Realized how distracted I was just carelessly being on there. Also realized I was pretty addicted to the validation.
Not gonna date or even entertain women until I’m at or extremely close to where I want to be in life srs
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Even with likes it’s only a temporary high / ego inflation when they match. Then if you go through the hoops and end up getting a date etc, it’s time money and I’m gonna end up drinking alcohol which messes with my goals. So best to put that all aside for now
Also sometimes I remember every sloot on dating apps has hundreds of dudes in their DMs which kinda pisses me off srs lol
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11-19-2023, 08:58 PM #11
Good. I did the same a while back. Low quality sloots for the most part anyways with almost nothing interesting about them. I realized it was a waste of time and the addictiveness of getting matches, random convos and whatever was meaningless. Idk what I was even looking for on there because most chicks that are legit marriage material probably aren't entertaining 1k men on dating apps for validation and sex. The dates I went on were brutal.
The older you get bro you'll notice how little the pleasures of life mean. Sex is great, but fukking random women becomes meaningless. Apply that to any bad habits like going clubbing and drinking, gambling, etc. All fruitless endeavors and it sucks your youth away into meaningless chit.
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11-19-2023, 09:52 PM #15
Literally no one gives a **** how many matches you have on hinge srs
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11-19-2023, 10:51 PM #22
That's one of the ultimate catch 22's of online dating.
Even when you match with someone you didn't completely mindlessly swipe right on (say you took the time to leave a hinge comment, and they matched with you), there's a very high probability it won't work out past meeting up a few times, if you meet up at all. It's a lot more work compared to reward than people think it will be when they sign up for it.
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11-20-2023, 01:08 PM #27
Because dating through apps is basically blind dating.
You could meet up a girl and be instantly turned off by her voice or vocabulary. There are so many factors that only reveal themself once you actually meet up that you always rolling the dice. Also, everyone on those apps is playing a numbers game. First date wasnt amazing, no second chances, lets just meet another 2-3 people this week. Thats the mentality. No one is even open to invest a little bit of time. Its like that dating show with the buzzer on the table.
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11-20-2023, 01:19 PM #28
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