Relationship advice

[BigE44]

What's up guys, I'm new to the forum and I need some advice. I have been with my girlfriend for 1 1/2 years, and since we met during our senior year we decided to go to college together (i know bad mistake). Anyway I was overweight back then and I though she was the only girl I could ever be with. At the time we started going out I weighed 260 and am now down to 210. Now that I have started to loose weight I have started to think I could do better for myself and even my sister told me that I am too good for her. Plus here's the bombshell, when we first started sex it was almost 2 times a day, now I am lucky to get it once a month. With all that said it is still going to be hard to breakup since I know she will take it hard. My question is what would be the best time and way to break up with her in the best way possible. Keep in mind I will be going to the same school next year and this summer we are going to be apart due to living in different towns. Thanks for any help.

[mike_8401]

honestly, there isnt going to be a best time or place to break up with her. it'll be the worst time for her. just sit her down one day and tell her the truth about how you feel. dont say anything bad, but just tell her your not commited to a relationship. your both young, going to college, you cant be involved with someone. go out in the world and explore.

good luck bro.

i always tell myself that girls can fake an orgasm, but us guys can fake the whole relationship.

[BigE44]

Thanks for the advice. She obviously has to know that our relationship has fallen apart. We can't even be around each other without making each other mad. I just think we need to break up soon. She has made me hate college so far because she makes me feel bad for going out with the guys. And now that I am starting to hang out with other people I feel happy rather than depressed all of the time.

[mike_8401]

Originally posted by BigE44
Thanks for the advice. She obviously has to know that our relationship has fallen apart. We can't even be around each other without making each other mad. I just think we need to break up soon. She has made me hate college so far because she makes me feel bad for going out with the guys. And now that I am starting to hang out with other people I feel happy rather than depressed all of the time.

you have to do what makes you happy. with you two fighting when being with each other is never a good thing. and dont hate college, sure hate the assignments and tests, but you'll love the social life there. you'll have fun, believe me.

if you do feel bad about breaking up with her, make her break up with you. on a date, look at other girls, flirt with other girls, pick your nose, sneeze in her food, act like an idiot, talk about things shes not interested in. she'll break up with you eventually, if you do want to go this route, or again just tell her its over. but not if your going to feel badly about it. get her to take the step and call it quits.

hope everything works out man. again your young right now, you cant be stressin about these things. she needs to get out of the way cause it appears she's holdin you back from enjoying things.

[pharm]

Originally posted by BigE44
Thanks for the advice. She obviously has to know that our relationship has fallen apart. We can't even be around each other without making each other mad. I just think we need to break up soon. She has made me hate college so far because she makes me feel bad for going out with the guys. And now that I am starting to hang out with other people I feel happy rather than depressed all of the time.

Whatever makes you happy. Congrats on losing the weight. Improved self confidence is great. I was in similar situation and I broke it off. I was sad for a week or so, but now I am happy being single and not getting criticized or made feel guilty for what I want to do. She is trying to make you feel bad to negate the happiness, you bettered your life and worked hard and she is trying to hold you back. My advice? Dump her.

[XEastCoastHateX]

If your getting it that much now compared to before role out....bottom line...