Keeping it going. Version 2
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05-06-2010, 07:01 AM #1
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05-06-2010, 07:16 AM #2
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1st.
Let me contribute by sharing a rejection story from last night, give me some feedback guise.
I don't usually approach at the gym, but in effort to cut for the summer I started taking aerobics classes at mine (I love aerobics) and there's a girl, about a HB7, in the Wed. night class that I chat and joke around with. During class she looks at me from time to time and smiles whenever we make eye contact, so last night I decided to go for it.
After class she was talking to one of her female friends and I approached her and told her that we should chat sometime when we're not sweating it up here in class. At first she didn't hear me, so I repeated myself and halfway through me repeating myself she goes, "Awwwwwwwwwwww, that's so sweet! Are you trying to ask me out?" and she said it LOUD... like loud enough for everyone in our vicinity to hear. That response totally took me off-guard and I immediately knew that I was on a one-way train to the Friend Zone... but she seriously said it to me like she was talking to a little puppy or a 10 year old boy who had a crush on his teacher...
Being caught off guard I just kinda went "Ask you out? Well... I'd like to call you up and chat for a bit first..." (bad response but I was fumbling for words in my confused state). She basically replied "Well let me take a walk for a minute first..." And then she disappeared.
God that sucked. Girls and their damn mixed signals. And why couldn't she just say "No" instead of talking to me like a child or lost puppy in front of everyone, followed by leading me on and blowing me off?Hoods up, cuts down! Misc. Anteater crew.
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05-06-2010, 07:19 AM #3
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05-06-2010, 07:49 AM #7
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05-06-2010, 08:15 AM #15
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05-06-2010, 08:15 AM #16
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05-06-2010, 08:18 AM #17
First off, I have the same look. Very serious. Girls tell me to smile all the time. That's an ice breaker right there. They say smile, look at them half serious and say "OK make me"
Either way, should have no bearing if you go up to them. Many many many girls I've met have said prior to meeting me they were very intimidated. So when you come up to them, introduce yourself, and just be very non-caring.
It's a mind **** for them. You're not a bad looking dude (no homo). You really should have no issues.
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05-06-2010, 08:22 AM #18
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05-06-2010, 08:35 AM #20
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05-06-2010, 08:45 AM #24
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05-06-2010, 08:47 AM #26
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At least you are putting yourself out there, and attempting/doing something about being single and you want to meet more ladies....plus!!
I dont know much about gym game cause - well Ive never asked out any chick from the gym... The only advice I would say is to not go for the kill at first, talk to her say hi and go from there - get the whole vibe thing outta the way. Chicks need to know who you are, some level of comfort before they are giving out there number... did you just walk up to her and say hey whats up, we should get some coffee sometime?
thread is closed not deleted... the ebook is still there and his posts are still there - why the trip to negative town?
whats on the inside comes through to the outside - sounds odd but true. and im not talking all touchy feely blah blah blah bullsh*t... Sometimes meditation helps - also if you feel it to be true you will make it true even if its not.
Edit:what jay said is true also - I feel smiling can help loads even if you have that "serious" look...again my opinion/belief
yes but there is hope
bend her over and take care of business son!!! what are you waiting for??? is said mom hot ? pics?
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05-06-2010, 08:48 AM #27
You're like my brother's build.
Gotta lose weight man. Not for the women but for yourself. However, if you lose it they will show up.
I was a fat f**k in HS. I was 5'10" 240 with a 42" waist. Then in college i was skinny/fat. Even that way i did better.
I know people get sensitive about weight but there's no excuse. Do it for your health.
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05-06-2010, 08:49 AM #28
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Well I feel like there should be links to the other thread here...
Original Thread (v1)
Original Post
E-Book Post
FAQ
Closing thoughts from the man himselfYou don't try to build a wall.
You don't set out to build a wall.
You don't say, "I'm going to build the biggest, baddest, greatest wall that's ever been built!".
You don't start there.
You say, "I'm going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid.".
You do that every single day, and soon you'll have a wall.
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05-06-2010, 09:00 AM #29
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05-06-2010, 09:03 AM #30
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