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    Girl suddenly changes attitude and starts ignoring me.

    So there's this girl whom I used to like. We have a few classes together and we used to be friends sort of. We talked, laughed, had a few connections (I think) etc. She asked for my number one day and I gave it to her. I thought about asking her to Prom but after realising she sort of acts that way towards most friendly guys, I realised I had no shot so I asked her friend instead, who happens to be a very good friend of mine as well.

    And now the problem: Lately she hasn't been friendly to me at all, before it used to be smiles, laughs, questions etc. Let me illustrate how it is now, she asks weird/random questions, and ignores me when I ask her something.

    For example out of nowhere in math class she whispered to me I needed to get a corsage for my date, which I told her I knew. And today she asked me what color my tie will be, also during class, out of nowhere. I asked her what her dress was like and it went like this:
    "So did you get a dress yet, what color?"
    "What?"
    "What color is your dress?"
    And then she goes off asking the teacher some question without asnwering my question.

    It's pretty much like that, she even asks me something and then it's like she's not listening to the answer sometimes.

    I'm going crazy, am I overthinking it? What do I do ? How do I act towards her? Should I do that to her as well?
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    Originally Posted by unrealalexk12 View Post
    So there's this girl whom I used to like. We have a few classes together and we used to be friends sort of. We talked, laughed, had a few connections (I think) etc. She asked for my number one day and I gave it to her. I thought about asking her to Prom but after realising she sort of acts that way towards most friendly guys, I realised I had no shot so I asked her friend instead, who happens to be a very good friend of mine as well.

    And now the problem: Lately she hasn't been friendly to me at all, before it used to be smiles, laughs, questions etc. Let me illustrate how it is now, she asks weird/random questions, and ignores me when I ask her something.

    For example out of nowhere in math class she whispered to me I needed to get a corsage for my date, which I told her I knew. And today she asked me what color my tie will be, also during class, out of nowhere. I asked her what her dress was like and it went like this:
    "So did you get a dress yet, what color?"
    "What?"
    "What color is your dress?"
    And then she goes off asking the teacher some question without asnwering my question.

    It's pretty much like that, she even asks me something and then it's like she's not listening to the answer sometimes.

    I'm going crazy, am I overthinking it? What do I do ? How do I act towards her? Should I do that to her as well?

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    You missed your chance and started giving off bad vibes after in accordance with her gradually increasing indifference. It's ok, we all mess up. Your chances with this one are over for the moment, but live and learn!
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    Originally Posted by cougarfootball2 View Post
    strong overthinking
    That's really what I'm leaning towards. I should just let it go shouldn't I heh =p
    Originally Posted by TricepsNGirls View Post
    You missed your chance and started giving off bad vibes after in accordance with her gradually increasing indifference. It's ok, we all mess up. Your chances with this one are over for the moment, but live and learn!
    Wow well written, that actually makes sense sort of, thanks.
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    ignore her unless she communicates first, then cut her short.. girls cant stand it
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    Start dating someone much more attractive and if she's just being 'a typical girl' (by ignoring you), she'll get jealous and try to get YOUR attention.
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    You're not overtinking it. If you're feeling it it's probably happening. Just get involved with your own thing and let her talk to you first from here on.
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    She's probably pissed and jealous that you asked her friend to the prom and not her. She probably had feelings for you and now she feels betrayed.
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    Originally Posted by unrealalexk12 View Post
    she sort of acts that way towards most friendly guys, I realised I had no shot so I asked her friend instead, who happens to be a very good friend of mine as well.
    Its quite simple, you were no one special to her but you were a confidence boost and she really expected you to go for her. With you going for her friend she has to convince herself that she doesn't care for you because it hurt her a little to think she wasn't the "best" in your book.

    I'm either a bulleye with that or way in left field.
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    Let's flip this around. Wouldn't you be hurt if a girl you liked decided to date a friend of yours instead?
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    although this time she seems to have reason.....99% of the time I can not figure out for the life of me why I am getting ignored and when she tells me I still don't understand......its seriously only connections 2 X chromosomes can make
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    Originally Posted by Brutotal View Post
    Its quite simple, you were no one special to her but you were a confidence boost and she really expected you to go for her. With you going for her friend she has to convince herself that she doesn't care for you because it hurt her a little to think she wasn't the "best" in your book.

