is one of the worst things you can do, unless you are deliberately trying to **** up your relationship, in which case, by all means, go ahead and ask her you dumb ****.
A few weeks ago I started seeing a girl I really like. I mean I'm falling hard for her. And in a way I'm curious to know how many guys she's slept with. But there is no way I'm going to ask her, and there are several reasons for this:
1) I'm afraid that it may have been a lot, and that could possibly change the way I feel about her, since by nature I'm a jealous person.
2) Right now this girl is perfect in my mind, I don't want anything to happen that would change this.
3) She may lie anyway, as girls often do, so what's the point of asking? (the "multiply by 2" axiom)
4) It's really none of my business anyway.
and most importantly
5) I realized that my sexual past in no way affects the way that I feel about her, and so likewise, why would her past affect how she feels about me?
So I guess the whole point of this thread is bros, no matter how curious you are about how many guys your girlfriend or wife has ****ed, don't ask her. Seriously, nothing good can come out of asking a question like that, it can only make things worse, unless you are pretty sure she is a virgin (I'm a senior in college, these are getting harder and harder to come by, unless you date ugly chicks) or she has only slept with a couple guys.
I can already predict one of the response types I will get to this thread. It will be along the lines of "Who cares how many guys she's slept with? I don't care if my girlfriend has ****ed 10 guys". Well, like I said, nothing good can come out of asking. If you're the type of person who won't care anyway, then why would you bother to ask? If you're the type of person who will be bothered by a response like that, than certainly don't ask. Seriously, there is no legitimate reason for asking a girl that question. Alright, I wasn't planning on writing this much. Just trying to help out my bros on bb.com. Peace fellas.