People always make eye contact with my GF but never with me (srs)

[GuineaDago585]

I’ve noticed for years whenever we go somewhere as a couple, whether it’s to a store, restaurant, festival or to socialize with strangers in any way, the people we’re talking to NEVER make eye contact or try to talk with me. A glance is the best I’ll get.

Instead they choose to communicate with her while I stand there. Granted, she’s naturally more charismatic and outgoing as most women are, but it gets annoying sometimes.

The other day we went to Starbucks and I started ordering while she was in the bathroom. The sloot taking my order was acting all intimidated. No small talk. No eye contact. Looking down. Sticking to the script. Then my girl come up and it was suddenly all smiles, the barista sloot complimented her outfit, wished us a great day. Complete 180° difference in service.

It’s not just women servers. My 75 year old neighbor is the same. He waves at me, that’s it. Whenever he sees her he’ll stop and have a 20 minute conversation.

Every fkin time.

The only exception to this pattern was when we went to an Asian restaurant and the FOB Asian sloot servers were ignoring her and flirting with me (ded fkin srs).

Usually my presence scares the chit out of normies.

Anyone else experience this chit?

[elterrible987]

yeah i get this all the time but Im intimidating. People ask me if Im a cage fighter or if Im in the hells angels.

[LuigiMiami631]

They want you bro. They want you to fuk them in the ass san Quentin style.

[GaryRidgway]

You're probably just a mogger.

[davik]

ive noticed people are more receiptive to me after i talk. if youre already talking and its bad, thats bad man.

[x-trainer ben]

Family told me that i give off this vibe which can be slightly unfriendly unapproachable; so i have to remind myself to put it away and be more friendly and carefree.

consider this....

[TheScapeGOAT]

They know you are a miscer

[FelixTheCat1919]

Welcome to being a dude

Also, lmao at being surprised that other men would rather stop and flirt with your wife than stop and shoot the bs with you. Did you just realize that people don't give a chit about men, and that men's thirst makes them do all kinds of stupid chit around women?

[JackyChin]

A single man alone is threatening to a lot of people.

Having friends or a spouse around makes you appear less of a threat.

[87dman]

It seems that people tend to talk to woman more, I have the same when out with my wife. I've just come to accept it and roll with it.

[Destor]

Would you rather interact with a girl or a guy if given the choice?

I’d rather interact with girls 99.8% of the time


Girls often give me more attention though, or a different type of attention even if it’s in lesser quantity

[_zman]

I have a lot of sisters; women always get the attention.

When I'm alone I don't even exist, and since I'm the lone wolf type, I prefer it. But when I'm out with my GF or sisters, there's always unwanted gazes and attention. Can't imagine how much that must suck, but most women like it.

[viccruise420]

Not really. I am kind and friendly with people. I smile and make eye contact, and people seem to like and appreciate that. Maybe it helps Im just a handsome chad, I definitely get the feeling sometimes that people are intimidated or uncomfortable talking to me at first but I just speak to them very calm and kindly and smile. People don't only talk to and look at my woman and pretend I dont exist. I cant think of a single time that has happened.

Sounds pretty Beta, SRS

When out with my wife I do way more talking and interacting with people than she does. It sounds like people see your lady as the boss OP. I would be concerned with that if i were u.