Why do women date "bad boys" but marry "nice guys"?

[collegeBBer]

I don't wanna be a nice guy.

[user9438904904]

not all women marry "nice guys". so u might be in luck

[hugs]

I only date nice guys.....the bad boys get the boot. The prob most "nice guys" have, is that they come on too strong..and/or they try too hard and/or they act needy in the beginning. But you don't have to be a jerk to win over a woman.

[collegeBBer]

I only date nice guys.....the bad boys get the boot.

I wish many more were like that.

[AHood]

they all say they like nice guys but they prove them selves wrong.

[Sciamach]

I only date nice guys.....the bad boys get the boot. The prob most "nice guys" have, is that they come on too strong..and/or they try too hard and/or they act needy in the beginning. But you don't have to be a jerk to win over a woman.

yep, me too.

[sword_]

'Bad boys' are exciting and predictable, most 'nice guys' aren't.

[quickups]

I only date nice guys.....the bad boys get the boot. The prob most "nice guys" have, is that they come on too strong..and/or they try too hard and/or they act needy in the beginning. But you don't have to be a jerk to win over a woman.

I'm nice but its hard to find a date I don't really come off too strong its just my approach is laid back(thats just my personality).

What gives?

[hugs]

I'm nice but its hard to find a date I don't really come off too strong its just my approach is laid back(thats just my personality).

What gives?

You're probably going after the cheap girls who are shallow...just my hunch.

[Fearless_]

'Bad boys' are exciting and predictable, most 'nice guys' aren't.

You mean unpredictable. lol.


And nice guys are generally more reliable and secure (financially), which in turn makes them "predictable."

Honestly, who cares though bro. You can still be nice and get laid a lot. Being nice doesn't necessarily mean being a pussy or doormat.

[fkn_give_me_abs]

any smart girl knows bad boys aren't "providing" material. that's why they settle down with a nice guy eventually.

[sword_]

You mean unpredictable. lol.


And nice guys are generally more reliable and secure (financially), which in turn makes them "predictable."

Honestly, who cares though bro. You can still be nice and get laid a lot. Being nice doesn't necessarily mean being a pussy or doormat.

Yeah I meant unpredictable.

I agree with you though. I'm a nice guy but I don't take a girls **** tho.

[MrBrain-]

Im a nice guy...like honestly im a TOTAL NICE GUY.

Girls have called me 'marriage material'...'really deep' and all that ****.

But the bottom line is...you dont attract women by being nice...u show them what ur made of first and then LATER show ur nice. I used to do the opposite not realising they thought I must b a pushover or somthing.

this way they know uve got the BALLS 2 be nice...ur not just some desperate ***, its the way u are.

this is what women want.

So yeah, girls dont want badboys its just that niceguys give niceness 2 girls who DONT ****ING DESERVE IT, and it really means THEY REALLY WANT HER TO LIKE THEM.... if u only show ur nice to a girl who has EARNED UR ****ING TRUST...(HAD SEX WITH YOU>?) ull b sexy like a badboy but also hav strong relationships.

My 2 centz

[swimmd99]

be nice but also develop intermittent explosive disorder.....just to keep her on her toes

[hugs]

Im a nice guy...like honestly im a TOTAL NICE GUY.

Girls have called me 'marriage material'...'really deep' and all that ****.

But the bottom line is...you dont attract women by being nice...u show them what ur made of first and then LATER show ur nice. I used to do the opposite not realising they thought I must b a pushover or somthing.

this way they know uve got the BALLS 2 be nice...ur not just some desperate ***, its the way u are.

this is what women want.

So yeah, girls dont want badboys its just that niceguys give niceness 2 girls who DONT ****ING DESERVE IT, and it really means THEY REALLY WANT HER TO LIKE THEM.... if u only show ur nice to a girl who has EARNED UR ****ING TRUST...(HAD SEX WITH YOU>?) ull b sexy like a badboy but also hav strong relationships.

