Women on Reddit admit to being disgusted by non-handsome men

[BritishBear]

"I feel mean admitting it, but sometimes a compliment from a guy I am not attracted to is like a job offer from a company I am not interested in. It's not really all that flattering, and depending how it's done, it can feel a bit insulting."

"When unattractive men have hit on me I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like... someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."


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Women get OFFENDED when a sub 7 man shows interest in them. Just lol at living life as a Sub 7. And being a 5 to 6 means your nothing terrible to look at.

This is fantastic evidence for looks theory, not that there hasn't been an shortage of it recently. More men have failed at online dating and had the balls approaching in real life are beginning to wake up and know whats off. Especially now with men being done for sexual harrassment simply by having balls and approaching a female and other asinine reasons.

And there are still LIVING BREATHING HUMAN BEINGS on this board who, after overwhelming evidence STILL think looks don't matter, or are not a females top priority on the list.

Unattractive men are better off dead. Being sexually invisible to women, except maybe whales means you were never alive in the first place.

[Baconlifter]

They didn't state what level of ugly the person would need to be. It also greatly depends on how you deliver the compliment as well.

With every post you put up here, my mental image of you gets more awkward and troll like. What kind of creature are you? Post pictures you glorious field goblin.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

A guy who rates (on your hypothetical scale) less than 7/10 isn't necessarily ugly. A 6/10 guy is still slightly above average.

You would have to be below 4/10 to be considered actually ugly. Everything between 4-6/10 is AVERAGE looking.

Please stop posting.

[jeffl1980]

Please stop posting.

This ^^^^

With every post you put up here, my mental image of you gets more awkward and troll like. What kind of creature are you? Post pictures you glorious field goblin.

and this ^^^

[Neil4123]

Can't wrap my head around the logic that getting a compliment is ever insulting. I've had some very very unattractive women tell me I was good looking, or straight up ask if I have a gf, and even though I wasn't interested I still got a good feeling out of it.

[xxAchillesxx]

ITT OP discovers women are just as shallow as men.

[CagedLion012]

Lol @ your insecurity

[ExtinctionOG]

ITT OP discovers women are just as shallow as men.

U fuking wot m8? If someone has the decency and guts to compliment me, I'll take it as a compliment and that's that. Not this "I'm insulted" pathetic pedestal bs.

[kanis999]

Unattractive men are better off dead. Being sexually invisible to women, except maybe whales means you were never alive in the first place.

If you do some soul searching, you'll clearly see that you don't believe this statement. Life is about so much more than sexual relations.

[BetaAsPhuck]

I genuinely hope you are a troll, and are not going down the supreme gentlemen road as you alluded to in your other thread.

There's more to life than pussy.

[Nomadiic]

Everyone should stop rating people on a scale to 10, especially here on the misc, srs.

An 8/10 for you might be a 6/10 for me and vice versa, everyone is attracted to different people. Those women that replied on that reddit page are also probably shallow as phuck. Appearance and aesthetics isn't everything. A 6/10 guy or girl can change into an 8/10 just for having a great personality on top of that. There are just so many factors that come into play if you want to rate someone on a scale to 10.

Have you never met a couple that you think "How the hell did that dude got such a hot girl", well, that's you're proof right there.

OP, you're 38, I feel sorry for you.

[SwaggerMcdaniel]

It's all you guys fault. You white knights inflated their egos to catastrophic levels

[snucks]

I admit I do something similar to these women at least on dating sites. Whatever ego I had was quickly obliterated when I first joined pof by only getting views from straight up mud ducks and morbidly obese middle aged slags. But when this sort of thing happens in person like at bars or in public etc I don't really get offended I politely listen and then go about my business.

[cookiefiend]

I wish I was a mod so I could lock all your threads as you make them.

[sword_]

Yeah seems like women are a bit put off by a compliment if you are not attractive to them. Had women of different levels of attractiveness compliment me and I liked the attention either way.

[snucks]

Yeah seems like women are a bit put off by a compliment if you are not attractive to them. Had women of different levels of attractiveness compliment me and I liked the attention either way.

Like I said. In person I don't get offended at all. It takes balls to approach a person and compliment them and possibly engage in conversation with them. I have had some crazy nights that started with a middling woman approaching me lol

[crackersmaker]

I don't really see the problem here, I've been complimented by ugly women, and by attractive women, and while I wouldn't call the compliments from ugly women insulting, I can say in all honesty I find the compliments from attractive women much more satisfying.

[PervedOut]

I've had women all but call the COPS when I compliment them. Be lucky that all they do is feel insulted.

[Kev1972]

Some 60 year old land whale at work told me I look like I have a large gentleman sausage. I got the weirdest boner. Not insulted one bit.

[poundfive2]

i get offended when fat or ugly women try to talk to me... i mean, it makes me feel like they have a chance.. why the **** should they feel like that? im clearly out of their league.

then i cri because her hitting on me made me feel ugly

[daisygirl713]

"I feel mean admitting it, but sometimes a compliment from a guy I am not attracted to is like a job offer from a company I am not interested in. It's not really all that flattering, and depending how it's done, it can feel a bit insulting."

