30 years old sloot is really giving me a hard time

[CityJaeger]

Am I really that desperate ?

30 yo sloot I met online : we had our first date last week-end and it went pretty well although there was no physical contact.

I invited her for a second date scheduled for tomorrow, to have dinner at a fancy restaurant. She accepted.

However I can't reed the sloot properly :

-She's giving quite blatant signs of disinterests : slow replies, replying with dumb emojis like "������������" , can't entertain a discussion and falls asleep in the middle of one without saying "good night".
-I've got her on whatsapp and she did not even bother to have a profile pic.
-2 days can go without contact of any sort from her end unless I reach out to her.

Question for the veteran misc : What does she want and why keep on accepting my invites when she clearly is not that interested ?

Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

Wut do ?

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.

[tripod29]

Fancy restaurant for 2nd date for a sloot showing no interest? Ay ay captain.

[batmanman]

The good thing to do for society is ignore these women and let them live the rest of their life alone

But you just gotta give her the dick and she'll start bugging you day and night

Sloots can't think into the future and only do what they feel like, so if shes feeling lazy she isn't gonna think "I should really text him so he thinks I gaf" shes just gonna sit on the couch and eat cookies and watch youtube reality TV

[Celsus]

Invite her over instead

[l2ambo]

Am I really that desperate ?

30 yo sloot I met online : we had our first date last week-end and it went pretty well although there was no physical contact.

I invited her for a second date scheduled for tomorrow, to have dinner at a fancy restaurant. She accepted.

However I can't reed the sloot properly :

-She's giving quite blatant signs of disinterests : slow replies, replying with dumb emojis like "������������" , can't entertain a discussion and falls asleep in the middle of one without saying "good night".
-I've got her on whatsapp and she did not even bother to have a profile pic.
-2 days can go without contact of any sort from her end unless I reach out to her.

Question for the veteran misc : What does she want and why keep on accepting my invites when she clearly is not that interested ?

Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

Wut do ?

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.

I paid for a fancy dinner when I was 19 once... Never again.

[Motiviert]

Ass pound her sister or one of her friends.

[Bigbuster1]

You only went on one date, going on the second... WTF do expect from her? You guys barley know each other.

She's acting normal and you're acting weird. You're putting WAY too much stock into someone you barley know.

Disregard everything she tells you she wants or expects. Woman have no idea what they want, and usually want the exact opposite of what they say.

Relax and slow down a little bit. You have your 2nd date set already. There's not much to do except to keep in touch a bit until the date.

Just go at your own pace, and have her fall in line with you, not the other way around.

After this 2nd date, you have to have her over at your place for the 3rd.

Women have the power up until you bang them. Once you bang them, you own them are now in control of establishing a relationship or not.

[HokieBrah]

What is wrong with you? I don't casually text girls until like 4th date+. Before that it's just "Hey wanna hang Saturday" and whatnot

[OliverHeldens]

Personally I'd go for someone else. I don't have the attention span for a girl who goes days between messages. But at least she probably isn't a sloot if she's decent in person.

It seems like you know what her situation is. If you like her and want to wife her in 6 months, go for it. It doesn't sound like you're going to get laid after the next date though.

[GordonXXX]

Am I really that desperate ?

30 yo sloot I met online : we had our first date last week-end and it went pretty well although there was no physical contact.

I invited her for a second date scheduled for tomorrow, to have dinner at a fancy restaurant. She accepted.

However I can't reed the sloot properly :

-She's giving quite blatant signs of disinterests : slow replies, replying with dumb emojis like "������������" , can't entertain a discussion and falls asleep in the middle of one without saying "good night".
-I've got her on whatsapp and she did not even bother to have a profile pic.
-2 days can go without contact of any sort from her end unless I reach out to her.

Question for the veteran misc : What does she want and why keep on accepting my invites when she clearly is not that interested ?

Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

Wut do ?

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.

1. dis a white bish or no?
2. why u do dinner on second date like a simp beta cuck? "fancy" dinner? u really dun goofed.

[CityJaeger]

You only went on one date, going on the second... WTF do expect from her? You guys barley know each other.

She's acting normal and you're acting weird. You're putting WAY too much stock into someone you barley know.

Disregard everything she tells you she wants or expects. Woman have no idea what they want, and usually want the exact opposite of what they say.

Relax and slow down a little bit. You have your 2nd date set already. There's not much to do except to keep in touch a bit until the date.

Just go at your own pace, and have her fall in line with you, not the other way around.

You're probably right brah. I'm used to sloot showing me signs of interests so when one acts aloof it tends to piss me off a bit.

Although deep down I'm pretty convinced that I'm nothing more than a distraction or a rebound to her. Her last breakup is still quite fresh, I doubt she's ready to jump back in the pool this early.

[OliverHeldens]

I paid for a fancy dinner when I was 19 once... Never again.

Lol, I pay for plenty of fancy dinners. But it's because I want to eat and get drunk at a nice restaurant. Not because I want to impress the girl. As soon as you start treating her like a princess is when she begins acting up. She's just there to provide me entertainment in exchange for me paying for her meal.

