Breast Augmentation

[ashleyonescu]

Hey ladies, im looking for some good advise, tips from real people that have breast implants instead of just looking at pictures and reading stories about having the surgery. Im thinking about getting the surgery for my
self confidence, i would look sooo much better in my clothes and when im naked!!! i think it will motivate me to be not so self consious at the gym, river, ect. ok so silicone or saline what do you guys think? the doc said first time saline would be good but i heard silicone is more natural looking. would you reffer any doctor, im still looking for a good one!! if you guys have anything else you can think of, tell me!!

[Revmachine21]

Honestly, you look nice in your picture. Seems like a waste of money.

Why don't you go to Greece or Italy or some place fun like that? Plenty of tanned hot men there to help 'improve' your self confidence.

[kalagan]

^^^^I agree with her. As a guy i think you're a very good looking girl. The real question is to know if you want to do it for you or because you think most guys like big breast.


But imo you don't need it.

[ScoobyDrew]

Originally Posted by Revmachine21

Honestly, you look nice in your picture. Seems like a waste of money.

Why don't you go to Greece or Italy or some place fun like that? Plenty of tanned hot men there to help 'improve' your self confidence.

I don't know about the "tanned hot men" in Greece or Italy, but you are a pretty girl that could better spend that money on something else.

[darkangel]

I would think twice about having surgery at such a young age, too. It's possible your body isn't through developing. I don't think I hit my full cup size until after I got out of college. Check your diet and make sure you're getting enough healthy fats - that made a difference for me.

[ewitte]

You look fine. I'd just work on the confidence thing and when you get to the point where you want to do it for yourself then go for it. The increased attention you would be getting isn't good attention and will probably attract more of the types of guys that you don't like or necessarily want attention from.

[STEPHIE1181]

Hey Girls,

I would like to first introduce myself. My name is Stephanie and I had saline implants done 5 years ago. I found out last month that one of my implants has a very slow leak, I had gotten and bacterial and viral infection associated with the leak. Nothing that serious just alot of medication. I am scheduled for surgery this Monday to replace both implants. I do know that if your are considereing implants please do go with the saline. yeah silicone looks more natural but the risks are alot higher. Just my input. But it was one of the best choices I have ever made. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. Good Luck.

Stephanie

[Cherry]

If you're in the US, you have to qualify for silicone, and find a Dr. that is involved in the silicone studies. Personally, I don't think there are any worse complications or risks of silicone over saline, and most would say that the silicone does indeed look and feel better.

I went with saline because I didn't care for the PS that was in the silicone study and loved the PS that only did saline.

Personally, I would wait until after kids to get implants, or get a smaller size now (like 350cc or under) because if you go big and booblicious, you'll end up with a lot of sag after the child bearing years.

Good luck. Do a search for breast implant forums on google - there are lots of places to get more information and experiences.

[yawaii29]

I went with saline under the muscle, but I did also wait until I was done having children. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. Whatever you feel comfortable with...just make sure you do alot of research on them and you can have consultations with different physicans and then go from there.

[dillingerescp]

You look fine man. If you were my girlfriend (hypothetically, of course) if you got surgery Id be a bit upset.

Honestly, as far as breasts go, quality is much more important than quantity.

[Cherry]

Originally Posted by dillingerescp

You look fine man. If you were my girlfriend (hypothetically, of course) if you got surgery Id be a bit upset.

Honestly, as far as breasts go, quality is much more important than quantity.

Why would you think she would be doing it FOR you (or another man) or that if your girlfriend wanted to do something for HER self and HER body that you would have a right to be upset? A boyfriend who would be upset that I wanted to get implants would be just as upsetting to me as a boyfriend who would be upset that I *wouldn't* get implants.

I'm not trying to be snotty, but while you look at breasts as objects for your pleasure, females look at them as a part of their body that they are unable to improve without surgery (unlike, fat, hair color, eye color, etc).

Fortunately for me, my husband was much more understanding that my body is my choice, and he loves me and trusts me to make the right decisions for my body and my esteem.

[ewitte]

Originally Posted by Cherry

Why would you think she would be doing it FOR you (or another man) or that if your girlfriend wanted to do something for HER self and HER body that you would have a right to be upset? A boyfriend who would be upset that I wanted to get implants would be just as upsetting to me as a boyfriend who would be upset that I *wouldn't* get implants.