"When unattractive men have hit on me I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like... someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."
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Women get OFFENDED when a sub 7 man shows interest in them..

no, this is a representation of narcissistic/insecure people who exude a strong sense of self worth, but internally that facade only serves to protect a fragile & weak sense of value.

when you truly know your worth, you don't get offended by these things. this is because you're able to recognize that attraction isn't a mark of your [or the other person's] inferiority or superiority on a faulty scale.

the people who are susceptible to being insulted by an offer they deem below them are the doubtful ones who still question their worth. they get their panties in a bunch, cuz they thought they deserved more & 'how dare he think he has a chance'...but what's really happening below the surface is they're freaking out because they're wondering if their preceived value has dropped-- 'maybe my wrinkles are showing & i'm gaining some weight & my sex appeal isn't nearly as strong as i thought it was....'

on the other hand, if you have a strong sense of worthiness, you won't be affected by offers [high or low] that don't appeal to you.

conclusion-- being insulted when someone you're not attracted to hits on you is more a reflection of you, than the person who's making the move. check your self worth!

[Kblavkalash]

Can't wrap my head around the logic that getting a compliment is ever insulting. I've had some very very unattractive women tell me I was good looking, or straight up ask if I have a gf, and even though I wasn't interested I still got a good feeling out of it.

this. It's just a fuking compliment. They are not asking you anything, how the fuk can someone be disgusted.

[poundfive2]

no, this is a representation of narcissistic/insecure people who exude a strong sense of self worth, but internally that facade only serves to protect a fragile & weak sense of value.

when you truly know your worth, you don't get offended by these things. this is because you're able to recognize that attraction isn't a mark of your [or the other person's] inferiority or superiority on a faulty scale.

the people who are susceptible to being insulted by an offer they deem below them are the doubtful ones who still question their worth. they get their panties in a bunch, cuz they thought they deserved more & 'how dare he think he has a chance'...but what's really happening below the surface is they're freaking out because they're wondering if their preceived value has dropped-- 'maybe my wrinkles are showing & i'm gaining some weight & my sex appeal isn't nearly as strong as i thought it was....'

on the other hand, if you have a strong sense of worthiness, you won't be affected by offers [high or low] that don't appeal to you.

conclusion-- being insulted when someone you're not attracted to hits on you is more a reflection of you, than the person who's making the move. check your self worth!

literally everything is about self-worth. no need to be ashamed or hide insecurities if they exist. just own them and say **** it.. that's how you truly get over anything.

[kanis999]

What has me confused is why unattractive people don't have the right to try to bat out of their league? They have every right to do so. They might get lucky. Lots of guys do get lucky, and end up with a 10/10 wife.

[snucks]

Some 60 year old land whale at work told me I look like I have a large gentleman sausage. I got the weirdest boner. Not insulted one bit.

so.....................don't leave us hanging, do you have a large sausage?

[imperialmisc]

so.....................don't leave us hanging, do you have a large sausage?

He does. I estalked him, figured out where he lives, broke in his house and checked it out while he was sleeping. Confirmed.







OP, you are 38 years old.

1) Get over this whole women thing. Stop obsessing over it. It's not healthy
2) When you do meet a woman, the worst literal thing you can do is tell them you're intimidated by them
3) Stop giving compliments altogether, because you're doing it ass backwards. Try just talking to them like a normal person, like a friend, until you're more comfortable. (Again, don't force the situation)

Stop making online dating threads because you don't seem to understand the concept. Looks are a strong factor of confidence and self-esteem, but looks by themselves are pointless. If looks meant everything, Hank Baskett wouldn't have cheated on Kendra Wilkinson (or whatever her name is) Reggie Bush and Kim Kardashian would have never divorced, Brad wouldn't have cheated on Jennifer Aniston.

A good looking guy is naturally confident because he can have an easier time initially attracting a woman. Do you actually think there are 0 less fortunate looking guys out there that have landed with good looking women? If you actually think this, you are 100% delusional.

[awphukwhy]

I sometimes feel disturbed when ugly women talk to me

[poundfive2]

What has me confused is why unattractive people don't have the right to try to bat out of their league? They have every right to do so. They might get lucky. Lots of guys do get lucky, and end up with a 10/10 wife.

people have the right to do something, just like someone has the right to get offended by other's actions.

[imperialmisc]

What has me confused is why unattractive people don't have the right to try to bat out of their league? They have every right to do so. They might get lucky. Lots of guys do get lucky, and end up with a 10/10 wife.

I think the entire misc and most people have deluded themselves into thinking leagues exist. I have yet to listen to anyone other than a male refer to someone from the opposite sex based on a number scale. Some are more attractive than others, in their opinions, but there are sooooooo many other factors based on looks. By using a number scale and assigning yourself a number, you are automatically deluding your own value.

[BetaThanU]

A guy who rates (on your hypothetical scale) less than 7/10 isn't necessarily ugly. A 6/10 guy is still slightly above average.

You would have to be below 4/10 to be considered actually ugly. Everything between 4-6/10 is AVERAGE looking.

Please stop posting.

Girls rate 80% of men as looking below average.
Doesn't even make sense.
Females gonna female