I'm gay

[musclemidget]

Hey guys, I have something to tell you. I'm not sure who to tell so I'll just tell you guys. I'm gay. I'm kinda confused though, I don't know if I should tell my parents. I think they might freak out. I hate my life, parents just don't understand.

I realized I was gay last year when I started checking out all the dudes out at my school. I got carried away and ended up sucking this guy's dick. The whole school found out and now I want to die.

[Odin_s Volk]

kill yourself

[mroc888]

go tell someone who cares we're not your guidance counselors

[PumpingUp]

Originally posted by Odin's Volk
kill yourself

Hey that guys cool

[PistolPete452]

ewwwwwww! You honestly did not have to say you went down on some guy.

[CaMPusLEgENd]

well i guess if that is your personal preference then its cool. i have a few gay friends here at college and they are cool as ****. are you still in high school? if so i wouldnt worry about it. most high schoolers are immature anyways. when you get in college im sure you wont get that much crap for it. college is a very different diverse place and most people respect others preferences. dont worry about it. just blow them off. i dont even talk to any of my high school friends anymore anyways. except for really close friends. i know this wont solve your problems but you need to just do what you feel is right. if you want to tell them then you should. it may dissapoint them but you are still their son and theyll always love and care about you. im sure everything will work out.

peace,
adam

[appleman10]

go on mtv's true life....you creap

[sword chucks]

Im sorry that everyone in your school is an ass.

I used to have a gay friend, when he came out to the school, not everybody hated him. Only the people that already did. I was friends with him before he told everyone and after, I was actually one of the first ones to know since we were good friends (just friends )

He moved away though, and nobody really remembers. It doesnt really matter to most poeple, just dont let the people that do get on your case about it get on your nerves.

I dont knwo about telling your parents, but you could talk to an aunt or uncle, at least you wouldnt have to live with them.

[iron_curtis]

u gotta tell ya parents at some stage

[zia]

if u suck a dick u wont be a gay hmmm are u attracted to guys??

[HydroStorm]

Aren't you a wrestler, maybe you could use wrestling to help you control yourself or something :/

if i told my parents i was gay (which i'm not,) i'd get thrown out

[JohnLeitch]

you damn fruit nobody cares about your gayness this is a bb fourm not a I cant help being an anal pumper geez cmon

Damn Pirate

[Woden]

Are you sure? You aren't attracted to girls at all?

[EmperialChina]

Dood, I think this is even a worse place to tell people then even at your highschool....its no secret that many are into bodybuilding out of some sort of mental complex, many here try to boost their masculinity so saying that here and especially on the the most imature forum at bb.com, the teen forum is going to get you a lot of crap.

Though I don't agree at all with the messages above, I think the negative ones were made by the littliest and most moronic people here........You have nothing to feel guilty about, it is not something you can control, many people here are really skinny, would they like to take responsibility for that....do they like to be called skinny or fat?

Anyhow its something you cannot change, and it does garnier a lot of unneeded hate, and the world is indeed a bit cruel if you do not fit its measurments....It sucks but what can you do about it....you can only face it sooner or later.

[EmperialChina]

Originally posted by Woden
Are you sure? You aren't attracted to girls at all?

Well......he obviously isn't.....even if he was he is still attractied to guys which is gay in itself......its nothing to feel wrong or guilty about, but trying to excuse it with the old you sure you don't like girls is not possible....he wouldn't have done it if he didn't have the want.

Atleast hear the guy out and give him some respect he has about 1800 posts here.

[BEASTLy]

You belong on MTV True Life!

[hydrogen_wv]

Yeah..telling a bunch of testosterone driven muscleheads on a forum wasn't the best idea....but here's my 2 cents...

Everyone has their own preferences, likes, dislikes, etc... If that's what you like, stand up and be proud about it. People don't matter, especially the ones that dislike you for it. My best friend is a bisexual, and he's cool as ****...id start off by telling some of your closest friends, because you have a stable friendship with them, and they'll be most likely to accept it.Yeah..college is a great place, you can be yourself with little or no people judging you. I know about a half dozen gays up here, and they get along just fine.

To the people on here hating on this guy, you need to grow up..seriously. Sure this is a bodybuilding forum, but he should be able to talk about what he wants..when you go to a basketball game, do you only talk about baseball with the people you are with? When you go to a music chatroom do you only talk about music? It's all about friendships, advise, and such... the main topic here is bodybuilding, but what harm is done talking about something else every once in a while? If you haven't noticed there are other categories down below that don't even relate to bodybuilding.

Homophobes = ****.... people need to grow up... and to all the people that support this guy and gave him advice farther up, it's good to see some maturity here.

I'm out.

[appleman10]

I was just kidding around...a lot of people are gay, but this ISNT the place to come out of the closet.

[LostProphet]

Don't post stuff like this in here again please.