    I'm either a bulleye with that or way in left field.
    Strong assumption, but definitely a possibility.
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    Originally Posted by Brutotal View Post
    Its quite simple, you were no one special to her but you were a confidence boost and she really expected you to go for her. With you going for her friend she has to convince herself that she doesn't care for you because it hurt her a little to think she wasn't the "best" in your book.

    I'm either a bulleye with that or way in left field.
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    Here's the answer:

    (1) Give me her name/number/stats/pics (neg train if she's a butter)
    (2) I'll hook up with her, turn her over to the dark side
    (3) If I remember, I'll ask her about the two of you
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    (5) Repeat as necessary for next girl

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    rofl bitch slap her
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    Originally Posted by CNDWolverine View Post
    She's probably pissed and jealous that you asked her friend to the prom and not her. She probably had feelings for you and now she feels betrayed.
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    Don't think we were that close for her to be pissed or feel betrayed.
    I think I'm just gona let it go.

    I just though of another possibility.
    A few friends found out (from another friend) that I was going to ask her and it might have spread as gossip...same day I asked her friend too.
    Never tell your friends **** like that lol, is what I've learned.

    Anyways, yea I gotta let it go.
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    I've been in the same situation before. Well, I wasn't in school. But a girl I liked also liked me, but then I talked to one of her friends (just as friends, mind you) and ever since then she'd act like she never had interests in me.

    Females can be interested and decide they don't like you with just the snap of the fingers. Well atleast they're good at acting like they don't like you anymore.
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    Ignore her back, and see if she reproaches you for not giving her attention anymore. If she does, you know she was playing a mind game to test whether you were interested for real or not. If she doesn't show you attention after a few days, she's lost interest. Move on.
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    So there's this girl whom I used to like. We have a few classes together and we used to be friends sort of. We talked, laughed, had a few connections (I think) etc. She asked for my number one day and I gave it to her. I thought about asking her to Prom but after realising she sort of acts that way towards most friendly guys, I realised I had no shot so I asked her friend instead, who happens to be a very good friend of mine as well.

    And now the problem: Lately she hasn't been friendly to me at all, before it used to be smiles, laughs, questions etc. Let me illustrate how it is now, she asks weird/random questions, and ignores me when I ask her something.

    For example out of nowhere in math class she whispered to me I needed to get a corsage for my date, which I told her I knew. And today she asked me what color my tie will be, also during class, out of nowhere. I asked her what her dress was like and it went like this:
    "So did you get a dress yet, what color?"
    "What?"
    "What color is your dress?"
    And then she goes off asking the teacher some question without asnwering my question.

    It's pretty much like that, she even asks me something and then it's like she's not listening to the answer sometimes.

    I'm going crazy, am I overthinking it? What do I do ? How do I act towards her? Should I do that to her as well?
    happened to me too. See heres the thing, asking for her number was because she wanted to be friendly and call and chat and bull**** like that to act friendly. Then I tell my good friend to ask her, and she ends up doing awkward things and asking me awkward things. She acted nice for like 2 days just becuase she probably was sorry for me then goes into total ignore mode. Turns out she never thought that I would like her and I was only being friend( god.. girls can be so oblivious sometimes) and me liking her made her feel awkward and... yeah. bull..
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    Originally Posted by CNDWolverine View Post
    She's probably pissed and jealous that you asked her friend to the prom and not her. She probably had feelings for you and now she feels betrayed.
    That's exactly what it is.

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    Originally Posted by unrealalexk12 View Post
    Don't think we were that close for her to be pissed or feel betrayed.
    I think I'm just gona let it go.
    You underestimate the ability of a girl to claim ownership over a guy (at least in her mind).

    You are right though, just let it go.

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    (1) Give me her name/number/stats/pics (neg train if she's a butter)
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    Wow someone actually neg repped me for making this topic. Weird people.
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