experience of many others I know those cheesy pick-up lines everyone talks about never work, and are viewed by many women to be immautre. A simple hello, hi, or whats up, will do fine when approaching a member of the opposite sex.

    Overall Summery / Review

    -Dress in new clean clothes.
    -Always wear clothes that fit. Not to loose not to tight.
    -Be cool, calm, relaxed, and confident.
    -Dont use cheesy pick-up lines. A simple hello, hi, or whats up will do.

    Another major part of being attractive to the opposite sex is physical appearence.

    Having a great body is a great tool for attracting the opposite sex. Although one should always remember that a great body will only take you so far. Personality and confidence will win over a women 9 times out of 10 so remember a great body isn't everything, but it is very useful. On the flipside though most women do not want to date a man that is severly overweight. So men should at least go to the gym several times a week and have a solid diet/cardio plan intact if they want to be attractive to females. We must remember that we are all unique and therefore we all have some characteristics we can not alter or change so we must live with our beauties and defects/unattractive parts. There are some things that men can change to make themselves look more attractive to females. I will list them below as well as how to make them look more attractive to members of the opposite sex.

    Face

    Always make sure that your face is clean and acne free. Acne can be prevented through good diet and frequent cleansing to some degree, but sometimes that is not enough. There are many acne prevention/treatment products on the market. Experiment with them until you find the one that works best for you. Having a low bodyfat will bring out your jaw line and give your face an overal better look, which many women find attractive. So strive to keep your bodyfat low if you want to be attractive to the opposite sex. If you choose to have facial hair make sure that it is kept clean. If you chose not to have facial hair then make sure you have a clean shave on always. The 5 o'clock shadow look is becoming over-used and is losing its attraction to women.

    Hairstyle

    There are many treandy new hairstyles out there today. A hairstyle should be comlpletely up to you as it expresses your personality. Just remember that it should be cut often for you to look your best. Make sure you take care of your hair buy using a good shampoo/conditioner combination.


    Oral Hygiene

    Always make sure that you brush your teeth with a good toothpaste, such as colgate total plus whitening(a personal favorite of mine), at least twice per day. You should also be using floss and mouth wash daily to keep you mouth and teeth looking as healthy as possible. Remember to show off those white teeth, members of the oposite sex love that.

    Body Hygiene

    Make sure that you shower a minimum of once per day. Use a good soap and body mosturizer. Make sure that you keep your feet / hands mosturized, these can become major turn offs to member of the opposite sex if they are not kept clean and healthy. Clip your finger/toenails often. Make sure that you smell good. Invest in a good deodorant/anti-perspirent. Also buy a good smelling cologne, this is very important in attracting the opposite sex.

    Sense of humour / Personality

    This all goes back to remembering to keep your confidence and expressing yourself when talking with members of the opposite sex. Always have a good sense of humour many women find that attractive. Always have a happy personality. If your always down on yourself then most women will be turned off.

    How can you make it so that the girls come and talk to you instead of having to go and talk to them?

    Having a great body is the easiest way to have members of the opposite sex approach/meet you. They will be naturally attracted to a great physique. Other ways that you could have members of the opposite sex aprroach you would be to go to a friendly atmosphere filled with many members of the opposite sex. These places would include: Movie Theaters, Clubs, Bars, etc.
    Always be sure to dress nice and express yourself and girls will flock to you.

    Do nice guys finish last?

    In my opinion this is not always true, but unfortunately it does happen often. Usually the shy/quiet/nice guy will finish last only because he is simply to shy to approach members of the opposite sex and interact with them. I used to be a shy/nice/quiet guy not to long ago. I did not speak with to many members of the opposite sex unless i knew them well. I learned from that mistake that i should be more outgoing and was successful at doing so. So to all the nice guys out there: Be more outgoing and express yourself and your life will be full of members of the opposite sex.

    Is it really all about money and looks?

    No it's not. Personality and confidence outweigh money and looks most of the time. Sure money and looks help, but they are not needed to be successful with the opposite sex.

