I don't wanna be a nice guy.![]()
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04-19-2007, 08:35 PM #1
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04-19-2007, 09:00 PM #7
'Bad boys' are exciting and predictable, most 'nice guys' aren't.
"If you think about disaster, you will get it. Brood about death and you hasten your demise. Think positively and masterfully, with confidence and faith, and life becomes more secure, more fraught with action, richer in achievement and experience."
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Joanna Challenger :(
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04-19-2007, 09:25 PM #8**B.S. in Nutrition and Food Science**
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04-19-2007, 10:37 PM #12"If you think about disaster, you will get it. Brood about death and you hasten your demise. Think positively and masterfully, with confidence and faith, and life becomes more secure, more fraught with action, richer in achievement and experience."
-Swami Sivananda
Joanna Challenger :(
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04-19-2007, 10:57 PM #13
Im a nice guy...like honestly im a TOTAL NICE GUY.
Girls have called me 'marriage material'...'really deep' and all that ****.
But the bottom line is...you dont attract women by being nice...u show them what ur made of first and then LATER show ur nice. I used to do the opposite not realising they thought I must b a pushover or somthing.
this way they know uve got the BALLS 2 be nice...ur not just some desperate ***, its the way u are.
this is what women want.
So yeah, girls dont want badboys its just that niceguys give niceness 2 girls who DONT ****ING DESERVE IT, and it really means THEY REALLY WANT HER TO LIKE THEM.... if u only show ur nice to a girl who has EARNED UR ****ING TRUST...(HAD SEX WITH YOU>?) ull b sexy like a badboy but also hav strong relationships.
My 2 centz'I didn't know what to do, but she kept up with the sexual ass rubbing. My friend started yelling at me, and after like 10 ass rubs she began to pull her hips forward and slam her ass into me, hard. I stood there twiddling my thumbs and she kept doing it. She kept slamming, I kept twiddling. My friend groaned and shoved me her way, but I just stumbled. Her and her friends just walked off after that.'
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04-19-2007, 11:09 PM #15
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that's somewhat true...the main thing that I agree with is that being a nice guy doesn't mean you're a push over...don't let the woman walk all over you. I don't want a wuss for a guy...I want one who isn't afraid to tell me how he feels or even put me in my place once in a while when I'm wrong...but he needs to be a gentleman and treat me with respect at the same time. THAT right there is a great kind of guy.
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04-19-2007, 11:41 PM #16
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04-19-2007, 11:43 PM #17
Women aren't attracted to nice guys, nice guys spend their whole life trying to give women what they say they want (which subconsciously is not what they want) and end up getting burnt. again. and again. Women marriage nice guys when the clock starts clicking and they are desperate to settle down. But with the nice boring guys they are never satisfied.
Obsession is just what lazy people call dedication.
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04-19-2007, 11:50 PM #18
it is because:
girls like to think they can change guys into what they think they should be like. nice guys usually dont need change where as bad boys do. once they go thru life dating bad boys realizing they arent gonna get anywhere in life, that they are gonna cheat, that they are gonna treat her like s*** and that absolutely nothing is gonna change... by that time they are mid 20's and wanting stability.
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04-20-2007, 12:13 AM #25
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I just go for good looking guys (and some other criteria)....if a guy isn't a gentleman...he doenst' get a second date. If he plays games with me, he doesnt' get a second or third date. Most guys aren't jerks at first. And the worst problems they have they tend to hide until they get caught or until they think they've snagged you and you wont care.
and one time I did make the mistake of being in a relationship with a self proclaimed "bad boy" and I'd never do it again...not worth it.
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04-20-2007, 12:20 AM #26
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04-20-2007, 12:20 AM #27
I didnt mean completely unpredictable i meant just at a comfortable level on the continuum
Unpredictable-----------------------------------------------------------Predictable
+ Jerk.........................................+ Alpha male...................................+ Nice guyObsession is just what lazy people call dedication.
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04-20-2007, 12:25 AM #28
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Why do good girls want bad guys? Knowin that bad guys tell mad lies...
And why do dog n*ggas want a honey with class?
Sometimes you want more than just a honey with @ss."...that's the great virtue of the free market, of the private market. It enables people...who hate one another...who don't speak the same language...who would fight one another if they had the chance, to cooperate economically. We were able to deal with China when China was a communist state. Even though we thought that that was a terrible arrangement, we could still cooperate. And that's what markets enable people to do. They bring freedom with them."
- Milton Friedman
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04-20-2007, 12:29 AM #29
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I don't think that's always true.....I don't know many married people I'd call "bad boys/girls"....I think you just calm down once you get married.
I consider myself a "nice guy", I dont' really want to be a "bad guy", they are usually loosers.-Chris
"A person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person"
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