My 2 centz

that's somewhat true...the main thing that I agree with is that being a nice guy doesn't mean you're a push over...don't let the woman walk all over you. I don't want a wuss for a guy...I want one who isn't afraid to tell me how he feels or even put me in my place once in a while when I'm wrong...but he needs to be a gentleman and treat me with respect at the same time. THAT right there is a great kind of guy.

[parkway drive]

'Bad boys' are exciting and predictable, most 'nice guys' aren't.

*unpredictable .. nice guys are predictable . .

[parkway drive]

Women aren't attracted to nice guys, nice guys spend their whole life trying to give women what they say they want (which subconsciously is not what they want) and end up getting burnt. again. and again. Women marriage nice guys when the clock starts clicking and they are desperate to settle down. But with the nice boring guys they are never satisfied.

[1/2man1/2amazin]

it is because:

girls like to think they can change guys into what they think they should be like. nice guys usually dont need change where as bad boys do. once they go thru life dating bad boys realizing they arent gonna get anywhere in life, that they are gonna cheat, that they are gonna treat her like s*** and that absolutely nothing is gonna change... by that time they are mid 20's and wanting stability.

[hugs]

so not true! All women are different in what they like...I look for a nice respectful guy who is a bit predictable.....i can't handle spontaneous people..drives me crazy, and not "crazy" in a good way

[Jay Rawd]

so not true! All women are different in what they like...I look for a nice respectful guy who is a bit predictable.....i can't handle spontaneous people..drives me crazy, and not "crazy" in a good way

What you say might be completely different than what you really feel.

[hugs]

What you say might be completely different than what you really feel.

no, I do feel that way because that's why I've dumped the last few guys I've dated.

[Jay Rawd]

no, I do feel that way because that's why I've dumped the last few guys I've dated.

Notice that you STILL continued to date them.

it wasn't the last one, it was the last FEW, meaning plural.

[hugs]

Notice that you STILL continued to date them.

it wasn't the last one, it was the last FEW, meaning plural.

that's because they lied...when you date someone, you dont' know their personality right away.

[Jay Rawd]

that's because they lied...when you date someone, you dont' know their personality right away.

The fact that you fell for it means you weren't smart enough to tell the difference.

This is how badboy loving women are. They can't detect the BS.

[hugs]

The fact that you fell for it means you weren't smart enough to tell the difference.

This is how badboy loving women are. They can't detect the BS.

I just go for good looking guys (and some other criteria)....if a guy isn't a gentleman...he doenst' get a second date. If he plays games with me, he doesnt' get a second or third date. Most guys aren't jerks at first. And the worst problems they have they tend to hide until they get caught or until they think they've snagged you and you wont care.

and one time I did make the mistake of being in a relationship with a self proclaimed "bad boy" and I'd never do it again...not worth it.

[Jay Rawd]

I just go for good looking guys (and some other criteria)....if a guy isn't a gentleman...he doenst' get a second date. If he plays games with me, he doesnt' get a second or third date. Most guys aren't jerks at first. And the worst problems they have they tend to hide until they get caught or until they think they've snagged you and you wont care.

and one time I did make the mistake of being in a relationship with a self proclaimed "bad boy" and I'd never do it again...not worth it.

The problem is, they WERE playing games with you since you found out their true colors LATER. The fact that they weren't jerks when you first met them shows how good at the game they were to deceive you like this.

[parkway drive]

I didnt mean completely unpredictable i meant just at a comfortable level on the continuum

Unpredictable-----------------------------------------------------------Predictable

+ Jerk.........................................+ Alpha male...................................+ Nice guy

[stealth_swimmer]

Why do good girls want bad guys? Knowin that bad guys tell mad lies...

And why do dog n*ggas want a honey with class?

Sometimes you want more than just a honey with @ss.

[Jay Rawd]

Why do good girls want bad guys? Knowin that bad guys tell mad lies...

And why do dog n*ggas want a honey with class?

Sometimes you want more than just a honey with @ss.

English?

[Adam228]

I don't think that's always true.....I don't know many married people I'd call "bad boys/girls"....I think you just calm down once you get married.

I consider myself a "nice guy", I dont' really want to be a "bad guy", they are usually loosers.