Blows my mind how quickly sloots get over you

[plebmaximus]

if you have options you'd move on quickly too

[WiseOldApe]

So what? If the roles were reversed and the husband died young unexpectedly, the wife would have been riding a new dink by the time the funeral was over. Hell, the true black pill reality of the matter is, there's a damn decent chance she had already crossed lines she shouldn't have, because it seems like 90%+ of women in relationships do these days. She absolutely would have been hooking up with a new guy(s) within weeks of the funeral at a minimum, but you're gonna sit there and bust some guy's balls for getting a new wife 2 years after his first wife died in a car accident? What was he supposed to do, sit around crying and rotting for the rest of his life, whereas his first wife would have been slobbing new dongs well before the dirt settled on the grave had the roles been reveresed, or what?

Two years is plenty of time though - besides, once somebody dies, it's over for them, but you still have to live.

Although you could make the argument that some people never remarry after their partner dies, etc - those are rare cases.

if you have options you'd move on quickly too

That's not true - once you're in love with somebody you can't just move on, it does not work like that for many people.

In my eyes, most men are too inexperienced with women or at least not as experienced as their women to know that she doesn't love him as much as he loves her.

Most men think that just because a female placates him with her vagina every so often that she loves him at some 'deep' level - this is simply not true.

Hence the stories about men losing their job and then his wife initiates a divorce and disappears from his life - meanwhile she's crazy over some Chad ex-bad boy villain type.

[northernlights7]

Two years is plenty of time though - besides, once somebody dies, it's over for them, but you still have to live.

Although you could make the argument that some people never remarry after their partner dies, etc - those are rare cases.



that's not true - once you're in love with somebody you can't just move on, it does not work.

In my eyes, most men are too inexperienced with women or at least not as experienced as their women to know that she doesn't love him as much as he loves her.

Most men think that just because a female placates him with her vagina every so often that she loves him at some 'deep' level - this is simply not true.

Hence the stories about men losing their job and then their source of vagina.

My ex-wife definitely loved me a lot at one time. It's not even debatable.

You know what else isn't debatable? The fact that she had already secretly been moved on for months by the time she dropped the divorce bomb on me, and there was never any point in any of it where she had even the slightest intention of actually working through our problems and fixing the marriage. Her love for me vanished like a fart in the wind the moment she got pie in the sky ideas about some other bloke who she later admitted it was literally impossible for her to have a real relationship with, because I wasn't willing to give up my rights to my daughter so she could move away with her to be with the new guy. And even disregarding the fact that we had a kid, the entire situation was just absurd.

Yes, you read that right. When my ex divorced me, one of the first things she did was try to convince me to sign off on a passport for our kid (it requires both parent signatures to sign off on it for a kid to travel out of the country) so she could take her to go travel to African countries and chit like that with her. My response was basically this:

[WiseOldApe]

My ex-wife definitely loved me a lot at one time. It's not even debatable.

You know what else isn't debatable? The fact that she had already secretly been moved on for months by the time she dropped the divorce bomb on me, and there was never any point in any of it where she had even the slightest intention of actually working through our problems and fixing the marriage. Her love for me vanished like a fart in the wind the moment she got pie in the sky ideas about some other bloke who she later admitted it was literally impossible for her to have a real relationship with, because I wasn't willing to give up my rights to my daughter so she could move away with her to be with the new guy. And even disregarding the fact that we had a kid, the entire situation was just absurd.

Do you believe in God or have some type of Faith?

[gluon]

its biological in nature since they have a shorter expiration date than men

[DigDeeper1]

isn't the stereotype that guys get over girls quickly?

[WiseOldApe]

isn't the stereotype that guys get over girls quickly?

Yeah Chads do - not the average guy who falls head over pheels in love for a feminine enough girl who gives shim the time of day.

[DigDeeper1]

Yeah Chads do - not the average guy who falls head over pheels in love for a feminine enough girl who gives shim the time of day.

sounds like an average guy problem

[r0undNr0und]

cuz its for protection

imagine being some 80lb weakling

every man (average 180lbs) can dominate you

you gotta be related or suck their dick othgerwise you gonna get raped

[MeSoHawny]

Women get over the men they leave quickly. Its like a light switch with them. Any pain they say they experience is really just them having to deal with something uncomfortable for a while and most of it is for show so that they dont look like a bad person to others. Its also an opportunity for attention. The only time they come back is when things go south and they cant find better than you.

