Thanks to both for your support and suggestions!
A bit of follow up ...
I met with a personal trainer at the fitness center I attend, and gave him a short list of goals, those being:
- Weight loss
- Endurance
- Smaller midsection
- Increased bicep size/definition
- Increased leg size/definition
The last two are partly for me and partly for the fiancee

My joke is that I have a wrestler's physique, although unfortunately that wrestler is Mick Foley
He reiterated what you both had said for increasing weight to challenge muscle growth. Additionally, he recommended a "one one thousand, two one thousand" approach, which I think is properly called "slow reps." If strength failed, go to a lower weight ... but finish the number of reps. A few new exercises such as assisted dips and pull-ups were addded. So now I'm doing three sets of ten reps on each exercise. This strategy would be to build muscle. Next, he changed my cardio routine. He recommended ending each session with 15 minutes minimum on the treadmill to get the heartrate really up there, varying the speed intermittently.
(I'll post a more complete list of exercises and reps as soon as I bring 'em home)
The first few sessions were kind of painful! But I also found myself encouraged that I could actually do it. On a couple of occasions I said "oh why not" and increased the weight a bit more then just the usual 5-10 pounds ... and was shocked that I had little to no problem doing the reps! Increasing weight has helped me stay mentally focused, as I get bored easily, and the motivation of goals really keeps my mind into it.
Before I forget, here's my short list of supplements:
- ON 100% whey
- CE3
- Flax seed oil capsules
- ZMA
- GNC Mega Men Sport multivitamin
Shortly afterward, I set up a fitday.com account, just to see what my intake of protein/carbs/fat actually was. The first day I was astonished at how much fat I took in :O But that helped me fine tune the areas where I could cut the fat, which was my purpose. Daily averages for the last two weeks:
Calories ingested: 3065
Calories burned: 3855
Protein grams: 277 (37%)
Carb grams: 338 (43%)
Fat grams: 68 (20%)
Body weight is staying fairly steady around 280. But ... I can see differences in the midsection, and in small things like jiggle factor (chesticles no longer get all bouncy on bumpy roads LOL). I make sure to cover the daily minimum calories, but stay 500-1000 in deficit plus keep fat grams down.
Actually, I'm now beginning to have some clothing issues, and for once not due to belly fat. Some shirts and my jeans are starting to fit a bit too snug. This past weekend I burst the button off two separate pair of shorts (thankfully they stayed up, no need for a wardrobe malfunction of that magnitude), and had to get some pairs with larger waistbands. It feels like the main areas of growth are shoulders, chest, thighs, and buttocks. I'm wondering if I need to concentrate on more of a fat-burning mode, or just accept that I'm gonna get bigger.
Most of all, I suppose, is that I'm almost completely PAIN FREE and also able to do some things that were previously difficult due to numbness in my left hand and left foot. We're in the process of consolidating households, and I was able to unload a truck of garbage at the dump without even breaking a sweat. I wouldn't have thought some of these things to be possible a few years ago.
So anyways, thanks for indulging my run-on writing this morning, and I'll post more of the actual fitness routine & weights in the next few days. As always I will appreciate any fine-tuning suggestions, and am thankful for everyone who constantly shares their own experiences in this forum.
Have a wonderful Tuesday!