gf wont blow ?

[Assassinator]

I've been with her for 4 months, i love her a lot, our sex life was great at the beginning , and since she has been on the pill, her mood has changed, i always have to be the first to start, and i can only recall 3 times she has ever sucked my dick, i mean i love blowjobs , she wont even touch my dick or play with it, i remember in the beginning when we went out she loved it, but now its only only like sex once maybe twice, and thats it.. she tells me she doesnt like it, makes her grossed out, i am clean down there and always tidy.

I do everything for her, go down on her, im not afriad or grossed out, hell i even ate her ass once...

so what the hell is going on her, sometimes i just tell myself, **** this, there are other chicks out their that would be willing to do what ever i want, but i understand sex is not everything and i love her very much and would never ever cheat on her.

[The_Reaper]

Damn, she sounds like a real boring girl, no offense.

I personally would not want someone as boring and prudish as that as my girlfriend and I would let her go, just telling her I don't think it's working out between us.

But anyway...

[JesusTookMyBike]

wtf, she's selfish. dump her! (serious)

[LyZnX]

you gotta weigh it out man. Do you want a freak like you, or someone you could probably trust a little more.

Very short answer, but that what im thinking.

If you end up in the long haul with her, she will probably eventually lose the ocd feeling of it. and make it fun. make sure you are doing what she wants.

4 months aint that long to some people. 1 or 2 years later. You might be getting bjs everyday. 8)

[82nd_Fister]

She just wants you to throat**** her.

[Mase64]

theres 9000000 other Girls that love suckin dick.. go out and find one homie g.. My Motto is .."bitches come and they go.. and i take bitches as the come"

[LLoydBanks]

dont go down on her, lets see how she reacts

[Freddie Beef]

Originally Posted by LLoydBanks

dont go down on her, lets see how she reacts

I am in the same boat, I have been with my wife for 4 years, ever since weve been togethor she has stated she doesnt like it and wont do it. Finally I quit goin down on her, I believe in reciprocation, so I stand firm and she would rather just do without. Sone girls like it, some dont, if it matters to you that much, go get another girl.

[Beklet]

If it's since she went on the pill, it might be that - some kinds kill libido. See if she can change the brand. If she's unwilling to do that, you might want to have a talk with her.......

She may have been doing all that to reel you in, then wait until she got you to revert to type, but if a girl is 'grossed out' by touching a dick, it's unlikely she would have done that in the first place, unless she's just gone off you big time.

[philhyp]

Originally Posted by toobigfred

I am in the same boat, I have been with my wife for 4 years, ever since weve been togethor she has stated she doesnt like it and wont do it. Finally I quit goin down on her, I believe in reciprocation, so I stand firm and she would rather just do without. Sone girls like it, some dont, if it matters to you that much, go get another girl.

Maybe your wife just can't find the cock within all the rolls of fat.


To the OP: YOU NEVER GO ASS TO MOUTH!

[AccountantGuy]

Originally Posted by Assassinator

I've been with her for 4 months, i love her a lot, our sex life was great at the beginning , and since she has been on the pill, her mood has changed, i always have to be the first to start, and i can only recall 3 times she has ever sucked my dick, i mean i love blowjobs , she wont even touch my dick or play with it, i remember in the beginning when we went out she loved it, but now its only only like sex once maybe twice, and thats it.. she tells me she doesnt like it, makes her grossed out, i am clean down there and always tidy.

I do everything for her, go down on her, im not afriad or grossed out, hell i even ate her ass once...

so what the hell is going on her, sometimes i just tell myself, **** this, there are other chicks out their that would be willing to do what ever i want, but i understand sex is not everything and i love her very much and would never ever cheat on her.

Get a new girlfirend dood. She only did that **** to get you in a relationship and now she thinks (rightly so) that you don't have the balls to leave this nice safe relationship. You need to take that sense of safety away from her. Tell her you are unsatisfied with the sex, and you are not going to stop getting oral b/c she doesb't waant to give it. Then go get some side pooohasy set up.

[artsong27]

Originally Posted by Beklet

If it's since she went on the pill, it might be that - some kinds kill libido. See if she can change the brand. If she's unwilling to do that, you might want to have a talk with her.......

She may have been doing all that to reel you in, then wait until she got you to revert to type, but if a girl is 'grossed out' by touching a dick, it's unlikely she would have done that in the first place, unless she's just gone off you big time.

I agree with this. You said in the beginning she loved doing it, but now she doesn't. Well, what has changed between now and then??? The pill! It has to be the pill. So, talk with her about it. Bottom line, if this is something you desire and she is not willing to give it to you, you need to think long and hard about what you're willing to go without. When you get right down to it, it's about what you're willing to live without. Think about it.

[Commonpremier21]

Originally Posted by Assassinator

I do everything for her, go down on her, im not afriad or grossed out, hell i even ate her ass once...

I don't have better advice man but, I was eating breakfast when i read that, god damn it man

[lanzo]

Find a new girl .