They dont really ever get over the men who leave them though, or die on them.

Men are a utility to women. We provide resources, protection, sex and security. When they can find a better option, you are done. This is how they are, dont hate them for it.

[NosyJossie]

This thread be like:

[mryamamoto]

A lot of women have a plan B, C, D, E, F, and G backup waiting on the go. Watch their actions, when flooded with messages by simps/men who they don't really desire - they never flat out reject them - they give their advances a lukewarm response and categorize them on a different section in their so called backlog or named list.

Plan B is someone who gives her butterflies/gets her wet, highest on the priority list. Someone next up, when the current man has left the picture.

Plan C is someone not as attractive as B, but is good enough, if B is not available or rejects them.

Plan D is the orbiter, a nice guy waiting in the line. etc etc.

[northernlights7]

Women get over the men they leave quickly. Its like a light switch with them. Any pain they say they experience is really just them having to deal with something uncomfortable for a while and most of it is for show so that they dont look like a bad person to others. Its also an opportunity for attention. The only time they come back is when things go south and they cant find better than you.

They dont really ever get over the men who leave them though, or die on them.

Men are a utility to women. We provide resources, protection, sex and security. When they can find a better option, you are done. This is how they are, dont hate them for it.

The reason they are hated for it is because they expect equal treatment as men while having none of the accountability that men have.

[TOUCHEDbyMany]

Women get over the men they leave quickly. Its like a light switch with them. Any pain they say they experience is really just them having to deal with something uncomfortable for a while and most of it is for show so that they dont look like a bad person to others. Its also an opportunity for attention. The only time they come back is when things go south and they cant find better than you.

They dont really ever get over the men who leave them though, or die on them.

Men are a utility to women. We provide resources, protection, sex and security. When they can find a better option, you are done. This is how they are, dont hate them for it.

They get over guys who leave them if they find better

[northernlights7]

They get over guys who leave them if they find better

The real black pill in all this is that women are never actually as into a guy as they claim to be except during the honeymoon phase of dating. Half the time they don't even realize it themselves until they're already seriously considering packing their bags and catching a ride out on the next dong they decide to hope on.

[MeSoHawny]

The reason they are hated for it is because they expect equal treatment as men while having none of the accountability that men have.

They are hated for it because men have become idealistic pussies who think women can love them for them rather than what they bring to the table.

Men need to wake up and realize that women are commodities. Start treating them as such.

Traditional relationships no longer exist. If they are traditional women, you can be a traditional man. If they are not traditional, WTF are you doing

[Ashfrolicious]

Two years is a long time though. A sloot would get a rebound immediately and officially be with a new guy in a month

Yep

Women will typically emotionally check-out prior to officially leaving the guy, and have back-up guys waiting for her to monkey branch to.

Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically.

[TOUCHEDbyMany]

The real black pill in all this is that women are never actually as into a guy as they claim to be except during the honeymoon phase of dating. Half the time they don't even realize it themselves until they're already seriously considering packing their bags and catching a ride out on the next dong they decide to hope on.

The guy said women dont get over men who leave them

This isn't true imo

Thoughts

[northernlights7]

The guy said women dont get over men who leave them

This isn't true imo

Thoughts

Women definitely get over men who leave them. The only difference is that they stay a bit butthurt that they let the guy initiate the breakup before they thought of doing it first. Srs. That brah is confusing that burtthurt with women actually giving a chit about the dude/relationship, which they never do when push comes to shove.

[northernlights7]

Do you believe in God or have some type of Faith?

I don't know. I mean kind of, I guess, but it's hard for me to have much faith in anything these days. I wish it weren't that way, but it is.

Wanna know what's even more F'd up? When my ex married me, we didn't do the religious thing, because neither of us were particularly religious. Then about 6 years into the marriage, she freaked out and began insisting we become religious. I was born and raised Catholic and had zero interest in trying to convert to something new, and she was raised some sort of protestant religion but was never really into it at any point based on what she said. So I said fine, conver to Catholocism and we'll do the good Catholic Christian family thing.