[MyBaddBrah]

"I've been noticing some things about you lately <her name>... Are you disinterested in doing this? Or are you just trying to phuck?"



Report back.


Yes, approaching it like you've been doing it is a waste of time.

[CityJaeger]

What is wrong with you? I don't casually text girls until like 4th date+. Before that it's just "Hey wanna hang Saturday" and whatnot

It's 2022 brah : texting is free. If you don't have a sloot blowing your phone everyday or so then you're doing something wrong.

She's not even the hottest girl that I've ever dated. (interest level above 50% for sure because she passed the physical test). I'd say she's a 6,5 or 7ish with some good make-up.

[CanuckGame]

Just lmao at trying to jester max a glowless 30 year old.

[CityJaeger]

Just lmao at trying to jester max a glowless 30 year old.

Pussy hyper inflation.

I Have to chase glowless 30 years old sloots just to get a chance.

I'm pretty sure that she has plenty of options at that.

[drvillain]

-who turns down a fancy free dinner?
-shes 30 years old... better than sitting at home doing nothing



You're giving too much for someone who hasnt earned it

[clangsta]

please tell me you are not going to pay the full bill at the fancy restaurant

[LordBroly]

I know you're calling for advice from "veterans" but I figured I'd throw in my 2c...

Am I really that desperate?

Apparently.

I invited her for a second date scheduled for tomorrow, to have dinner at a fancy restaurant. She accepted.

I don't know if taking a girl who's being hot and cold out to a fancy dinner is a good idea. Why are you willing to drop so much cash and have a date in a stuffy environment with someone who doesn't even seem interested in conversation? Why not go do something cheaper and more informal like ice skating or something? Like l2ambo, been there and fuk that.

She's giving quite blatant signs of disinterests : slow replies, replying with dumb emojis like "������������" , can't entertain a discussion and falls asleep in the middle of one without saying "good night".

In my limited experience, this is a huge red flag. If a girl is into you, she's not going to take ages to reply, and she'll actually entertain conversations with you because she wants to get to know you and has some level of respect for you. That said, I think it's best to keep texting to a minimum in the beginning. Do you guys have interesting conversations in person, or is she withdrawn then as well?

Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

This is another massive red flag, dude. Don't even know what else to say. Would you marry her after 6 months? If not, then I don't know why you're even wasting time with her. From everything you've said she doesn't sound interested.

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.

Based on how little interest she seems to be showing, I would say just cut your losses. I think you usually have a good idea of whether or not a girl is into you after a date and some conversation. I don't see the point in trying to invest in a girl that seems so disinterested, and her marriage anxiety just sounds like a disaster in waiting.

You can do better, dude. srs.

[CaliSuperSport]

This seems like textbook: she enjoys the attention and the backup plan but isn't super interested in you.

I think if you put your best foot forward and a girl still isn't that interested, it's best to cut it off sooner rather than later. As long as you're not getting in your own head and doubting yourself or being bitter, because then that's also a you problem.

[OptimusTrajan]

Free meal

[JayJ350]

I'd try to get laid or just move on with my life.

[CityJaeger]

I'd try to get laid or just move on with my life.

Doubt it will go to second or third base before date 6 or 7 : at least if she's wife material I don't expect her to give up the pussy so easily.

I'll go for the kiss Saturday and if she rejects me I'll move on.

[LobsterRageFist]

The guy before you probably wasted a lot of her prime years and got a lot of free/cheap sex and she's mad that he got off the hook so easy and now she's going to take it out on you.

If you are 31 and legit have the physique in your avi you don't have to tolerate this B.S. for one second, but something makes me think you are a glutton for punishment and kind of like it.

Do what makes you happy OP.

[BronsonStorm]

Why are you treating her to a fancy dinner on the second date? Just go out for drinks.

Also you sound pretty needy, once you've got the date set you don't need to keep checking in with her for chats and saying "good night". She's said she's up for seeing you again and it's only been one date...

[TimeTravelerBro]

Tyrone out here trying way too hard. Smash and pass the sloot for playing mind games with you

She clearly isn't wife material

[ShakeBrah]

Sounds like she’s just stringing you along


Do one of the following:
Go NC
Fuk her
Be direct about what she’s doing
Or quit being a bish and take it as it is

[CityJaeger]

Tyrone out here trying way too hard. Smash and pass the sloot for playing mind games with you

She clearly isn't wife material

Maybe she is, albeit a bit too old to my taste.

[Jestbrah]

Doubt it will go to second or third base before date 6 or 7 : at least if she's wife material I don't expect her to give up the pussy so easily.

I'll go for the kiss Saturday and if she rejects me I'll move on.

bruh I learned in my hundreds of first dates that if a girl doenst kiss you on the first date she is either not interested or has issues not worth dealing with. If you didnt kiss her you looked like a chump.

She sounds like she probably has lots of issues and is going to be very stressful to date and I don't see what your goal is here. Does she have anything super interesting about her or are you just simping because shes not a sloot and looks hot and gave you attention?

[WishIWasJawBrah]

Is she Morrocan?