any advice on what I can do? These are the type of girls that I match with online or that are attracted to me in real life
Whereas the girls Im attracted to are the ones that work out, have nice teds, aren't out of shape etc. I lift everyday, dress nice, can keep a convo going, have my own place/car etc just need to work on my game.
What am I supposed to do to improve my odds so I can actually get girls I'm attracted to instead of settling for this BS?
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08-01-2022, 12:28 PM #1
Not attracted to girls in my league (pic)
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if you're that flawed in the looks department, gotta work on other things...status, $$$ etc
honestly though most guys can also up their 'looks' by a solid 2pts if they just bother to properly take care of themselves....get in shape, drop down to a proper bf % so you get some structure to your face...wide shoulders, small waist ratio etc
go to a proper Barber, get a relevant hairstyle, get facial hair properly styled/shaped. Dress better
the avg guy (if bothering to leave the house and look about a bit) fails so hard on most of the above.
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Man, I can see the potential in that pic. She'd be a fukkin dime if she wasn't so chunk.
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Dont look to find women online.
It is nothing but a way for women to overvalue themselves and get attention.
Go old school and just approach in the street in stores, wherever. just in public like grand dad did."To be a warrior is not a simple matter of wishing to be one. It is rather an endless struggle that will go on to the very last moment of our lives. Nobody is born a warrior, in exactly the same way that nobody is born an average man. We make ourselves into one or the other."-- Carlos Castaneda
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We don't know what you look like OP, you really gotta post a pic so we know what you're working with.
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Tough chit, so it anyway. Does fear stop you from doing everything? Have you never faced a fear before?
They're just women. They won't beat you up if they don't want to date you. That fear is currently making you unhappy. Why let things remain that way.
Get over that fear and you WILL eventually find a girl. That's not even bs, it's a guarantee. It's a numbers game. Online is 100% skewed in a woman's favor. IRL is not. We all got that thing in is that girls love. Get in front of enough women, and it's only a matter of time before one picks p what you're putting down 100% srs***The Misadventires of Gandalf the Black***
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