So she did. She went through the process of converting to Catholocism, which takes about a year for an adult to do. She pissed and moaned the entire time about how she felt like it was too much work, to which I said "hey do you wanna do this damn thing, or not? You're the one who pushed religion". When she was finally done, she insisted we get our marriage validated by the church, so we had a tiny short ceremony where the priest did just that. It was literally like a 3 minute process. We even did the stupid pre-marriage church marriage counseling bullchit and everything, and the couple who did that for us told the priest we're already a perfectly happy married couple so just get it over with and let us marry in the church. They even suggested that we were such a good couple that we should consider doing church marriage counseling for others, srs. Ofc my ex had a dogchit attitude about that...

Then she divorced me less than a year after all that. By doing the marriage in the church thing, by Catholic rules, I can never marry within the church again. The only way I could would to be to get the marriage anulled, which is one hell of a years long process, and not even a guarantee of anything panning out the way I wanted to. So on her way out, at the last second, she effectively made it impossible for me to ever be with a new woman of my own religion who is hellbent on doing stuff the traditional way in the church. I mean, I don't plan on ever getting married again anyway, but still.

[HarryDick]

It's called having options. Something most men do not have. That's why breakups hit men harder in most cases.

Meanwhile, the sloot can go out the night of the breakup and find a new man.

[6-SPEED]

Human traits that are best suited for survival are the ones that have been passed on from generation to generation and are present today. Thousands of years ago there probably were women that got strongly attached to their man, but then lost him and they took too long to recover thus were unable to acquire protection for themselves or any children and they died. The females that cared more about their own feelings and well-being and those of their children while not really caring as much about their man were able to survive and their children survived. This is very prevalent in women today, they care about what a man is doing for them that's benefiting them but not so much about the man himself. That's the reason the message to young men is "level up" if you want more dating options instead of just being a better person with good values and morals. Most women don't necessarily prioritize how good of a man you are, what they're most concerned with is how much can they benefit from you. It's only have they're sufficiently getting what they want from you will they start paying attention to if you're a good person.

[6-SPEED]

It's called having options. Something most men do not have. That's why breakups hit men harder in most cases.

Meanwhile, the sloot can go out the night of the breakup and find a new man.

Facts, but the trap for women is they typically just get used for sex while they "find" a new man. Women can't tell if a man is genuinely interested in them until after he gets what he wants from her (sex). Men learn the objective of the game is to tell women what they want to hear and make them feel how they want to feel until she's comfortable enough to have sex. But once a nut or a few nuts have been busted a lot of men are ready to move to the next piece of ass leaving that sloot with yet other body on her count and nothing to show for it.

[northernlights7]

Human traits that are best suited for survival are the ones that have been passed on from generation to generation and are present today. Thousands of years ago there probably were women that got strongly attached to their man, but then lost him and they took too long to recover thus were unable to acquire protection for themselves or any children and they died. The females that cared more about their own feelings and well-being and those of their children while not really caring as much about their man were able to survive and their children survived. This is very prevalent in women today, they care about what a man is doing for them that's benefiting them but not so much about the man himself. That's the reason the message to young men is "level up" if you want more dating options instead of just being a better person with good values and morals. Most women don't necessarily prioritize how good of a man you are, what they're most concerned with is how much can they benefit from you. It's only have they're sufficiently getting what they want from you will they start paying attention to if you're a good person.

Yep.

One of the biggest bullchit myths I've ever seen on the misc is the idea that a single father can impress women by being an awesome dad for their kid(s). You should absolutely want to be an awesome father for your kids, for the sake of the kids, and just being a decent human being yourself. But as far as how other women view that, they don't give a single chit that you're a good father. Hell I distinctly recall my ex-wife texting me about how I'm "a pretty good dad" to our kid so she wasn't going to push the courts to take my kid away completely like what happens to most dudes. That didn't stop her from divorcing me, destroying our family unit, and making our kid grow up dealing with a lifetime of issues that stem from growing up in a broken home situation.

[TryingMen]

Two years seems like a pretty long time though?? She'd want him to get over it, not spend half a decade wallowing. 2 years is a solid amount of time to move on

Two years is a long time though. A sloot would get a rebound immediately and officially be with a new guy in a month

To the point of being engaged? WTF? No. You two seem to be completely glossing over that this dude is engaged 2 years after it happened. Not 2 years and he's starting to get back out there finally.

