Gf VERY upset I’m not going to a wedding with her

[RealLifeAlpha]

Been with her for a little over a year


One of her best friends is getting married in late July across the country and flight + hotel and all that **** is 2k+

LOL no thx Jeff, never even met this girl (because she lives in Seattle and we live on east coast)


Am I being a **** for not going? She offered to pay for everything and I still said no lol (ded fkn Srs)

[LethalGunz34]

Alpha AF. In b4 she bangs the groomsmen.

[WoofieNugget]

If she's willing to pay why wouldn't you go? I'd never pay to travel for people I'd never met but if she'll cover it then go.

[RealLifeAlpha]

Alpha AF. In b4 she bangs the groomsmen.

I know that seems like the logical thing for her to do but I’m the second peen she’s squatted (ded fkn Srs)

Obviously anything is possible tho

[Babayagawick85]

If shes willing to pay why not? Just go dude

[Dre4]

If she's paying for everything then yeah you're on that ****gy time cuz.

Plus if she goes alone, 99% chance there will be a dateless Chad who will seek her out and smash out of spite.

[RealLifeAlpha]

If she's willing to pay why wouldn't you go? I'd never pay to travel for people I'd never met but if she'll cover it then go.

Bc I don’t want to waste the ****ing weekend at some wedding in Seattle where she’s a bridesmaid and I know nobody — huge ****ing hassle, have to get someone to watch my dog, no interest whatsoever in going (ded fkn Srs)

[RealLifeAlpha]

God damnit so I guess I’m a *** for not going (ded fkn Srs)


Feels bad man

[azumi121]

Bc I don’t want to waste the ****ing weekend at some wedding in Seattle where she’s a bridesmaid and I know nobody — huge ****ing hassle, have to get someone to watch my dog, no interest whatsoever in going (ded fkn Srs)

If she’s paying then you’re just being a ****. Just go you tool

[HayZues Christi]

I know that seems like the logical thing for her to do but I’m the second peen she’s squatted (ded fkn Srs)

But not the last.

Let that sink in.

[Babayagawick85]

Bc I don’t want to waste the ****ing weekend at some wedding in Seattle where she’s a bridesmaid and I know nobody — huge ****ing hassle, have to get someone to watch my dog, no interest whatsoever in going (ded fkn Srs)

Bro my advise from somehow who is married..go


Youll
Meet new
People and socialize.

[badreligion]

Enjoy masturbating and having your gf getting plowed while you stay home.

[RealLifeAlpha]

But not the last.

Let that sink in.

It’s possible

Very upset I’m not going to this wedding and that I haven’t proposed yet (ded fkn Srs)


Almost the PERFECT recipe for her to catch pipe that weekend

[LethalGunz34]

Go for the food.

[batmanman]

Are you intimidated by conversation with people you don't know?

[Dre4]

God damnit so I guess I’m a *** for not going (ded fkn Srs)


Feels bad man

If you truly value the relationship in all seriousness you need to go. Not going can kick off a domino effect of negative events and can be used against you. I know weddings in general kinda suck and having to travel for them sucks even more but following through will earn you more trust from her in the long run.

[Evolutionary1]

I wasn't invited

[RealLifeAlpha]

Are you intimidated by conversation with people you don't know?

No not at all — I have to do that for a living

I’m in sales and take out entire teams of people I don’t know out for drinks dinner etc


I just seriously don’t feel like getting on a 6 hour flight to spend 48 hours in some ***gggy city at some dumb wedding (ded fkn Srs)

[EEBreh]

Could you seriously see yourself dating this girl for a long time?

If so, go. Especially if she is paying.

[Babayagawick85]

It’s possible

Very upset I’m not going to this wedding and that I haven’t proposed yet (ded fkn Srs)


Almost the PERFECT recipe for her to catch pipe that weekend

Buddy!

Go!!

If you feel strongly about this girl..go!


Dont listen to some of the idiots. The closest thing they have had to a relationship is the right hand.

[cjr169]

He said no to attending the wedding

To pound town his gf is heading

She’ll be dancing with brads

And sucking off chads

Let’s laugh at the tears he’ll be shedding

[WoofieNugget]

Bc I don’t want to waste the ****ing weekend at some wedding in Seattle where she’s a bridesmaid and I know nobody — huge ****ing hassle, have to get someone to watch my dog, no interest whatsoever in going (ded fkn Srs)

You sound like a bit of a douche, NGL. Go meet new people, have some good hotel sex and get drunk and have fun.

Plus, if she's a bridesmaid and pissed that her boyfriend isn't there all it takes is a guy with good game while she's drunk and she'll smash for sure.

[HayZues Christi]

It’s possible

Very upset I’m not going to this wedding and that I haven’t proposed yet (ded fkn Srs)


Almost the PERFECT recipe for her to catch pipe that weekend

Honestly, I probably wouldn't go either.

1. Would be uncomfortable letting her pay for everything. Maybe I'd split it with her, but then I'm blowing a G doing something I don't want to do.

2. Not wasting a beautiful summer weekend

3. Could give 2 fuks about a girl cheating. If that were the case, you lost absolutely nothing

[hydraides]

Me not going to wedding with my last girlfriend, was the start of the end of the relationship (Srs). If you don't go with her she's going to resent you forever (srs) and want to break up with you.

[jesb7826]

I’d go just for the simple fact you know your gonna deal with a lot of **** about it after the wedding when she gets back.

[RealLifeAlpha]

Honestly, I probably wouldn't go either.

1. Would be uncomfortable letting her pay for everything. Maybe I'd split it with her, but then I'm blowing a G doing something I don't want to do.

2. Not wasting a beautiful summer weekend

3. Could give 2 fuks about a girl cheating. If that were the case, you lost absolutely nothing

lol yea man — I do love her but seriously can’t be bothered going to this ****


I told her I love you, but part of being in a relationship is being able to say “No” to ****

If me not going to this wedding is a deal breaker then peace lmao (ded fkn Srs)

If I went I would just be in a **** mood the entire weekend because I felt pressured into going

[Evolutionary1]

You sound like a bit of a douche, NGL. Go meet new people, have some good hotel sex and get drunk and have fun.

Plus, if she's a bridesmaid and pissed that her boyfriend isn't there all it takes is a guy with good game while she's drunk and she'll smash for sure.

I think op would rather a twink

[TonyTriangles]

But not the last.

Let that sink in.

based

[Ironmanlet]

you are not going for the bride, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know her. You are going for your gf.

If she is a keeper you are doing it wrong.


also, lol at traveling and new perspective being a waste of a weekend. You are just going to sleep until at least noon, beat off, and get drunk.

[TonyTriangles]

Go for the food.

or the booze