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    What types of things cause girls to avoid guys?

    There are many things that can turn a woman off from a guy. A major one is BAD BREATH this has to be one of the biggest turn offs so make sure to keep your teeth and mouth healthy with frequent brushing/flossing/mouthwash. Cockyness can also be a major turn off. Knowing the difference between confidence and cockyness can go a long way with members of the opposite sex. Always show interest in members of the opposite sex otherwise they will lose interest in you. Bad overall hygiene can also be a turn off to members of the opposite sex. So make sure to shower/bathe frequently.

    What are the biggest things that guys do that make it so they have no hope of getting a girlfriend?

    These were basically outlined above. Cockyness and poor hygiene are huge turnoffs to most woman. Above all else is reputation. If a woman finds out you have a bad reputation for cheating/lying your chances with her are almost completely done. So never develop a bad reputation. Stay good-hearted and honest.

    What would you say to a guy who says that it is hopeless for him, no matter what he does?

    I would tell him that there is always hope for everyone. I would explain to him that he needs to express himself to women in a different way. That he needs to go out and meet new members of the opposite sex. That he needs to talk with them and that eventually he will find the right woman.

    BONUS QUESTION: What is the best place to take a first date? What can you do on the first date to make the best impression?

    In my opinion a force that has tremendous power and influence on women is music. Soft calming music can allow a woman to become much more open and understanding of you. So for a first date i would recomend a place filled with moving music such as a fancy restaurant or a good movie. If she doesn't seem like the type that would go for that then a date to a sporting game or casual movie or restaurant would be more apropriate. There are many things one can do on the first date to make a good impression. One is to give many compliments on how your date looks. Memembers of the opposite sex always enjoy compliments. Another is to suprise your date with flowers. Women always enjoy flowers. Never be late. Always be on time if you want to impress your date. And lastly to impress your date you should be open and understanding of her opinions throughout the evening, this is most important.

    Hopefully by reading my article you have come to the answer to the question: "What is the best way to meet/attract the opposite sex?". I throughly enjoyed writing my opinons and sharing my experiences with you. Hope this helps anyone who needs it.
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    haha Ironman is a biter. He repeated alot of MY original content.

    But you also had some original points, good job homie

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    does the winner really get 25$ to spend on bb.com?
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    ok listen up

    all u gotta know is how to treat a girl right. be nice to her, have good maners around her, talk to her alot, and dont start out hittingvon her, go with the flow. u will know when the time is right to ask them on a date. u dont necessarly have to be good looking or big and bulky to get a girl. ive seen some ugly ass dudes with liek some of the hottest girls ive eber seen! girls are the total opposite of us, all they want is to be loved an respected and to knwo that they have someone that cares for them. but hey it never hurts to have looks, but girls loook more at the personality. and individual features. and yah some girls are pickyand care how u look or dress but thats how it is.
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    Originally Posted by minicooban
    hey trick d,u forgot to mention how much you squat,remember that girls like guys with impressive arms and large upper body muscles but when they see you in shorts they got so dessapointed cause proportion is the key,girls like guys with strong legs and not to mention that a flat butt may be a trurn off for some of them,if you're one of those guys that think they have an upper body and forget the larger muscles of your body do more squats and legs excercices,im 140 lbs and i squat 280 lbs,my doble size ,and when i go to the beach all the girls become crazy about my monster legs!!

    Dumb ass, I almost bench more than you can squat... don't go bragging about weight when you don't know ****.
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    haha Ironman is a biter. He repeated alot of MY original content.

    But you also had some original points, good job homie

    Anyways let the best man win
    The original content that I repeated was repeated because it is in my opinion part of the answer, and it would have been posted regaurdless of whether or not you posted it before me....sorry if I came off as a "biter" but i honestly did not copy your content.
    Anyways let the best man win
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    Originally Posted by Ironman88
    The original content that I repeated was repeated because it is in my opinion part of the answer, and it would have been posted regaurdless of whether or not you posted it before me....sorry if I came off as a "biter" but i honestly did not copy your content.
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