I'm not trying to be snotty, but while you look at breasts as objects for your pleasure, females look at them as a part of their body that they are unable to improve without surgery (unlike, fat, hair color, eye color, etc).

Wanting to change your body, and especially parts that can't be changed, IMO is a sign of lack of self confidence. The only reason to be doing it IS to please others and gain attention. Unless you can tell me its going to improve your health in other ways (like losing weight and excersize does) I don't buy what you said. Its not wrong to do something to attract the opposite sex (or whatever your preference is) or better your looks... just no need denying it.

[buff*n*stuff]

Originally Posted by Cherry

Why would you think she would be doing it FOR you (or another man) or that if your girlfriend wanted to do something for HER self and HER body that you would have a right to be upset? A boyfriend who would be upset that I wanted to get implants would be just as upsetting to me as a boyfriend who would be upset that I *wouldn't* get implants.

I'm not trying to be snotty, but while you look at breasts as objects for your pleasure, females look at them as a part of their body that they are unable to improve without surgery (unlike, fat, hair color, eye color, etc).

Fortunately for me, my husband was much more understanding that my body is my choice, and he loves me and trusts me to make the right decisions for my body and my esteem.

Thank you for this post Cherry! And who said anything about quantity? Most of the women do it for the quality! To look better and feel better is not about quantity it's about quality...

Also, the ban in the US for silicone implants was lifted earlier this year.

[Cherry]

Originally Posted by ewitte

Wanting to change your body, and especially parts that can't be changed, IMO is a sign of lack of self confidence. The only reason to be doing it IS to please others and gain attention. Unless you can tell me its going to improve your health in other ways (like losing weight and excersize does) I don't buy what you said. Its not wrong to do something to attract the opposite sex (or whatever your preference is) or better your looks... just no need denying it.

I'm thrilled in my marriage, in love with my husband, and have 2 great kids. I have NO NEED or DESIRE to attract the opposite sex. My husband could care less about my chest as long as my ass is high and tight. So yes, I deny it emphatically. I don't wear tight form fitting clothes now, I'm still in my t-shirts, sports bras, and ball caps most days. Not exactly the attire to attract some ego-inflated male who thinks I should be *trying* to attract him.

You are right it is about self-confidence and self-esteem. I said as much in my post. The reasons most women get BA's are FAR, FAR more complex than just catching some dude's eye. You are kidding yourself if you think women value looks from men more than women value how they feel about themselves.

[Cherry]

Originally Posted by buff*n*stuff

Thank you for this post Cherry! And who said anything about quantity? Most of the women do it for the quality! To look better and feel better is not about quantity it's about quality...

Also, the ban in the US for silicon implants was lifte earlier this year.

Whoops, thanks for the correction!

[dillingerescp]

Originally Posted by Cherry

Why would you think she would be doing it FOR you (or another man) or that if your girlfriend wanted to do something for HER self and HER body that you would have a right to be upset? A boyfriend who would be upset that I wanted to get implants would be just as upsetting to me as a boyfriend who would be upset that I *wouldn't* get implants.

I'm not trying to be snotty, but while you look at breasts as objects for your pleasure, females look at them as a part of their body that they are unable to improve without surgery (unlike, fat, hair color, eye color, etc).

Fortunately for me, my husband was much more understanding that my body is my choice, and he loves me and trusts me to make the right decisions for my body and my esteem.

Christ, you really think most women don't get implants so they get more attention ? Your self esteem is boosted because you know in the back of your mind, that you will be getting more attention from people.

Honestly, I have many cousins and friends who got breast implants, and each one of them admit fully its to get attention from guys.

If you're so callous as to not allow the man you love, respect, and care about have some input, or offer some insight on a major surgery that is going to alter your body, then you wouldn't be a girlfriend that many men would want to have, because after all, you're right. It is your body, but to be so indifferent about someone you love's opinion... That's just pretty awful.

You are kidding yourself if you think women value looks from men more than women value how they feel about themselves.

Oh boy, could I have a field day with that load.

[Cherry]

Originally Posted by dillingerescp

If you're so callous as to not allow the man you love, respect, and care about have some input, or offer some insight on a major surgery that is going to alter your body, then you wouldn't be a girlfriend that many men would want to have, because after all, you're right. It is your body, but to be so indifferent about someone you love's opinion... That's just pretty awful.

