How do you cope when a new girl loses interest?

[Basedbaby]

When you hit it off with a girl and she looks great and seems like she’s an actual decent person and you think maybe this will finally be the one. Then she either ghosts you or loses interest how do you cope?

[sf813]

The same answer to everything:

Misc, fap, tv

[viccruise420]

srs? rule one never chase a female

when it comes to a ltr you choose one who chooses you

[SmokesLetsGo]

drink the pain away

[skinnyfat88]

Too busy with the other parts of my life that keep my body and mind healthy to over-invest quick.

Takes me many months to emotionally invest in anyone.

Keep your motivations in life diverse. If all you care about is finding love or w/e then you're going to appear needy, scare girls away, and end up disappointed.

[multiplemiggs]

Go find another one

[Basedbaby]

Too busy with the other parts of my life that keep my body and mind healthy to over-invest quick.

Takes me many months to emotionally invest in anyone.

Keep your motivations in life diverse. If all you care about is finding love or w/e then you're going to appear needy, scare girls away, and end up disappointed.

It’s not the only thing I care about it’s just the only thing I haven’t already accomplished I pretty much mog in all other areas

[DolphinPilot]

Don't get attached until she does, in the first place. Always choose someone who chooses you. I feel like what op is talking about is what happens when you put all your eggs in one basket

[OsPerez1996]

When you hit it off with a girl and she looks great and seems like she’s an actual decent person and you think maybe this will finally be the one. Then she either ghosts you or loses interest how do you cope?

Confront + Absorb any emotions, thoughts, realities.

Digest and Grow from the experience and live greater for it now.

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Then empower self w/ the Truth.

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Truth being;

Any life used being ("down or negative") is life never returned better used elsewhere

Perpetually Being a greater man and see how the "marketplace" of your selection of women increases in equivalence

~170million women in America alone

If she left/loses interest then she is simply not the one at that moment
(irregardless as to why)

Define what you sincerely want of a Woman/Wife/Life Partner and simply apply that lens
(when honest; most women won't actually fit)

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Cliffs:

Be Greater for the Experience. Grow + Learn from It.

Shine the Light of Your Life on Yourself to Perpetually Be a Greater Man.

"Marketplace" of Quality Women Therefore Expands

Know & Define What You Want and Sift Accordingly. Have Standard; Apply Standard.

Any/All Life Invested is Never Returned so Be Absolutely Intentional

Absorb Fully & Keep Being Greater.

Whatever emotion you have channel them upon yourself.

( PS: I have sobbed in the past due to a situation like this. No shame brother in anything. Absorb it! Just ensure you use all experiences to become a greater man as time continues. )

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Best OP!

Now you get to continue to explore and conquer! (srs)

[guest89]

You need to change your mindset and life.
- There is no 'One' woman. There are women that are compatible with you and those that aren't.
- You should always be physically, mentally and financially prepared to cut ties with a woman and find another one.



I've been with my current girl over 4 years. We are engaged. She ticks pretty much every single box I could think of. Cooks, cleans, does laundry, never had any issues contributing in any way I ask her. Never denies me anything I want. We'll likely get married and go on to have an even longer relationship then we've had. Even will pop out at least one or two kids with her. As she'll be a great mother.



But if something were to happen and I'd 'lose' her. Whether its via separation or death. I'll be balls deep in a little gym thot within 24 hours. And if she were to die. I'll collect my milli in life insurance on her and go on to have a great life filled with plowing fit sl00ts until I find another girl worthy of commitment. I'm even comfortable with the concept of combining assets/finances. Because I know in the even of a separation and 50/50 split. I'll still come out ahead in the long run. It won't even be a speed bump financially.



My girl and I have had this conversation. She knows if we were to be separated for any reason I'd be on with my life just about immediately. Because no matter what I'm going to succeed, live the life I want and have good times... Women lose respect for a dude a if she knows he depends on her for anything or shows any sign of weakness.

[TappingTheZen]

Move on to the next girl

[liftandsleep30]

When you hit it off with a girl and she looks great and seems like she’s an actual decent person and you think maybe this will finally be the one. Then she either ghosts you or loses interest how do you cope?

find another female to move on with

[DuracellBunny]

Dunno, it's never happened.

Women either like me a lot, or aren't interested.

[Sevenlionz]

Don’t put too much importance on any girl, especially in the beginning stages. Can be hard when she’s really attractive, mental match, fun, into you etc. But it’s key to stay detached

Keeping a rotation of girls or always even just texting another one in the meantime, so if you lose 1 it’s not the end of the world

Keep it at brah I can tell you’re improving a lot in this aspect

A wise man once said: “I do know one thing though. Bitches they come they go”

[steeperdolphin]

I lose interest first

[singlemom69]

“She ain’t yours it’s just your turn” - Abram Lincoln’s