[jtigga]

ya ive been with my girl 3 months and have only gotten oral once (cause we couldnt have sex because of her period). it really sucks, cause i like oral more than sex. although i dont like going down on her, and have only done it twice to her, so i guess it works out.

[BBLaw30]

You're only 21. You have to let her know that you are not being satisfied and if things dont change then she is going to have to take a hike.

[bjjbadboy]

my ex would give me a hummer once and a while at first took like a year to train her then she loved it... Would i go through that ever again no was it worth the wait.... aaaaaaaa not really still had better

[warbird00]

Originally Posted by Assassinator

I've been with her for 4 months, i love her a lot, our sex life was great at the beginning , and since she has been on the pill, her mood has changed, i always have to be the first to start, and i can only recall 3 times she has ever sucked my dick, i mean i love blowjobs , she wont even touch my dick or play with it, i remember in the beginning when we went out she loved it, but now its only only like sex once maybe twice, and thats it.. she tells me she doesnt like it, makes her grossed out, i am clean down there and always tidy.

I do everything for her, go down on her, im not afriad or grossed out, hell i even ate her ass once...

so what the hell is going on her, sometimes i just tell myself, **** this, there are other chicks out their that would be willing to do what ever i want, but i understand sex is not everything and i love her very much and would never ever cheat on her.

haha, u ate ass hole

my gf stopped giving me bjs, im in the process of dropping her (yes tru story)

[warbird00]

Originally Posted by bjjbadboy

my ex would give me a hummer once and a while at first took like a year to train her then she loved it... Would i go through that ever again no was it worth the wait.... aaaaaaaa not really still had better

hummer?

[warbird00]

dude, my gf used to blow me like 1 time a day for the first couple months

been going out for 1 year 8 months now and cant remember the last time she did it....

[TheJuicedchase]

Sounds like you got with a penis-avoider, the worst kind. Sucks.

[Docta J]

Originally Posted by TheJuicedchase

Sounds like you got with a penis-avoider, the worst kind. Sucks.

LOL penis-avoider? haha what other kinds are there?

[Assassinator]

she asks me somtimes, is it only based on sex, my answer to her is no, i tell her its important, but other things are more important, but the answer in my head is, YES and No, yes it is important, the satisfaction and pleasure you get from one another is important, but its not all about sex, i mean we planned a night of pleasure, she massaged me 30 mins, i did her 1 hour, and then i always have to be the first to aniciate, so i came pretty quick and thats it, she doesnt want to anymore, and only like 2 times a week with our schedules can you say we are in bed at home with no interupptions, once we used to do it anywhere, infront of her house in the car, at the beach hell even once she threw me into the girls room with her.

I care for her to much and am not willing to give her up, i try to talk to her about it, but sometimes she doesnt like talking about it, its as if, she is telling me, thats what there is, take it or leave it, and i wont leave it , because she means to much too me....

She tells me , im not a machine, i cant be turned on or off, sometimes i just dont have the urge or am not in the mood, thats what came out of her mouth, i dont want her to think i want her only for sex, but i am a male, i do have my needs and when i want something, i want to get it.

[Navigator416]

Honestly man, if a girl won't do it I would drop her. Seriously.

[SotexKilla08]

Originally Posted by Assassinator

I've been with her for 4 months, i love her a lot, our sex life was great at the beginning , and since she has been on the pill, her mood has changed, i always have to be the first to start, and i can only recall 3 times she has ever sucked my dick, i mean i love blowjobs , she wont even touch my dick or play with it, i remember in the beginning when we went out she loved it, but now its only only like sex once maybe twice, and thats it.. she tells me she doesnt like it, makes her grossed out, i am clean down there and always tidy.

I do everything for her, go down on her, im not afriad or grossed out, hell i even ate her ass once...

so what the hell is going on her, sometimes i just tell myself, **** this, there are other chicks out their that would be willing to do what ever i want, but i understand sex is not everything and i love her very much and would never ever cheat on her.

fight fire with fire. tell her youre not touching her **** until she touches yours. dont back down. if all else fails- shes boring.

[v4lu3s]

you are aware that birth control pills can also kill sex drive in women right?

[keg_daddy]

Originally Posted by Assassinator

hell i even ate her ass once...

Ahhhh...now we all know where your user name came from!

[Scarface2883]

There is no way in hell I would be licking her pussy if she wouldn't even give me some head. What kind of man are you? I can't even call you one.

I wouldn't even have sex with her if I was you. Don't give her anything sexual. Turn her down for like a whole week and see how she responds.

[Kilburn]

it's cause she's on the pill man, that **** kills libido. ive been with 2 other girls and both of them lost their sex drive when on the pill. also, i've talked to other girls that have reported the same thing.

get her off the pill and go back to condoms.

[niospecv]

Before I get a gf I need to find out 3 things from her.

1)does she take it up the butt?

2)does she suck dick

3)does she swallow

I say dump her selfish ass.