He had input, he went to the consults with me, he looked into the risks and complications with me. Had he a valid concern other than the ridiculous "YOU LOOK FINE NOW" it would have borne discussion. He didn't, even though he did think I was fine the way I was, and he understood my reasons, and stood by me.

Christ, you really think most women don't get implants so they get more attention ? Your self esteem is boosted because you know in the back of your mind, that you will be getting more attention from people.

Honestly, I have many cousins and friends who got breast implants, and each one of them admit fully its to get attention from guys.

You have either a very low opinion of the depth of women or very shallow acquaintances. In the years of research I did prior to getting a BA, I saw very few women who cited desire for attention OR commented on all the attention they get afterwards, which would belie your assertions.

[dillingerescp]

Originally Posted by Cherry

He had input, he went to the consults with me, he looked into the risks and complications with me. Had he a valid concern other than the ridiculous "YOU LOOK FINE NOW" it would have borne discussion. He didn't, even though he did think I was fine the way I was, and he understood my reasons, and stood by me.



You have either a very low opinion of the depth of women or very shallow acquaintances. In the years of research I did prior to getting a BA, I saw very few women who cited desire for attention OR commented on all the attention they get afterwards, which would belie your assertions.

The vibe I got from your post directed towards me really sounded like a male has no right to offer an opinion, or express his feelings toward his significant other on whether or not to get that surgery, maybe it was just me ? Its good that you allowed him to at least express his opinion on it, there are way too many women, when it comes to this surgery, who say "I'm doing it, its my body, everyone else can go to hell."


Should we even start on being shallow ? Women are willing to drop good money so their breasts can be nicer... mmhmm.

Well, I just find it odd that you cited few women who said they did it for attention. Considering the people I know, and the FEMALE in this thread even said something along the lines of "if you dont admit to doing it for attention, you're lying."
Hell, there was a show on Discovery, and another one on MTV, each documentary had women saying they loved the attention they get now with their implants.

[ashleyonescu]

You are right it is about self-confidence and self-esteem. I said as much in my post. The reasons most women get BA's are FAR, FAR more complex than just catching some dude's eye. You are kidding yourself if you think women value looks from men more than women value how they feel about themselves.[/QUOTE]

Thankyou for this post cherry!! it is about self-confidence and my self esteem, that i would be getting the surgery, and for those think its for attention im sorry i dont need the attention, i want it for me, my body. Yes i can do other things to to build my self- esteem, exercising, eating right, ect. but i want to fill my clothes, i'll wear a sweater or a t-shirt for all i care, but knowing that my bra is filled and comfortable, and overall for my self confidence having the look that i want

[ewitte]

Originally Posted by Cherry

You are kidding yourself if you think women value looks from men more than women value how they feel about themselves.

What exactly makes you feel any differently then? Why not just be happy for your life, marriage, children, etc. The only thing different is your getting more attention/looks/etc.

[breathingsky]

It's much more complicated than just wanting extra attention from men in bars, on the street, etc. Women have been altering their bodies for years in an attempt to aspire to contemporary forms of beauty. Foot binding in China to the point where women are no longer able to walk, smearing arsenic on the face to whiten the skin, breaking their ribs through corseting to attain a 10" waist. Now we have our chests cut open and plastic bags filled with chemicals implanted under the muscle.

It makes me sad to think we need to do these things to feel better about ourselves. There's been a 24% increase in plastic surgery with women since the year 2000, and they are doing it at an increasingly younger age. What ever happened to growing old and sagging gracefully?

Here is an interesting article on the subject. A little long, but a good read:

http://www.thenewatlantis.com/archive/5/rosen.htm

"Breast implants are a good example of some of the ironies of our pragmatic, democratic approach to cosmetic surgery. Women who get them to feel more sexually attractive are making a strange bargain. In the process of looking more sexually appealing, they rob themselves of several uniquely female experiences. Women with breast implants frequently report a loss of sensation in their breasts, eliminating a site of natural sexual pleasure. Some cannot breastfeed their children, eliminating both the bonding and health benefits of this practice. Many must, on average, have their implants replaced or adjusted every ten years, and rippling, hardening, and significant movement of the implant and surrounding tissue are common."

[dillingerescp]

Its easy to make yourself seem like more of a righteous person on a forum by pressing that you are not doing it for attention, but I know too many women whose reasons were to look better, thus getting more attention. Which the latter of the two reasons are ultimately the desired result.

