im 40, he's like 48/49
told him i was dating someone. we're drinking together and he's like you gotta get married and have kids, you need to have a kid, its important to have a kid, there's no life without kids etc etc, divorce her if you're not into it, but have a kid etc
are gen x the new boomers?
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04-26-2024, 09:55 PM #1
Older Cousin was Yelling at Me to Get Married and HAve a Kid
heart also wants what the dick wants
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04-26-2024, 09:59 PM #2
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04-26-2024, 10:09 PM #4
i told him i wanna play in the playoffs(metaphor for my line of work/passion) and i'm worried about bringing a kid into it. he told me that's dumb. i feel hyper focused and at peace with what im doing. a kid is a lot.
what the fuk would you know about anything tho?heart also wants what the dick wants
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04-26-2024, 10:12 PM #5
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04-26-2024, 10:42 PM #8
I wouldn't tell a man he needs to have kids unless I thought the world needs more men like him.
I'd take it as a compliment even if it's a nag.
But maybe your cousin is someone who made poor choices and is passing on what is bad advice coming from him I dunno lolThe closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
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04-26-2024, 10:46 PM #9
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04-26-2024, 10:53 PM #10The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
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04-27-2024, 12:19 AM #11
It depends on what kind of a kid, what kind of a wife, and what type of career etc.
If you have an easy healthy baby, wife that works and has a nice ass and loves you to death, and this hasn’t ruined your career, then family is great! But if you married a typical woman, and have a typical baby, of course you’ll be miserable.
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04-27-2024, 12:22 AM #12
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04-27-2024, 12:36 AM #13
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