My girlfriend made this whole pros and cons list about me, and I totally stumbled upon it by accident. She made it up about 8 months into our relationship, but I only just found it. She's all apologetic, saying she made it back when she didn't really know me that well, but now she's got me all figured out and a bunch of the stuff on the list isn't even an issue anymore.
Here's the lowdown on us: I'm a tech entrepreneur, and I'm adventurous. Plus, I've got this sweet passion for photography and I'm basically a knowledgable about a broad range of subjects but without the nerdy look. On the other hand, she's a doctor, a nerd, and doesn't really have a ton of hobbies. We're both just average-looking people.
Here's the list, please note that it's not modified in any way.
Red flags
I hate his humor
He doesn’t understand me
He lacks class
He’s not fancy
I don’t like his friends
Can’t associate with his parents and siblings
Hate the way he talks
Changes plans suddenly
Doesn’t pay attention to what I say
Not a doctor
Hate the nick names he uses
He won’t give me flowers to spontaneously suprise me
Whenever I pour my heart out he says something competing
The stuff he sends are not of good quality
Crooked teeth
Not tall and square made
Face is not square
Gave a hard time about children
Gives me a hard time if I don’t act like how he expects
I’m not obsessed with him
We have nothing in common to talk about
He has no hobbies like art, photography, not creative
I don’t want to shift right now. In a few years maybe
Alcoholic
Runs away from problems
I want soft cuddly dogs but he wants cane corsos
Doesn’t wear pink shirts
Doesn’t use his surname
Use 'a' at the end of his surname instead of 'e'
Green flags
Likes pets but is it the same taste?
Shifting to canada and secure future?
He’s rich
He’s good in bed?
He claims He’ll take care of the kids
He reads books
Clean and neat generally
If you were me, what would you do in this situation?
TLDR: My girlfriend made a pros and cons list of me
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04-25-2024, 10:38 AM #1
My girlfriend [30F] made a pros and cons list of me [31M] and I accidentally saw it
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Strong everything
edit: Found original thread lol
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...ns_list_of_me/
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Make a pro and con list for her as well, and don't list a single pro while slyly leaving it out for her to see. Assert dominance when she of course confronts you about it.
I was always looking at the finger pointing at
the moon. Now I'm just looking at the moon.
And theres no me looking. Theres just looking.
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