I just did a quick google search, came up with this:

23. Which of the following best describes your most important reason for
having a breast augmentation ?
a. cosmetic reasons 95%
b. reconstructive/medical reasons 2%
c. job related decision 2%
d. other (please specify): 1%


You're seriously kidding yourself if you're going to try and argue that women don't get implants because they want attention, even if that acts as a confidence booster, and then they can pass off their reasoning on that.

The OP is a beautiful girl, can you people honestly see why she would need this ? I liken it to anorexia with girls... For some reason these girls think they need to do this to themselves, when everyone is standing around perplexed as to why ?
Now I realize that breast implants and anorexia are two different ball games, but the mentality is identical. <-- Please read that before you frenzy over the anorexia comparison

Lol, had to get that out of the way.

[bstregs]

Originally Posted by darkangel

I would think twice about having surgery at such a young age, too. It's possible your body isn't through developing. I don't think I hit my full cup size until after I got out of college. Check your diet and make sure you're getting enough healthy fats - that made a difference for me.

Agreed. I was 21 when I first got mine done and 23 when I, unfortunately, had to get them redone. If you're dead-set on getting an augmentation, PM me. There are alot of do's and don'ts that I have experienced first hand.

[bstregs]

Originally Posted by dillingerescp

You're seriously kidding yourself if you're going to try and argue that women don't get implants because they want attention, even if that acts as a confidence booster, and then they can pass off their reasoning on that.

The OP is a beautiful girl, can you people honestly see why she would need this ? I liken it to anorexia with girls... For some reason these girls think they need to do this to themselves, when everyone is standing around perplexed as to why ?
Now I realize that breast implants and anorexia are two different ball games, but the mentality is identical. <-- Please read that before you frenzy over the anorexia comparison

Lol, had to get that out of the way.

Whoah, just read this one! You hit it right on! Most girls who are anorexic and/or get breasts are usually extremely insecure and have low selfesteem. I was anorexic at one point in my life, and, as the above post says, have had my breasts augmented. Looking back on it all, I realized that I was wanting positive attention so badly that I took the physical route because it produced the most quick and efficient results. It sucks, because now that I'm a bit older and have gained confidence, I realized it was money wasted, and time looking disgustingly skinny for no reason.

My advice is to wait several years.

[bttrthnb4]

Is this helping the OP? She's getting ragged on by guys who think she doesn't need it. I don't think you need it either hon, but I know how you feel. So, I'm sorry, but she didn't ask for the men's input. She asked for input from those who have had the surgery. No, I've not had any surgery yet, but after kids I plan on having a lift at the least. Good luck to you!

[ashleyonescu]

thankyou everyones input, i appreciate it!

[Rae610]

www.implantinfo.com

Great site. Check out the forums for lots of great discussion on the topic.

[fmr_trackstar]

I think its interesting that men have a lot to say about this subject and how its stupid that women get them and try to compare it to getting penis augmentation.

NEWSFLASH?if men penis size fluctuated with weight I GUARANTEE they would think differently and there would be a lot more guys getting them.

I am not advocating penis augmentation or breast augmentation Im just point out that like others said before its not always about getting more attention but sometimes its more about feeling comfortable in your own skin.

[BiggerTommorow]

Originally Posted by fmr_trackstar

I think its interesting that men have a lot to say about this subject and how its stupid that women get them and try to compare it to getting penis augmentation.

NEWSFLASH?if men penis size fluctuated with weight I GUARANTEE they would think differently and there would be a lot more guys getting them.

I am not advocating penis augmentation or breast augmentation Im just point out that like others said before its not always about getting more attention but sometimes its more about feeling comfortable in your own skin.

who's skin was that again?

[Revmachine21]

Originally Posted by fmr_trackstar

NEWSFLASH?if men penis size fluctuated with weight I GUARANTEE they would think differently and there would be a lot more guys getting them.

Sorry, when reading this, did anybody else flash to the Sienfeld episode where George just got out of the pool?

Jerry, George Costanza: Elaine!
Jerry: Do women know about shrinkage?
Elaine: What do you mean like laundry?
Jerry: No, like when a man goes swimming afterwards.
Elaine: It shrinks?
Jerry: Like a frightened turtle!
Elaine: Why does it shrink?
George Costanza: It just does.
Elaine: I don't know how you guys walk around with those things.

(and sometime later...)

George Costanza: I was in the pool! I WAS IN THE POOL!