I asked the girl who was in relationship with my friend (they broke up last week) today if she can be my "sex buddy". No strings attached. She was like "I don't mind". I was like I'll meet you at 6 later on today. She was like "Oh sorry, I thought you meant right now. I have plans, can we do it tomorrow?" I was like, okay sure. So instead of fvccking I chose to have my sport practice (from 6-8). I wasn't thinking right but now I blame myself. I could've had some today.
Should I have suggested today or did I do the right thing by "letting her go" for tomorrow? Did she really have plans or she is like nervous confused or something like that since I'm pretty sure she hasn't had a "special" buddy, and I haven't either.
04-11-2007, 08:46 PM #1
What does it mean when a girl says "I don't mind"
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anyways back on topic. she could have had plans or could be nervous about it since she and your buddy broke up a week ago. there are plenty of different possibilities. dont get pushy with it or come off too strong, and dont be rude saying you just wanna **** her and nothing else. see how it goes tomorrow and let us know. good luck haha19yrs, 5'9", 190lbs, 12% BF, Bulking
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well since you said that you two had a past together i think she was going to fuk you. so hit it tomorrow. but know this fuk buddies usually turn into more. one of you will get feeling for the other, when the other one doesnt have them. facts of life, so if your willing to take that chance than i say go for it.
04-11-2007, 09:26 PM #8
dont get too passionate and romantic with the sex, dont be too affectionate, dont do too much kissing, occasionally you can be a little rude about it but dont be too pushy or too blunt with her. if you act like she means nothing more to you than a piece of ass you have either the chance of her getting offended and not wanting to do it anymore or it works out well for you. but just like gymnmc23 said you got risks involved if one or the other ends up getting feelings for the other19yrs, 5'9", 190lbs, 12% BF, Bulking
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1) Unless you've asked your friend about it, he is legally allowed to beat your head in with a baseball bat. They broke up last week.
2) Assuming that he's cool with it, you treat her exactly like you treat all your other friends. You are not in a relationship, capish? Hell, I was in an FB arrangement with a chick where I was trying to set her up by day - and if that didn't work out she was in my bed that night.
It's called **** buddy...so act like a buddy."Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so."
04-12-2007, 10:32 AM #13
"I don't mind" means yes... She's trying to tell you yes without sounding like a dirty whore.....
On another note, baning your buddys chick? Thats F*ck'd up, karma will get the best of you eventually......."Destiny is not a matter of chance. It is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved." - William Jennings Bryan
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04-13-2007, 09:45 PM #17
Ahh okay guys I am totally screwed right now.
We were suppose to do it yesterday and I confirmed if she was okay with it she said yeah. So I told her I'll come over her house at 12:00 midnight. We arranged everything on how she unlocked her window and stuff.
So I came in through the window at around 12:15 and she was sleeping. I woke her up and she was like she has a lot of tests and if we could do it tomorrow. I'm like okay sure thing.
So tonight I came over her house at 10 and she was still awake. I was like I'll see you in an hour. And she was like okay. So I came home took a bath and prepared everything then I came to her house at around 11:00 and she was sleeping. I was like "are you really sleeping again?" she was like "yeah."
i was like "oh okay". Then I just left but while I was leaving she said "I don't want to do it anymore". I was like "oh okay, its alright".
End of story. So any tips? Is she and her boyfriend getting back together? What are the chances of her telling her boyfriend (my friend) what I did?
Do you think its because I bugged her for 2 nights while she was sleeping that caused her to do this?
What did I do wrong?
My guess is, rather than "arranging" sex I should get her off-guard and seduce her. Correct?
Why I THINK I MESSED UP:
- I told her that I needed someone to ffvvvck with.
- So everytime i would say, are we going to ffvvvck tonight?
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- I told her that I needed someone to ffvvvck with.
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