save your insults, just trying to understand what could have possibly happened
-OP gets introduced to girl thru a friend
-she's smoking hot and does modelling
-we live on different coasts of the country, invite her to vegas
-OP pays for flights, hotels (separate rooms), all activities, ubers and food during 2 day trip
-we have a good time, have some connection, make her laugh, get a kiss on last day too
-didn't try banging because weren't talking too much over text before, it was moreso a first date
-we make plans to meet again and to fly her out to my town
-following day I message her how great it was etc and no response. Usually she would respond to my texts within an hour
-friend that introduced me tells me the girl and her mom got mad because I Was telling my friend (the mutual friend) about everything and was messaging him during the trip. The mom said I was making a show of her daughter and was super pissed. I did message him because he's my friend and deserves to know
any point salvaging this? Did I read something wrong?
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12-17-2023, 03:03 AM #1
Girl went NC after Vegas trip (wat do)
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12-17-2023, 03:11 AM #4
Definitely should have tried to bang. This isn’t a “first date” scenario, you flew this chick across the country. That’s really big srs
I can’t know exactly where it went wrong because I don’t get to see into the actual interactions I’m only getting your interpretation of it which is likely not a fully accurate depiction (respectfully)
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12-17-2023, 03:27 AM #8
Every situation is different, maybe you can salvage but I wouldn't know how.
Always keep trying to move things towards sex until they express any kind of discomfort and then thoroughly respect any boundaries they put up (do not be autistic and ignore non verbals)
This is what they expect from Chad, it's a trust building exercise. If you do not act this way then guess what they assume you are not?
This is 100% necessary with the really hot ones. I learned this the hard way and it still burns sometimes. I feel for you, good luck.
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12-17-2023, 05:01 AM #13
She saw me on Fremont St. and wanted to level up, sorry OP.
But on a serious note, it sounded like you didn't try to bang, and leaking like a ship to your boy on a play by play basis didn't sounded like it helped.Misc Firearms Crew
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12-17-2023, 05:01 AM #14
If this is true, I don't think there's any recovering. Look at it as an expensive lesson. Absolutely ridiculous to make that significant investment in a girl you're not even banging yet, come on. Def should have tried to smash on the trip at least.
Also your friend is ****ty for blowing you up like that, not that you needed any help.
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12-17-2023, 05:25 AM #21
Is this srs?
Never spend for a girl esp first date that you havent banged. WTF.
But that is all in the past now.
For now, tell your friend(her relative) and explain all and you want to reconnect with her. BUT dont expect much, move on. If she comes back, good.
She throws away all that cuz you told your friend? Unless you added that you stretched her pussy and all, then it is an overreaction.
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12-17-2023, 05:25 AM #22
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Negged.
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12-17-2023, 05:54 AM #23
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12-17-2023, 06:30 AM #24
i'm thinking her going nc is either because of something that happened during your visit together or from discussing you with her mom. sadly, the cliffnotes aren't enough to go by. this is as far as we go, and all we have are reliable(?) cliffnotes
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12-17-2023, 07:38 AM #29
pretty sure this IS NOT a troll...muh thoughts might explain
1. OP is asian/curry
2. femaloid is Asian/curry
3. mother of femaloid is asian/curry
so basically OP tried to forward a relationship respectfully. Girl probably didn't like him on the trip but made the best of it by being nice. calling girls relative may have had something to do with it but unlikely not much. IF she had been attracted to you she would be elated that you took her so seriously. However she wasn't attracted.
If she was attracted to you. she woulda tried to escalate. Don't worry about whether or not something you did was simp (it was). femaloids will THROW themselves at guys they are actually attracted to...and in a neutral territory like Vegas? cmon son!
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12-17-2023, 07:51 AM #30
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