how hard was it? Did you often have guys hitting on her right in front of you? share your story
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07-31-2012, 12:06 PM #1
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07-31-2012, 12:08 PM #2
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07-31-2012, 12:10 PM #3
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07-31-2012, 12:14 PM #4
Yep.
Something you learn to live with. If you're gonna date a beautiful woman you have to learn to control your jealousy and anger.
Dudes will look, her guy friends will try to break you two up, anytime you're not around assume a guy is hitting on her, etc.... but as long as you stay secure and know she's not stepping out on you it's all good.
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07-31-2012, 12:20 PM #5
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07-31-2012, 12:23 PM #6
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07-31-2012, 12:25 PM #7
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07-31-2012, 12:25 PM #8
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07-31-2012, 12:37 PM #9
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07-31-2012, 12:45 PM #10
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girl i'm seeing now is amazingly hot and flashy looking. guys stare her up and down everywhere. even when i'm with her. i can live with the staring. after all, it's really a compliment to me since i'm the one she's with right?
although i get anxiety at the thought of going to a club or a bar with her, anywhere that's full of horny predatory males on the prowl. i feel like someone will hit on her, won't back the fuk off when they see i'm with her, and i'll have to punch them in the face. i hate dealing with that drama.
i'd rather her go to a club or bar mostly with just her friends, so i don't have to deal with the bs, because i know she won't do anything shady. especially if you're a good looking guy and she's lucky to have you around.
best advice i can give is to make sure you don't go anywhere crazy with her 1 on 1. if you go to a club, bar or a party, make sure you have at least one or two of your close friends with you in case something happens. but you're going to just have to learn to trust her. no point in constantly trying to follow her around and prevent it, you'll drive yourself crazy that way.
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07-31-2012, 12:48 PM #11
the moment you get jealous is the moment you start losing her...
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07-31-2012, 12:50 PM #12
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07-31-2012, 12:54 PM #13
It's only natural that other guys will hit on your female. I know this is a pathetic comparison, but take male lions as an example. Male lions constantly fight eachother for the female lion. They don't even give a fock if the other male lion is with the wife, they will still fight the husband to near death/death.
This is how human society is too in someway. Obviously we don't kill eachother but there is constant male attention when you're with your girl.
I dare one of you ****gets to go to the club with your girl. Most guys there wouldn't even give two shiits if the girl is your wife, they will still do everything in their ability to get inside your girls poon.
In fact, I was at a party the other day and the host of the party also brought her parents over. I lol'd hard because I saw about 3 college-aged dudes trying to hit on the MILF mom right in front of the husband and the husband had to step in.*high libido crew*
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07-31-2012, 12:56 PM #14
This, although nightclubs and bars are just plain unhealthy environments for relationships in general. With friends or not. But women gonna women and I have found myself biting the bullet and taking my now "ex gf" to the club. It's just hard for me to have a real good time if I have my radar on for douchbags. More stress than fun. Used to work security at a nightclub and I know all about how those places ruin relationships
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07-31-2012, 01:00 PM #15
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07-31-2012, 01:00 PM #16
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07-31-2012, 01:02 PM #17
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07-31-2012, 01:20 PM #18
Dated a very hot girl for 7 months.
******** wall full of WKs saying: "We don't go out together anymore since you are always out with your boyfriend" and always wanting to meet her alone to "have something to drink/eat".
A week after we broke up a guy paid a whole week trip to Mallorca (spanish island), plane included and 4 star hotel included. Another guy got a tatto with the letter V (her name starts with V) and uploaded the pic to FB tagging her. Neither of them got anything from her (not even a kiss or sex).
Surprisingly, she didn't cheat on me either. She was one good girl, but loved the attention too much.
Very hot girlfriends, not even once.
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07-31-2012, 01:34 PM #19
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07-31-2012, 02:01 PM #20
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07-31-2012, 02:04 PM #21
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07-31-2012, 02:08 PM #22
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it is hard to stay calm. but you have to just kinda of look the other way. you just have to accept that every single guy in proximity wants to bone down and will approach. her attitude towards it is what makes it tolerable. if she is above it and shows affection and want to be with you when she gets hit on, then its all good. if you show not a shred of jealousy, then you show that you are confident enough that you could always get someone else of even higher caliber and that you are not bound. what happens when you are not there is out of your control. your feelers have to be on HIGH alert and your emotion has to be buried.
if you are the awesome in her reality, not many other guys will matter. you will matter. you will be the sun in her solar system and she will orbit around you."The more sand that has escaped from the hourglass of our life, the clearer we should see through it."
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07-31-2012, 02:15 PM #23“Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”
― Muhammad Ali
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07-31-2012, 02:15 PM #24
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07-31-2012, 02:23 PM #28
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07-31-2012, 02:24 PM #29
I've dated one ridiculously beautiful girl. When other guys hit on her I would just let them go for it and busy myself with something else. Not a single **** was given because my ego is too massive to be threatened by the vast majority of guys. If a dude asked her to dance I would pretty much throw her at them and she would always come back and complain about me making her go with them. I think the fact that it didn't bother me made her like me even more.
What really blew my mind is how different things are for women who are top 5% on the looks scale. They get treated like GOLD everywhere they go, not only by men but ESPECIALLY by other women. Their life experience is completely different from everyone else's. People are insanely nice to them and go out of their way to accommodate them. As long as they aren't total bitches everyone automatically likes them.
I never understood why people wanted trophy wives thing until I dated this chick. I used to think that as long as you were attracted to someone, it didn't matter whether they were model material or just a cute girl next door. But now I know being out with a beautiful girl is the closest most of us non-celebrity guys can get to rockstar treatment. Retail workers treat you differently, servers fawn over you and everyone acts like you're a big deal just because of the way the girl on your arm looks. It's pretty wild stuff.Candy is dandy but I like liquor way better
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07-31-2012, 02:25 PM #30
Yeah my last relationship died due to the club scene - the reality is that if you meet a thousand people you're gonna meet someone "better" or more satisfying for the short term.
After a while I got sick of her shenanigans and kicked the whole relationship to the curb. Girls gotta be mature about this.
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