It's like she must have died and maybe 4-5 months later he's dating someone and then 1.5 years after dating proposes (which even that feels rushed under normal circumstances).

Honestly if my wife who I was supposed to love and expect to spend the rest of my life with suddenly died I probably wouldn't even start dating any earlier than 2 years after it happened. Let alone be engaged again already.

She was a nice girl too. I never knew him but he seems like a prick to me. Just being honest. You two are confirmed ph aggots for trying to give this guy a pass for being engaged 2 years after his f*cking wife suddenly died on him. 2 years is barely long enough to be dating someone to propose under normal circumstances.

[TryingMen]

So what? If the roles were reversed and the husband died young unexpectedly, the wife would have been riding a new dink by the time the funeral was over. Hell, the true black pill reality of the matter is, there's a damn decent chance she had already crossed lines she shouldn't have, because it seems like 90%+ of women in relationships do these days. She absolutely would have been hooking up with a new guy(s) within weeks of the funeral at a minimum, but you're gonna sit there and bust some guy's balls for getting a new wife 2 years after his first wife died in a car accident? What was he supposed to do, sit around crying and rotting for the rest of his life, whereas his first wife would have been slobbing new dongs well before the dirt settled on the grave had the roles been reveresed, or what?

So you make a thread criticizing women for doing this but then when I give you an example of a guy doing it your response is encouraging him saying he shouldn't sit around crying and rotting for the rest of his life.

I already know you're a trolling ph aggot though so I figured this would be your reaction.

[northernlights7]

To the point of being engaged? WTF? No. You two seem to be completely glossing over that this dude is engaged 2 years after it happened. Not 2 years and he's starting to get back out there finally.

It's like she must have died and maybe 4-5 months later he's dating someone and then 1.5 years after dating proposes (which even that feels rushed under normal circumstances).

Honestly if my wife who I was supposed to love and expect to spend the rest of my life with suddenly died I probably wouldn't even start dating any earlier than 2 years after it happened. Let alone be engaged again already.

She was a nice girl too. I never knew him but he seems like a prick to me. Just being honest.

What do you want us to say?

If a woman's husband dies, she'll be sucking a new dude off within weeks of his death. That's assuming she wasn't already up to those types of shenanigans behind his back on occasion while he was still alive.

Women initiate 85% of divorces (80% in general, 90% if "college educated"). A majority of these divorces are over incredibly stupid, petty bullchit that could have easily been resolved if the women didn't have such awful attitudes and a "grass is greener on the other side" mentality towards life.

Yet you think it's some grave injustice that a widower of a man whose wife died tragically would dare to try dating new women 4 or 5 months after she was gone? Give me a break, dude. Back before I got red pilled to hell and back I thought like that too, but at some point you need to come to grips with reality. Women are well known to be ruthless with disloyalty when it is convienent for them, but you're sitting her acting like a dude has to spend years being a lonely mess by default if his wife dies, even though literally no one bats an eye when a bird is already openly dating a new dude a month or two after their husband dies or they divorce the poor bastard.

[Jasonw1178]

On a more srs note, once me and a girl are over, her moving on quickly is better because it's so much worse whe she doen't. My ex, we have been broken up for over a year, but I srs am afraid that if I get serious with someone new she will try to mess it up. Something happened not long ago that made me know she will.

[chalup]

Bruh they don't get over you quicker, they monkey branch when the first thing goes wrong. And slowly start moving their emotions over to a different avenue so when they DO leave it looks like they did it on the drop of a dime.

[northernlights7]

On a more srs note, once me and a girl are over, her moving on quickly is better because it's so much worse whe she doen't. My ex, we have been broken up for over a year, but I srs am afraid that if I get serious with someone new she will try to mess it up. Something happened not long ago that made me know she will.

Why do you still associate with your ex at all so as to give her an opportunity to "mess it up" for you if you get with a new woman? If you don't have kids with her, then go delete that crazy bitch off all social media, block her number, and all the works of permanent North Carolina and be done with it. Unless you have kids with her (i.e., the only thing that would force you to maintain some sort of contact with her on some level), it's your own fault that you're still dealing with her chit a year after the breakup.